ya definitely use that dance as a way to get to know him. go to a bunch of things that u know he'll be at tooHow to become friends with guys... HELP!?
yay!! im so glad u guys are getting to know each other. haha little stalkers
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these days ppl use facebook n msn..
could u get those details first?
or wait till the dance n speak 2 him more there...
then maybe set some plans where u can use public transport...
set him straight and control how things go. plain and simple. if he dont like it. kick him to the curve
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hey hun well to get to know someone you have to take to him you obviously have his eye if he waves to you in the hall at school next time you see him in the hall wave over to you so you can say hi and chat a little maybe say something about the dance tell him you dont have a date yet get his number and give him yours so you can find out what he likes and he can find out what kind of things you like well hun i hope this help you a little good luck hope all goes well
Ask him to the dance! you don't want him to think that you only want to be friends! You should go and talk to him or give him signs like eye contact and cute smiles! Or make your girls spead rumors about you liking him! That will get his attention!
he'll know whats up and maybe if he has the balls he'll come and talk to you! Then after that get to know him! of course you can't just date someone you don't even know! You gotta know them before you date them!
And trust me. You don't want him waiting towards the end where he only wants to be your friend and only wave to you in the hall ways... once your friends you'll never want to do the dew! haha j/k about that but you get the point right?
I've made lots of friends girls and don't ever thought about doing them or dating them because I got to know who they were and became good friends with them even tho i know they want me or like me!
Just walk up and talk to him!
Get to know him better by talking to him a lot more and ask him a lot of questions about himself: Like favorite colors, sports, etc.
Eventually, if you talk to him enough, he'll start liking you because you pay attention to him more than other girls do.
Ask him for help or advice on something that is still developing and not just a one-time answer. For example, once I had a guy help me pick out a halloween costume and sent him links of some ideas. Or, ask him what kind of ipod/television/laptop you or your family should get. Or to help you pick out a new fish for your tank, or show you how to skateboard or do some homework.
Don't pick something interpersonal like a relationship issue...guys don't want to be counselors and they suck at it anyway. Whatever it is you pick, make sure it doesn't involve you talking all the time...let it put him in the spotlight. Make sure it is something you really want to know. If you don't want him, it will be easy to end it because the issue will be resolved (you will have learned, or selected, or repaired whatever you asked for help with). If you do want him, you will know. If you still can't decide, try some outing together like volunteering or cleaning out his parent's garage.
Guys like to be watched doing something they can succeed in...not to just be on the spot in a social situation with you.
Hahaha awww I totally know what you mean! I'm a teenager too! What I did was since we are teenagers everyone has I'M right? I kinda got to know my boy friend through IM . I would say hi and say what's up? And sometimes he would make small talk and so would I...then we started talking about school,teachers, kids at schoool, and started to ask questions. Then each day I learned something about hhim, everyday we started to talk and actually have a convo! :D at first it was kinda ackward for me and I was trying to stoppp...but I didn't and now we are really good bfs and gfs :D btw don't every gossip or talk behind a friends back with your crush xD they don't really care about it and they'll think your boring and won't talk to you as often ;D
Anyways I realllly hope I helpped!:D
Goood luck! :D and talk to him a lot before the dance and then ask him if he is going and then you should hang out with him ;D that's the best way because even though it might feel ackward to talk to him face to face because your so used to talking him on the comp but if you guys have fun and laugh a lot then you become even more closer to him:D GOOD LUCK%26lt;333
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