I've known her for a couple months now and had a chat about becoming good friends. But she says that it can't happen over night and I understand that. I think the problem is that we live far apart and go to two different schools and only see each other @ work on the weekends. How can I become a good friend of hers? I mean you can't ';force'; someone to be a good friend of yours.............How do you become a ';good'; friend with a girl?
How you ask? You have to be nice and kind and caring of her feelings above yours but don't put your feelings in the vault. You have to show her that you like her with actions of kindness like carrying her heavy loads or letting her go ahead through a door or you offering to help her on something she is struggling with. Overall, be a gentleman. It is what girls want now adays.How do you become a ';good'; friend with a girl?
If you're looking for a romantic thing with this girl forget about being a good friend. That is romantic suicide. Once a friend it is soooo difficult to switch over to romance.
Hmm....Luckily u are not chasing her. Just be friends, then sometimes just spend time visit her. Try talk to her more often and let her feel that u r safe...
You need to pay attention to her, learn everything you can about her...her likes/dislikes. Remember the things she tells you. Provide for her when she is in need. Listen to her.
Just hang out, talk, and do nice things for her. You don't have to take it overboard though. Just do what you would with your other friends except be a little nicer about holding doors or buying the dinner.
lat time do it's work, don't roach it lat it jest happen
Sunday, December 11, 2011
How do i become friend with a girl?
im in middle school and there is this girl id like to be friends with but i dont know anything about her how would i become her friend?How do i become friend with a girl?
if your in any classes with her, maybe you'll end up doing group work. then you could get to know what she's like a little more. This would give you a chance to talk as well.
the best way is just to be nice and say hi to her when you see her.How do i become friend with a girl?
I was shy in middle school, so I always waited for a person to come and talk to me. If you ever end up by her, say hi to her and start a conversation. Get her e-mail or phone number if all goes well. :]
Most girls like outspoken guys if shes preppy then she'll go for boys with braces and skinny boys in sports also if she has a boyfriend lay off or there will be pain and trips to the guidance counselors it sucks big time has she even looked at u.
if your in any classes with her, maybe you'll end up doing group work. then you could get to know what she's like a little more. This would give you a chance to talk as well.
the best way is just to be nice and say hi to her when you see her.How do i become friend with a girl?
I was shy in middle school, so I always waited for a person to come and talk to me. If you ever end up by her, say hi to her and start a conversation. Get her e-mail or phone number if all goes well. :]
Most girls like outspoken guys if shes preppy then she'll go for boys with braces and skinny boys in sports also if she has a boyfriend lay off or there will be pain and trips to the guidance counselors it sucks big time has she even looked at u.
Theres a girl who just moved in how to i become friends with her?
well theres a girl who just moved in and im really shy and so is she i dont know what to say to her how to i become friends and get a conversation going what should i do to become friends with her?Theres a girl who just moved in how to i become friends with her?
-say hi
-introduce yourself
-ask basic questions ';where did you move from?'; or ';When is your birthday?'; etc. to keep a convo going
-be yourself
-make plans for you and her
don't worry, i'm shy, too, haha....Theres a girl who just moved in how to i become friends with her?
when you see her in the street or the garden say hi
I know this is stupid but kick a football in to there garden 'by accident' lol and use it as an excuse to say hi and introduce your self
good luck mate:D
-say hi
-introduce yourself
-ask basic questions ';where did you move from?'; or ';When is your birthday?'; etc. to keep a convo going
-be yourself
-make plans for you and her
don't worry, i'm shy, too, haha....Theres a girl who just moved in how to i become friends with her?
when you see her in the street or the garden say hi
I know this is stupid but kick a football in to there garden 'by accident' lol and use it as an excuse to say hi and introduce your self
good luck mate:D
Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
I currently live in Asia, and will be starting college as a freshman in the USA. I graduated from a international secondary school, and had no problems making friends... but they were all Asians (although it was an international school, there were only a few non-Asians). Now that I'll be living in the US, I'd like to be able to befriend more non-Asian people.
Although I was quite shy during middle school, in my senior years I became more outgoing made quite a lot of friends. I wasn't popular or unpopular, and would get along pretty well with people who weren't very close to me. I'm worried that this is all going to change in the US :(
I used to live in the States from 3rd-5th grade, but that was elementary school... and I have no idea how I'll be able to make friends with teenage Americans! I don't watch TV series, my interests mostly have to do with Asian things, I'm not a huge gossiper, but I like to go out and party (which is completely legal where I live for my age). My friends over here consider me as fun but sometimes anti-social because I don't text/msn much. Any advice on how I'd be able to make American friends- both girls and guys? Not that I don't want to become friends with Asians, it's just that all the friend groups in my high school were basically divided into different ethnic groups and I don't know how to make friends with non-Asians :S Help would be greatly appreciated!Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
You're probably worrying too much about it.
And you probably shouldn't try to be too much like American kids, anyway. Many of them have lost sight of what's really important in life. Too much partying, too much drugs, too much video games, too much texting, too much music and TV...
...and not enough reading, thinking, contemplating, studying., etc.
It sounds like you're already there... appreciating and living those things. Don't come here and screw it up because of peer pressure!
Be your own person. Be humble, yet assertive when necessary. Be kind and generous. Be friendly and courteous. Be caring and a good listener. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Have the courage of your convictions, and be yourself, not what you THINK you should be because everyone else is.
Do these things, and finding friends will take care of itself. As long as you don't come across arrogant or cool or aloof while doing it, believe me, friends will desire you... and flock to you in droves. Maybe not at first, mind you... but the word will get around. Depending on where you are going to school in the US, you may, as an Asian, be a bit of a novelty. If so, people will already be talking about you. If you're really remarkble and amazing and nice and kind and polite and caring and obviously interested in others, believe me, they'll be talking about THAT the most.
And friends will come. Just don't let them corrupt you. People always want others to do as they do so that they don't feel like they're standing out in the crowd... or that they're the odd ball. Don't fall for it if you think it's not right. Use your good sense and judgement. Follow your gut. Pay heed to your upbringing. Not everything your parents taught you was stupid.... as you'll learn, and will become glaringly apparent to you, as you grow older.
You'll be fine. This is a new adventure. Embrace it with enthusism, not fear or dread. We Americans put our pants on one leg at a time, just like you. And our poop stinks, too. We're not special. But you, actually, seem to be. Good for you. Hold onto that and let it be that which differentiates you, and makes others like you.
Hope that helps. Good luck!
EDIT: While I was writing the above, PE2008 wrote: ';Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairy-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.';
Ha!!!!
[shakes head in disbelief]
First of all, PE2008 is obviously under a common American male misconception. As the questioner will affirm, Asian women are by no means timid or passive unless they darned well WANT to be. Most of them can verily kick most white males' butts! Ah... stereotypes.
At any rate, it is true that there is something of an ';Asian fetish'; among certain white American males... as PE2008, assuming he's male, is actually exhibiting with what he wrote. As an Asian young woman, you should be aware of this, and appropriately wary. Be mindful of the irrational fascination. Make ANY man like you for the content of your character and not the contents of your pants. If you find true love from a white male in the USA, more power to you. Be aware, though, of how your parents and family back home may or may not particularly like the idea; and don't discount basic cultural differences and how they may, over time, impact your relationship... for better or worse.
But, honestly, you're here to study, dear. So study. Stay focused... and a bit frosty.
Don't necessarily AVOID relationships, but just don't let them happen easily, either. School doesn't actually last as long as it seems. It only seems like a long time because it's such a large percentage of how long you've even been alive... and everything is relative. When you're in your forties, you'll think back on college's four years, and it will seem like such a short time that you'll swear you could do it standing on one foot.
Fall in love for REAL after school. Decide what swamp you're going to drain, and drain it. For now, school is that swamp. Drain that, and let all else wait.Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairly-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.
Anyone who attempts to dismiss this preference among American men for Asian woman as a ';fetish'; is humorously naive and pedantic.
You'll make friends! Don't worry about the jerks because they will hate anyone. You'll have a good time and don't worry about it. I wish more schools would have asian women! No but seriously your cool. Just don't get into trouble and always have respect towards others and you'll be liked. Join sports or clubs like chess, math, or whatever. Have fun because when you grow up you'll have to work. That sucks because bosses are strick and our economy sucks. Any way have real fun and stay safe. Good luck!
First of all, don't worry. Just relax.
Of course it can be scary going off to a foreign country and meeting new people there, but colleges are one of the easiest places to meet new friends.
The easiest way to make friends is to just try to get to know your classmates. Take whatever opportunities you get to start conversations and just talk to each other. If they invite you out to do something, always accept their invitation (as long as it's something you feel comfortable with). Even if their plan doesn't sound too interesting, at the least it's a good way to meet people. And if you really need help making friends, you can always join clubs or groups to get to know people better. Campuses always have lots of organizations looking for members.
And Americans also like to go out and party as much as anyone I've met from other countries, so you'll have that in common. Good luck.
Although I was quite shy during middle school, in my senior years I became more outgoing made quite a lot of friends. I wasn't popular or unpopular, and would get along pretty well with people who weren't very close to me. I'm worried that this is all going to change in the US :(
I used to live in the States from 3rd-5th grade, but that was elementary school... and I have no idea how I'll be able to make friends with teenage Americans! I don't watch TV series, my interests mostly have to do with Asian things, I'm not a huge gossiper, but I like to go out and party (which is completely legal where I live for my age). My friends over here consider me as fun but sometimes anti-social because I don't text/msn much. Any advice on how I'd be able to make American friends- both girls and guys? Not that I don't want to become friends with Asians, it's just that all the friend groups in my high school were basically divided into different ethnic groups and I don't know how to make friends with non-Asians :S Help would be greatly appreciated!Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
You're probably worrying too much about it.
And you probably shouldn't try to be too much like American kids, anyway. Many of them have lost sight of what's really important in life. Too much partying, too much drugs, too much video games, too much texting, too much music and TV...
...and not enough reading, thinking, contemplating, studying., etc.
It sounds like you're already there... appreciating and living those things. Don't come here and screw it up because of peer pressure!
Be your own person. Be humble, yet assertive when necessary. Be kind and generous. Be friendly and courteous. Be caring and a good listener. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Have the courage of your convictions, and be yourself, not what you THINK you should be because everyone else is.
Do these things, and finding friends will take care of itself. As long as you don't come across arrogant or cool or aloof while doing it, believe me, friends will desire you... and flock to you in droves. Maybe not at first, mind you... but the word will get around. Depending on where you are going to school in the US, you may, as an Asian, be a bit of a novelty. If so, people will already be talking about you. If you're really remarkble and amazing and nice and kind and polite and caring and obviously interested in others, believe me, they'll be talking about THAT the most.
And friends will come. Just don't let them corrupt you. People always want others to do as they do so that they don't feel like they're standing out in the crowd... or that they're the odd ball. Don't fall for it if you think it's not right. Use your good sense and judgement. Follow your gut. Pay heed to your upbringing. Not everything your parents taught you was stupid.... as you'll learn, and will become glaringly apparent to you, as you grow older.
You'll be fine. This is a new adventure. Embrace it with enthusism, not fear or dread. We Americans put our pants on one leg at a time, just like you. And our poop stinks, too. We're not special. But you, actually, seem to be. Good for you. Hold onto that and let it be that which differentiates you, and makes others like you.
Hope that helps. Good luck!
EDIT: While I was writing the above, PE2008 wrote: ';Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairy-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.';
Ha!!!!
[shakes head in disbelief]
First of all, PE2008 is obviously under a common American male misconception. As the questioner will affirm, Asian women are by no means timid or passive unless they darned well WANT to be. Most of them can verily kick most white males' butts! Ah... stereotypes.
At any rate, it is true that there is something of an ';Asian fetish'; among certain white American males... as PE2008, assuming he's male, is actually exhibiting with what he wrote. As an Asian young woman, you should be aware of this, and appropriately wary. Be mindful of the irrational fascination. Make ANY man like you for the content of your character and not the contents of your pants. If you find true love from a white male in the USA, more power to you. Be aware, though, of how your parents and family back home may or may not particularly like the idea; and don't discount basic cultural differences and how they may, over time, impact your relationship... for better or worse.
But, honestly, you're here to study, dear. So study. Stay focused... and a bit frosty.
Don't necessarily AVOID relationships, but just don't let them happen easily, either. School doesn't actually last as long as it seems. It only seems like a long time because it's such a large percentage of how long you've even been alive... and everything is relative. When you're in your forties, you'll think back on college's four years, and it will seem like such a short time that you'll swear you could do it standing on one foot.
Fall in love for REAL after school. Decide what swamp you're going to drain, and drain it. For now, school is that swamp. Drain that, and let all else wait.Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairly-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.
Anyone who attempts to dismiss this preference among American men for Asian woman as a ';fetish'; is humorously naive and pedantic.
You'll make friends! Don't worry about the jerks because they will hate anyone. You'll have a good time and don't worry about it. I wish more schools would have asian women! No but seriously your cool. Just don't get into trouble and always have respect towards others and you'll be liked. Join sports or clubs like chess, math, or whatever. Have fun because when you grow up you'll have to work. That sucks because bosses are strick and our economy sucks. Any way have real fun and stay safe. Good luck!
First of all, don't worry. Just relax.
Of course it can be scary going off to a foreign country and meeting new people there, but colleges are one of the easiest places to meet new friends.
The easiest way to make friends is to just try to get to know your classmates. Take whatever opportunities you get to start conversations and just talk to each other. If they invite you out to do something, always accept their invitation (as long as it's something you feel comfortable with). Even if their plan doesn't sound too interesting, at the least it's a good way to meet people. And if you really need help making friends, you can always join clubs or groups to get to know people better. Campuses always have lots of organizations looking for members.
And Americans also like to go out and party as much as anyone I've met from other countries, so you'll have that in common. Good luck.
Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
I currently live in Asia, and will be starting college as a freshman in the USA. I graduated from a international secondary school, and had no problems making friends... but they were all Asians (although it was an international school, there were only a few non-Asians). Now that I'll be living in the US, I'd like to be able to befriend more non-Asian people.
Although I was quite shy during middle school, in my senior years I became more outgoing made quite a lot of friends. I wasn't popular or unpopular, and would get along pretty well with people who weren't very close to me. I'm worried that this is all going to change in the US :(
I used to live in the States from 3rd-5th grade, but that was elementary school... and I have no idea how I'll be able to make friends with teenage Americans! I don't watch TV series, my interests mostly have to do with Asian things, I'm not a huge gossiper, but I like to go out and party (which is completely legal where I live for my age). My friends over here consider me as fun but sometimes anti-social because I don't text/msn much. Any advice on how I'd be able to make American friends- both girls and guys? Not that I don't want to become friends with Asians, it's just that all the friend groups in my high school were basically divided into different ethnic groups and I don't know how to make friends with non-Asians :S Help would be greatly appreciated!Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
You're probably worrying too much about it.
And you probably shouldn't try to be too much like American kids, anyway. Many of them have lost sight of what's really important in life. Too much partying, too much drugs, too much video games, too much texting, too much music and TV...
...and not enough reading, thinking, contemplating, studying., etc.
It sounds like you're already there... appreciating and living those things. Don't come here and screw it up because of peer pressure!
Be your own person. Be humble, yet assertive when necessary. Be kind and generous. Be friendly and courteous. Be caring and a good listener. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Have the courage of your convictions, and be yourself, not what you THINK you should be because everyone else is.
Do these things, and finding friends will take care of itself. As long as you don't come across arrogant or cool or aloof while doing it, believe me, friends will desire you... and flock to you in droves. Maybe not at first, mind you... but the word will get around. Depending on where you are going to school in the US, you may, as an Asian, be a bit of a novelty. If so, people will already be talking about you. If you're really remarkble and amazing and nice and kind and polite and caring and obviously interested in others, believe me, they'll be talking about THAT the most.
And friends will come. Just don't let them corrupt you. People always want others to do as they do so that they don't feel like they're standing out in the crowd... or that they're the odd ball. Don't fall for it if you think it's not right. Use your good sense and judgement. Follow your gut. Pay heed to your upbringing. Not everything your parents taught you was stupid.... as you'll learn, and will become glaringly apparent to you, as you grow older.
You'll be fine. This is a new adventure. Embrace it with enthusism, not fear or dread. We Americans put our pants on one leg at a time, just like you. And our poop stinks, too. We're not special. But you, actually, seem to be. Good for you. Hold onto that and let it be that which differentiates you, and makes others like you.
Hope that helps. Good luck!
EDIT: While I was writing the above, PE2008 wrote: ';Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairy-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.';
Ha!!!!
[shakes head in disbelief]
First of all, PE2008 is obviously under a common American male misconception. As the questioner will affirm, Asian women are by no means timid or passive unless they darned well WANT to be. Most of them can verily kick most white males' butts! Ah... stereotypes.
At any rate, it is true that there is something of an ';Asian fetish'; among certain white American males... as PE2008, assuming he's male, is actually exhibiting with what he wrote. As an Asian young woman, you should be aware of this, and appropriately wary. Be mindful of the irrational fascination. Make ANY man like you for the content of your character and not the contents of your pants. If you find true love from a white male in the USA, more power to you. Be aware, though, of how your parents and family back home may or may not particularly like the idea; and don't discount basic cultural differences and how they may, over time, impact your relationship... for better or worse.
But, honestly, you're here to study, dear. So study. Stay focused... and a bit frosty.
Don't necessarily AVOID relationships, but just don't let them happen easily, either. School doesn't actually last as long as it seems. It only seems like a long time because it's such a large percentage of how long you've even been alive... and everything is relative. When you're in your forties, you'll think back on college's four years, and it will seem like such a short time that you'll swear you could do it standing on one foot.
Fall in love for REAL after school. Decide what swamp you're going to drain, and drain it. For now, school is that swamp. Drain that, and let all else wait.Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairly-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.
Anyone who attempts to dismiss this preference among American men for Asian woman as a ';fetish'; is humorously naive and pedantic.
You'll make friends! Don't worry about the jerks because they will hate anyone. You'll have a good time and don't worry about it. I wish more schools would have asian women! No but seriously your cool. Just don't get into trouble and always have respect towards others and you'll be liked. Join sports or clubs like chess, math, or whatever. Have fun because when you grow up you'll have to work. That sucks because bosses are strick and our economy sucks. Any way have real fun and stay safe. Good luck!
First of all, don't worry. Just relax.
Of course it can be scary going off to a foreign country and meeting new people there, but colleges are one of the easiest places to meet new friends.
The easiest way to make friends is to just try to get to know your classmates. Take whatever opportunities you get to start conversations and just talk to each other. If they invite you out to do something, always accept their invitation (as long as it's something you feel comfortable with). Even if their plan doesn't sound too interesting, at the least it's a good way to meet people. And if you really need help making friends, you can always join clubs or groups to get to know people better. Campuses always have lots of organizations looking for members.
And Americans also like to go out and party as much as anyone I've met from other countries, so you'll have that in common. Good luck.
Although I was quite shy during middle school, in my senior years I became more outgoing made quite a lot of friends. I wasn't popular or unpopular, and would get along pretty well with people who weren't very close to me. I'm worried that this is all going to change in the US :(
I used to live in the States from 3rd-5th grade, but that was elementary school... and I have no idea how I'll be able to make friends with teenage Americans! I don't watch TV series, my interests mostly have to do with Asian things, I'm not a huge gossiper, but I like to go out and party (which is completely legal where I live for my age). My friends over here consider me as fun but sometimes anti-social because I don't text/msn much. Any advice on how I'd be able to make American friends- both girls and guys? Not that I don't want to become friends with Asians, it's just that all the friend groups in my high school were basically divided into different ethnic groups and I don't know how to make friends with non-Asians :S Help would be greatly appreciated!Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
You're probably worrying too much about it.
And you probably shouldn't try to be too much like American kids, anyway. Many of them have lost sight of what's really important in life. Too much partying, too much drugs, too much video games, too much texting, too much music and TV...
...and not enough reading, thinking, contemplating, studying., etc.
It sounds like you're already there... appreciating and living those things. Don't come here and screw it up because of peer pressure!
Be your own person. Be humble, yet assertive when necessary. Be kind and generous. Be friendly and courteous. Be caring and a good listener. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Have the courage of your convictions, and be yourself, not what you THINK you should be because everyone else is.
Do these things, and finding friends will take care of itself. As long as you don't come across arrogant or cool or aloof while doing it, believe me, friends will desire you... and flock to you in droves. Maybe not at first, mind you... but the word will get around. Depending on where you are going to school in the US, you may, as an Asian, be a bit of a novelty. If so, people will already be talking about you. If you're really remarkble and amazing and nice and kind and polite and caring and obviously interested in others, believe me, they'll be talking about THAT the most.
And friends will come. Just don't let them corrupt you. People always want others to do as they do so that they don't feel like they're standing out in the crowd... or that they're the odd ball. Don't fall for it if you think it's not right. Use your good sense and judgement. Follow your gut. Pay heed to your upbringing. Not everything your parents taught you was stupid.... as you'll learn, and will become glaringly apparent to you, as you grow older.
You'll be fine. This is a new adventure. Embrace it with enthusism, not fear or dread. We Americans put our pants on one leg at a time, just like you. And our poop stinks, too. We're not special. But you, actually, seem to be. Good for you. Hold onto that and let it be that which differentiates you, and makes others like you.
Hope that helps. Good luck!
EDIT: While I was writing the above, PE2008 wrote: ';Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairy-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.';
Ha!!!!
[shakes head in disbelief]
First of all, PE2008 is obviously under a common American male misconception. As the questioner will affirm, Asian women are by no means timid or passive unless they darned well WANT to be. Most of them can verily kick most white males' butts! Ah... stereotypes.
At any rate, it is true that there is something of an ';Asian fetish'; among certain white American males... as PE2008, assuming he's male, is actually exhibiting with what he wrote. As an Asian young woman, you should be aware of this, and appropriately wary. Be mindful of the irrational fascination. Make ANY man like you for the content of your character and not the contents of your pants. If you find true love from a white male in the USA, more power to you. Be aware, though, of how your parents and family back home may or may not particularly like the idea; and don't discount basic cultural differences and how they may, over time, impact your relationship... for better or worse.
But, honestly, you're here to study, dear. So study. Stay focused... and a bit frosty.
Don't necessarily AVOID relationships, but just don't let them happen easily, either. School doesn't actually last as long as it seems. It only seems like a long time because it's such a large percentage of how long you've even been alive... and everything is relative. When you're in your forties, you'll think back on college's four years, and it will seem like such a short time that you'll swear you could do it standing on one foot.
Fall in love for REAL after school. Decide what swamp you're going to drain, and drain it. For now, school is that swamp. Drain that, and let all else wait.Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College?
Asian girls are very popular among American men, who are rather tired of crotch-scratching, foul-mouthed, hairly-legged, American feminist women. You will do well.
Anyone who attempts to dismiss this preference among American men for Asian woman as a ';fetish'; is humorously naive and pedantic.
You'll make friends! Don't worry about the jerks because they will hate anyone. You'll have a good time and don't worry about it. I wish more schools would have asian women! No but seriously your cool. Just don't get into trouble and always have respect towards others and you'll be liked. Join sports or clubs like chess, math, or whatever. Have fun because when you grow up you'll have to work. That sucks because bosses are strick and our economy sucks. Any way have real fun and stay safe. Good luck!
First of all, don't worry. Just relax.
Of course it can be scary going off to a foreign country and meeting new people there, but colleges are one of the easiest places to meet new friends.
The easiest way to make friends is to just try to get to know your classmates. Take whatever opportunities you get to start conversations and just talk to each other. If they invite you out to do something, always accept their invitation (as long as it's something you feel comfortable with). Even if their plan doesn't sound too interesting, at the least it's a good way to meet people. And if you really need help making friends, you can always join clubs or groups to get to know people better. Campuses always have lots of organizations looking for members.
And Americans also like to go out and party as much as anyone I've met from other countries, so you'll have that in common. Good luck.
How do I become friends with them?
Hey so I want to make friends with these 2 girls a year older than me.
They are being super nice to my bffl because their friend was being rlly mean to her.
She didn't do anything to me though but still. And they are nice in general.
They aren't really saying anything to me, and I want to be friends with them.
How do I become friends/hang out with them?
And get them to like me also?How do I become friends with them?
Hi there,
First of all let's look at friendships.
Friendships and relationships are underpinned by principles of trust, honesty, loyalty, integrity and respect amongst other criteria in equal measure by each party to that friendship. Of these trust is not a God given right but needs to be earned over a period of time.
Whilst we may make friends with people for one or more reasons, we have to start with the assumption that their values, ethics and code of morality are pretty much in keeping with our own. After all if you are anti-drugs you’d hardly want a drug addict as a bosom friend. Similarly we have to take for granted that the principles I’ve mentioned are in place. Just as it takes time to build up trust, so too time will enable you to evaluate whether the principles I’ve mentioned are characteristic of the person.
From this you will gather it is up to them to decide whether they choose to be friends with you. Whether they do or not, no one make make people like you. The bst thing to do is have a proper conversation with them when the opportunity arises.
Here are a few tips
It's a common misconception that good conversationalists always have amazing stories to tell and a well of jokes to dip into. In fact, what most people want from conversation is dialogue and interaction, not just one-way traffic.
A good way of creating this flow of dialogue is by asking questions in a specific way. For example, questions like: ';Do you live in London?'; can be answered with a ';Yes'; or ';No'; reply - not very good for nurturing conversation. Whereas: ';Where do you live?'; has scope for a longer, and hopefully more interesting reply. This is an open-ended question.
As a general rule:
Questions starting with 'are' or 'do' are closed questions, generating yes or no answers.
Questions starting with 'what', 'where', 'which', 'who' and 'when', are open questions, which need fuller answers.
If you're looking for something a little deeper and more involved then you could try out the probing questions. These start with words like 'how', 'why' and 'in what way'. But make sure you find the person interesting before you do this, as it might mean saying goodbye to an evening talking to others!
1. Don't talk too long without pausing for a reaction. More than a minute is usually too long. Forty seconds is ideal.
2. Never contradict or flatly disagree with the other person. It's an implied insult.
3. Don't be too forceful or emphatic in stating your opinions until you learn the other person's attitude.
The ability to talk well can be cultivated.
You need to show genuine interest in the person if your conversation is to be successful. Interest can be focused on the subject matter of the conversation or the person. Showing interest in the person is by far the better way as people generally like to talk about themselves.
A one to one conversation is easier than group conversation. In one to one conversation there are two main aims:
1. To get to know the other person.
2. To reveal some things about yourself.
Generally these aims should not be aimed at directly.
Attitudes to cultivate in dialogue are:
Interest in the person
Interest in the subject
Friendliness
Sincerity
Candour
Helpfulness
I am giving you a link and if you adopt the characteristics of the main character you may find this will help you.
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
They are being super nice to my bffl because their friend was being rlly mean to her.
She didn't do anything to me though but still. And they are nice in general.
They aren't really saying anything to me, and I want to be friends with them.
How do I become friends/hang out with them?
And get them to like me also?How do I become friends with them?
Hi there,
First of all let's look at friendships.
Friendships and relationships are underpinned by principles of trust, honesty, loyalty, integrity and respect amongst other criteria in equal measure by each party to that friendship. Of these trust is not a God given right but needs to be earned over a period of time.
Whilst we may make friends with people for one or more reasons, we have to start with the assumption that their values, ethics and code of morality are pretty much in keeping with our own. After all if you are anti-drugs you’d hardly want a drug addict as a bosom friend. Similarly we have to take for granted that the principles I’ve mentioned are in place. Just as it takes time to build up trust, so too time will enable you to evaluate whether the principles I’ve mentioned are characteristic of the person.
From this you will gather it is up to them to decide whether they choose to be friends with you. Whether they do or not, no one make make people like you. The bst thing to do is have a proper conversation with them when the opportunity arises.
Here are a few tips
It's a common misconception that good conversationalists always have amazing stories to tell and a well of jokes to dip into. In fact, what most people want from conversation is dialogue and interaction, not just one-way traffic.
A good way of creating this flow of dialogue is by asking questions in a specific way. For example, questions like: ';Do you live in London?'; can be answered with a ';Yes'; or ';No'; reply - not very good for nurturing conversation. Whereas: ';Where do you live?'; has scope for a longer, and hopefully more interesting reply. This is an open-ended question.
As a general rule:
Questions starting with 'are' or 'do' are closed questions, generating yes or no answers.
Questions starting with 'what', 'where', 'which', 'who' and 'when', are open questions, which need fuller answers.
If you're looking for something a little deeper and more involved then you could try out the probing questions. These start with words like 'how', 'why' and 'in what way'. But make sure you find the person interesting before you do this, as it might mean saying goodbye to an evening talking to others!
1. Don't talk too long without pausing for a reaction. More than a minute is usually too long. Forty seconds is ideal.
2. Never contradict or flatly disagree with the other person. It's an implied insult.
3. Don't be too forceful or emphatic in stating your opinions until you learn the other person's attitude.
The ability to talk well can be cultivated.
You need to show genuine interest in the person if your conversation is to be successful. Interest can be focused on the subject matter of the conversation or the person. Showing interest in the person is by far the better way as people generally like to talk about themselves.
A one to one conversation is easier than group conversation. In one to one conversation there are two main aims:
1. To get to know the other person.
2. To reveal some things about yourself.
Generally these aims should not be aimed at directly.
Attitudes to cultivate in dialogue are:
Interest in the person
Interest in the subject
Friendliness
Sincerity
Candour
Helpfulness
I am giving you a link and if you adopt the characteristics of the main character you may find this will help you.
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?
Okay, so I am really confused about this friendship with a girl I have know for a little more than 2 years now.
Background Info:
We met at church when one of her friends brought her and I became friend with her, In fact, she might be the person I talked to the most when we were at church together.
I've had a kind of on/off crush on her since we've met. She has dated a couple of guys at my church and I've seen what their friendship has been like since they broke up. Because of that, I have been afraid to ask her out because I don't want to destroy our friendship. Just to let you know, we just talk, we never hang out. But it seems like as soon as I get over her, She somehow pops back into the picture. For Example, recently I started college, and she is taking Dual Credit classes (she is a HS senior) and we have a class together, so we were shocked to see each other.
Anyway, here is where the ';signals'; kind of started A month she got a new phone and asked for my number. One day she randomly called me to tell me class was cancelled, she had never done this before. Okay, now skip a couple of weeks of interacting with each other (as in no talking). Last Wednesday I had to sit in the hall while people took their test, and then She came out with some of her friends and started talking to me. I have an iPhone so she was curious on what the texting o the phone is like and made me send her a text. Friday comes along and she doesn't show for class. I decided hey, I'll text her to see where she was today. We talked a little and I eventually went to Wal Mart to meet some friends there. As I was walking with them, she by happened to be there as well and called me out excitedly. We talked a little and told me that she was going to go to this raunchy play at the college later, I told her I might go, so I raced to my friends and told them we have to go because this could be my chance. Anyway, later in the night we go to the play, I spot her and just acted like I didn't even know she was there. She then spotted me and asked to sit with her during the play (BTW I was already with a group of people). So anyway as we got to the seating area, the usher told us we were on totally different sides of the theatre, but somehow convinced them to let me go to the other side. So I went and as we were sitting down, She asked if I could tie her tie (She was dressed as a sexy school girl for halloween) and there was a little cleavage so I tried to tie it, but eventually took the tie and tied it on my own neck and gave it back to her (mistake, but I don't want her to think I'm a perv). Anyway, Since she is with her friends, I tried not to get involved and kept quiet, half way through the raunchy play, her friends want to leave citing that it was practically a porn(it was the rocky horror picture show). So as she was leaving with her group, she told me bye and hugged me. As she was walking, I asked if she wanted to go see a movie tomorrow. She said that she had already had a date with this guy from our class, she even called him geeky. So I felt crushed, especially since he is a douche bag who wears flip flops in Fall, so I told her to tell me how it goes. And then the last thing I did was probably one of the biggest things I regret, I said you look sexy. she gave me a giggly thanks and left. Anyway, I waited all weekend to here from her, and nothing, then At school today, we didn't talk, but that douche went and talked to her, and I think that she was kind of not interested, but being nice. I feel hurt and confused about all of this. Would somebody clarify this for me, and possibly tell me what I should do try and get a relationship going?
My friend tried to cheer me up by saying she obviously has a thing for me if she pulled me away from my friends at the play, but I'm not so sure about that.How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?
Friendship is a slow growing plant. Live a life that pleases your creator and ask him for the right girl in your life. It will happen and you will know. This works, it did for me. Be honest with her and yourself. It might be time to tell her that you really are attracted to her and would like to know her better. Then let her make the next move. Don't be shy. Ask her out and let her know how you feel. But don't jump too hard or it might scare her away.How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?
try and get to know her really well and become good friends first
DONT COME ON TOO STRONG!!! thats the biggest mistake most people make (yes i have done it many times)
the tie thing was cute!! its sooo cute that she asked you to do it for her
and she might have gotten that date at the movies to make you jealous because she though you'd ask her.
once you guys become good friends, just ask her. i know it seems completely out of the question, but trust me, any girl would love if i guy asked her that. if you're too scared, ask he on AIM or a text message.
good luck and i really hope everything works out between you guys!!
Background Info:
We met at church when one of her friends brought her and I became friend with her, In fact, she might be the person I talked to the most when we were at church together.
I've had a kind of on/off crush on her since we've met. She has dated a couple of guys at my church and I've seen what their friendship has been like since they broke up. Because of that, I have been afraid to ask her out because I don't want to destroy our friendship. Just to let you know, we just talk, we never hang out. But it seems like as soon as I get over her, She somehow pops back into the picture. For Example, recently I started college, and she is taking Dual Credit classes (she is a HS senior) and we have a class together, so we were shocked to see each other.
Anyway, here is where the ';signals'; kind of started A month she got a new phone and asked for my number. One day she randomly called me to tell me class was cancelled, she had never done this before. Okay, now skip a couple of weeks of interacting with each other (as in no talking). Last Wednesday I had to sit in the hall while people took their test, and then She came out with some of her friends and started talking to me. I have an iPhone so she was curious on what the texting o the phone is like and made me send her a text. Friday comes along and she doesn't show for class. I decided hey, I'll text her to see where she was today. We talked a little and I eventually went to Wal Mart to meet some friends there. As I was walking with them, she by happened to be there as well and called me out excitedly. We talked a little and told me that she was going to go to this raunchy play at the college later, I told her I might go, so I raced to my friends and told them we have to go because this could be my chance. Anyway, later in the night we go to the play, I spot her and just acted like I didn't even know she was there. She then spotted me and asked to sit with her during the play (BTW I was already with a group of people). So anyway as we got to the seating area, the usher told us we were on totally different sides of the theatre, but somehow convinced them to let me go to the other side. So I went and as we were sitting down, She asked if I could tie her tie (She was dressed as a sexy school girl for halloween) and there was a little cleavage so I tried to tie it, but eventually took the tie and tied it on my own neck and gave it back to her (mistake, but I don't want her to think I'm a perv). Anyway, Since she is with her friends, I tried not to get involved and kept quiet, half way through the raunchy play, her friends want to leave citing that it was practically a porn(it was the rocky horror picture show). So as she was leaving with her group, she told me bye and hugged me. As she was walking, I asked if she wanted to go see a movie tomorrow. She said that she had already had a date with this guy from our class, she even called him geeky. So I felt crushed, especially since he is a douche bag who wears flip flops in Fall, so I told her to tell me how it goes. And then the last thing I did was probably one of the biggest things I regret, I said you look sexy. she gave me a giggly thanks and left. Anyway, I waited all weekend to here from her, and nothing, then At school today, we didn't talk, but that douche went and talked to her, and I think that she was kind of not interested, but being nice. I feel hurt and confused about all of this. Would somebody clarify this for me, and possibly tell me what I should do try and get a relationship going?
My friend tried to cheer me up by saying she obviously has a thing for me if she pulled me away from my friends at the play, but I'm not so sure about that.How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?
Friendship is a slow growing plant. Live a life that pleases your creator and ask him for the right girl in your life. It will happen and you will know. This works, it did for me. Be honest with her and yourself. It might be time to tell her that you really are attracted to her and would like to know her better. Then let her make the next move. Don't be shy. Ask her out and let her know how you feel. But don't jump too hard or it might scare her away.How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?
try and get to know her really well and become good friends first
DONT COME ON TOO STRONG!!! thats the biggest mistake most people make (yes i have done it many times)
the tie thing was cute!! its sooo cute that she asked you to do it for her
and she might have gotten that date at the movies to make you jealous because she though you'd ask her.
once you guys become good friends, just ask her. i know it seems completely out of the question, but trust me, any girl would love if i guy asked her that. if you're too scared, ask he on AIM or a text message.
good luck and i really hope everything works out between you guys!!
How do I become closer friends with a guy at school?
i am already his friend, but i want to get 2 know him like his guy friends do and his other close girl friends.How do I become closer friends with a guy at school?
just ask him ?'s about his intrests. is he in a band? what music does he like? ask about his girlfriend. believe me, guys will open up if u ask the right question
just ask him ?'s about his intrests. is he in a band? what music does he like? ask about his girlfriend. believe me, guys will open up if u ask the right question
How can i become friends with more guys ?!?!? ?
Ok so I have a lot of girls as friends but I kinda want to be friends with more guys now! I'm a Junior not that that matters, and I have some-what of a relationship going on so i'm not looking for dating, but just to have some guy friends! Most say i'm hott but i really would rather wish they *guys* would talk to me just for me, not my looks...so what do I do ?How can i become friends with more guys ?!?!? ?
Hang out where they hang out. Be interested in what they are so you could at least have a good conversation with them, Guys DO NOT want to talk about make up.
Be natural around them, don't be one of those stuck up snobs around themturkey chili recipe
Hang out where they hang out. Be interested in what they are so you could at least have a good conversation with them, Guys DO NOT want to talk about make up.
Be natural around them, don't be one of those stuck up snobs around them
How to become more than friends with a girl?.................?
I love this girl I'm friends with. I'm 19 years old and she is soon to be 18 years old. She is the first girl I have had feelings for her. We have been friends for almost two years. She is the most amazing girl, she is funny, smart, beautiful. We talk about anything and everything. She knows I like her a lot but I think she only views me as a friend:( Its really hard because I try not to think about her that much because she said she didn't have any feelings for me in an argument that we had, but lately she has been calling and wanting to hang out with me. I want to hang out with her, but tonight for example I was so tempted to make a move but I didn't want to ruin our friendship if she rejected me. It was the perfect moment to make a move but I didn't want to risk it. I love her and its killing me that despite us hanging out A LOT that we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. I have done more than enough to show her I like her (dinner, flowers, etc.) what should I do?
thanksHow to become more than friends with a girl?.................?
this is tough..As a girl..we sometimes say we want to just be friends as a way of poilitely saying no thankyou..for whatever reason, perhaps, she likes having u there, but it sounds like ur more of a ';Girlfriend'; than an available guy whom she might look at to date..sounds to me like u already know everything about her and vice vesa..wheres the mystery?..not too mention she's still getting the fringe benefits ur offering such as dinners and flowers and whatever else ur doing for her..why ruin a good thing, ya know?..Just a girls perspective is all..good luck
thanksHow to become more than friends with a girl?.................?
this is tough..As a girl..we sometimes say we want to just be friends as a way of poilitely saying no thankyou..for whatever reason, perhaps, she likes having u there, but it sounds like ur more of a ';Girlfriend'; than an available guy whom she might look at to date..sounds to me like u already know everything about her and vice vesa..wheres the mystery?..not too mention she's still getting the fringe benefits ur offering such as dinners and flowers and whatever else ur doing for her..why ruin a good thing, ya know?..Just a girls perspective is all..good luck
How can I become friends with her?
I hvae a friend and she is friends with this reallly nice girl. Her locker is next to mine. I've talked to her a few times, se seems cool.
How can I become friends with her though without being needy or annoying?How can I become friends with her?
just talk about the school!How can I become friends with her?
Talk to her... Thats how i got all my friends by just talking to people. And its easier for girls too so just talk to her and eventually you guys will start hanging out.
talk, ask if she has msn or facebook..
Start a convo like, ';Hey did you get the hmk last night?'; , because I'm assuming shes in your class, right?
Just talk, and talk to her in class to.
And if she seems nice, then she probably isn't mean or anything.
gooood luck :D
go slap her on the fanny and say f me
How can I become friends with her though without being needy or annoying?How can I become friends with her?
just talk about the school!How can I become friends with her?
Talk to her... Thats how i got all my friends by just talking to people. And its easier for girls too so just talk to her and eventually you guys will start hanging out.
talk, ask if she has msn or facebook..
Start a convo like, ';Hey did you get the hmk last night?'; , because I'm assuming shes in your class, right?
Just talk, and talk to her in class to.
And if she seems nice, then she probably isn't mean or anything.
gooood luck :D
go slap her on the fanny and say f me
Guys with girlfriends - why do you have girl best friends?
I've gotten to know this guy over the past few months and we've become best friends. We spend every day together and I'm starting to really like him. However, he has a long distance girlfriend and he's told her I'm his best friend here. I feel like she automatically hates me and would be jealous of how much time I spend with him, but what's his point of view. Could he like me too?Guys with girlfriends - why do you have girl best friends?
2 answers: he either likes you..or is just keeping you there just to have someone to talk to...if he talks about his gf alot to you then he doesnt like u...if he doesnt mention her then he likes uGuys with girlfriends - why do you have girl best friends?
Guys shouldn't have girl besties and girls shouldn't have guy besties.You must be rid of the temptation if ever to have a successful relationship
How do I know if he likes you or not? It's hard to tell. I have a really good friend that is a girl and we hang out a lot, but I don't have feelings for her. My guess is that if he did have feelings for you, he would have not told his girlfriend about you. He would try to hide you... but this is only a guess. You'll never really know. My advice is to don't start anything up with this guy - he's got a girlfriend. Don't come between the two.
he could possibly like you too, but most guys seem to connect better with females an viceaversa... there is alot less jelousy and other things to worry about wen ur best friend is of the opposite sex... i mean dnt u feel more comfortable hanging out with a guy.. dont u feel more protected... its the same with guys... they dont have to be someones else, or worry about getting judged... i hope i helped
A PERSON CAN'T LOVE 2 OR MORE PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME...
he could very well like you.
i have a girlfriend, but ive gotten do bond with this girl since august and we've become best friends and we spend alot of time together, not necesarilly alone, but you get the point.
i used to have a crush on her but know i see her as just a friend.
it could go either way for you really.
and yeah my girlfriend was a tad jelous but she got over it =]
To be honest, yes, he might like you, or might miss having his gf close and try to get with you. If you sense some chemistry, yeah, it could end up complicated and she probably has reason to wonder. Getting some input from those nearby, they say ';hell yeah she has a reason to worry';. If a guy has a gf that is close by, and has a best girl friend he has known before the gf, no big deal, as long as he puts the gf first. If he is dating someone and gets a ';new'; best girlfriend.. .he should be spending most of his time/energy with his girl, not investing in a new opposite sex friendship MORE than his relationship- that's sketchy. If this guy starts to get closer to you or shows signs of disrespecting his gf, ditch the dude, he's got no class. If something is developing between you guys, a real man addresses the situation honestly and will end things with his current flame first. Good luck.
it's likely, but not a 100% thing
2 answers: he either likes you..or is just keeping you there just to have someone to talk to...if he talks about his gf alot to you then he doesnt like u...if he doesnt mention her then he likes uGuys with girlfriends - why do you have girl best friends?
Guys shouldn't have girl besties and girls shouldn't have guy besties.You must be rid of the temptation if ever to have a successful relationship
How do I know if he likes you or not? It's hard to tell. I have a really good friend that is a girl and we hang out a lot, but I don't have feelings for her. My guess is that if he did have feelings for you, he would have not told his girlfriend about you. He would try to hide you... but this is only a guess. You'll never really know. My advice is to don't start anything up with this guy - he's got a girlfriend. Don't come between the two.
he could possibly like you too, but most guys seem to connect better with females an viceaversa... there is alot less jelousy and other things to worry about wen ur best friend is of the opposite sex... i mean dnt u feel more comfortable hanging out with a guy.. dont u feel more protected... its the same with guys... they dont have to be someones else, or worry about getting judged... i hope i helped
A PERSON CAN'T LOVE 2 OR MORE PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME...
he could very well like you.
i have a girlfriend, but ive gotten do bond with this girl since august and we've become best friends and we spend alot of time together, not necesarilly alone, but you get the point.
i used to have a crush on her but know i see her as just a friend.
it could go either way for you really.
and yeah my girlfriend was a tad jelous but she got over it =]
To be honest, yes, he might like you, or might miss having his gf close and try to get with you. If you sense some chemistry, yeah, it could end up complicated and she probably has reason to wonder. Getting some input from those nearby, they say ';hell yeah she has a reason to worry';. If a guy has a gf that is close by, and has a best girl friend he has known before the gf, no big deal, as long as he puts the gf first. If he is dating someone and gets a ';new'; best girlfriend.. .he should be spending most of his time/energy with his girl, not investing in a new opposite sex friendship MORE than his relationship- that's sketchy. If this guy starts to get closer to you or shows signs of disrespecting his gf, ditch the dude, he's got no class. If something is developing between you guys, a real man addresses the situation honestly and will end things with his current flame first. Good luck.
it's likely, but not a 100% thing
How can i insure this girl becomes my friend?
Hi, I am a female college student. I am very shy and find it hard to make friends. There is this girl in class who seems very smart when I hear her talk in class, and I like her personality, she seems very open minded and worldly. Anyway, i wish i could somehow become friends with her outside of school. I have only talked to her once, today is the third day of class, and we are in the same group. how can i become friends with her in class and also out of class. I dont want to seem stalkerish!How can i insure this girl becomes my friend?
id just go up to her and say hello and introduce yourself,maybe comment on something or hers for an icebreaker(clothes,hair,something she said,u get the idea) anyway id just go say hey and see what happens,its not like you have anything to lose but you have a friend to possibly gainHow can i insure this girl becomes my friend?
just start talking to her more often and keep it friendly (but try to keep the convo going.. nobody likes awkwardness lol).. then go to lunch with her a couple of times.. then after a while get her cell number and text her (if you both have a cell) but if not just be like we should hang out sometime! then get her number and make plans
you should start by making small talk with her. that would help
id just go up to her and say hello and introduce yourself,maybe comment on something or hers for an icebreaker(clothes,hair,something she said,u get the idea) anyway id just go say hey and see what happens,its not like you have anything to lose but you have a friend to possibly gainHow can i insure this girl becomes my friend?
just start talking to her more often and keep it friendly (but try to keep the convo going.. nobody likes awkwardness lol).. then go to lunch with her a couple of times.. then after a while get her cell number and text her (if you both have a cell) but if not just be like we should hang out sometime! then get her number and make plans
you should start by making small talk with her. that would help
How do i become more than just friends with a girl?
so there is this girl i like and we are really close. i flirt with her as much as i kno how but she thinks of me as a ';big brother';. i dont want to make it too obvious that i like her. i want to be certain she likes me before i make a move. only help me if youve been in this situation before.How do i become more than just friends with a girl?
i wish i knew my friend^.^
help me out here
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>How do i become more than just friends with a girl?
i think that you should be careful dont show that you like her jus flirt with her dont be to obvious ethier>windows update myspace names
i wish i knew my friend^.^
help me out here
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i think that you should be careful dont show that you like her jus flirt with her dont be to obvious ethier
How to become shorter in height?
I am 16 years old and I do not stop growing. I just had a small growth spurt, again, for like my 4th time, and now I'm .. well idk. but in comparison to my friends, I'm the same height. We think hieght is a very big issue here, and I need answers. I just want to shorten myself by like 2 inches. Not a big deal, ya know? I'm about... 5';7 1/2' ??? some where around there now. I was 5';6 1/2' before. My friends are either 5';7' or like 5';2'. It's crazy! there is no in between. but I really want to be like 5';6' or 5';5 1/2. yes. 5';5 1/2' is good. and we are sooo self conscious in school bc we want to wear boots and heels like the other girls in our school but we cant because then we are wayyy too tall. And gets better, my guy friend is very self conscious about his height. he is 5';8' and likes feeling tall, but he can't around me. I want to help him and myself beceause we like each other and height is an issue we are uncomfortable with. because I like guys to be taller than me and he likes shorter girls as well. soo.... i have like 3 or 4 reasons why I want to be shorter, so can you come up with a few solutions to help me PHYSICALLY get shorter from 5';7 1/2' to 5'; 51/2'? or 5';6'? I don't mean wearing ballet flats either. but like I heard drinking tea lowers your height. please, I need answers!!How to become shorter in height?
Just have patience.
You will start to shrink in your 60s.How to become shorter in height?
Bend over.
well im 16 and im 5 7 and a half ... so i think ur average.
drink coffee
HA. I'm 5'9. 2 inches taller than you. You really are not extremely tall, actually an excellent height.
Don't slouch. That looks awful.
Try being confident about your height. Some girls barely hit 5'0 and some girls are over 6'0. You're right in the middle and perfect.
Try rocking your height.
EDIT: Your guy friend better get over the fact that he is actually short. 5'8 is actually short for a guy. 5'7 is above average for a girl, but not a giant. You shouldn't have to change because he's self cautious and has low self esteem.
like the other person said just walk slouched over or don't stand up as straight.
The solution to this problem will happen when you grow up.
You're not too tall...look at all the models...they're over 6 feet.
Stand proud my friend, and don't worry about that little insecure boy yo hangin with
You can't get shorter. Are you seriously asking this question.
this is just sad.
i heard that drinking a lot of soda and coffee (caffeine) stuns ur growth. i cant say for sure itll work tho. also being tall is not necesarily a bad thing either....and 5';7 is like a perfect height for a girl, at least in my opinion
destroying you posture will make you shorter...but i wouldn't do that because you will look better with great posture and besides your not even that tall for a girl....and a lot of guys that are kinda tall love girls of that height....me myself happen to be only 5,8 and want to increase my height so i started to do yoga to increase my posture and my height...
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U can't get shorter!
I'm 5'10'; perfect height
most guys are at least 5'10';
so i don't wear heels much, thats ok, they hurt my feet anyway.
you are very very tall and still getting taller.
You should be 5'3'; at the most.
Start drinking lots of coffee to stunt your growth and eat deer meat or some meat that is not processed and full of crap and hormones . no beef. buffalo , deer okay. no regular meat though.
Cod liver oil will help too
It's impossible unless you cut off your feet. Drinking tea will not make a difference. But, as a tall girl, I do know how you feel, I was 5ft 8 when I was 15 and am now 6ft and have stopped growing, phew!! And I hated it, was taller than most guys in my year of about 500 students. But I don't care now, There's no way of changing my height so I've got used to it. With respect to your guy friend, just joke about height with him, just say look if i could give you 4 inches extra, i would. I wear heels whenever I go out, makes your legs look great!! Who cares what you wear on your feet, it's about how you feel, and trust me, most short folk would love to be in your position!! Embrace it!!
5'8 is average for a girl. you physically cannot stop yourself from growing. i have female freinds who are 5'11, and i am 5'1. i would rather be your height than mine!! it is easier to find clothes that fit you correctly, there's nothing wrong with being a little taller than your freinds. if they are really your friends, height won't matter!!
You can't physically shrink yourself. You need to do the opposite to becoming tall basically. So have bad posture, like don't stand up straight so you wont appear taller. Oh, and try to wear clothes that are too big for you as they make you look shorter. Being a little taller than other people isn't so bad, and like you said your 16 so your near the age where you stop growing. This is age 18 for girls and around 20-24 for boys.
you cant change how tall you are im 5'9 and my sister is 5'1 and she's older then me we have both stopped growing
You should really accept yourself for your height. There's not much you can do, except costly surgery...which they'd surely decline anyways. I'd kill to be that tall, lol. If you're that tall, then it's a good chance that you'll stay that way and just hope to not get any taller. Smoking stunts growth, but don't do that, it's stupid. Just be happy with the way you are! ^_^
You'll have plenty of time to be short, when you're old and decrepit.
There's no way to make yourself shorter. Just be happy the way you are. Another 1/2 an inch and that's the shortest a model could be, which you could think about becoming.
Nothing you can do will make you shorter, and nothing you can do will make you taller. Its just the genes you were born with sorry. Look on the bright side some GORGEOUS women are very tall. All super models are over 5';6. I consider you very lucky. I'm 5';2 I have to have all my pants shortened heals don't help they still need shortened. I can't reach anything up high I have to clime or take a latter with me. It sucks too.
Dont slouch. I used to slouch a lot (not out of shame of my height, just poor posture) and it caused me to get daily migraines. Its really not worth it.
Maybe you should try to gain 2 inches, that way you can model! (models are between 5'9-5'11)
And the fact that you are considering doing harm to yourself (stunting growth, slouching, etc) to get a guy to like you is not healthy at all. Just because he's short doesn't make it your problem, he needs to get over himself.
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Just have patience.
You will start to shrink in your 60s.How to become shorter in height?
Bend over.
well im 16 and im 5 7 and a half ... so i think ur average.
drink coffee
HA. I'm 5'9. 2 inches taller than you. You really are not extremely tall, actually an excellent height.
Don't slouch. That looks awful.
Try being confident about your height. Some girls barely hit 5'0 and some girls are over 6'0. You're right in the middle and perfect.
Try rocking your height.
EDIT: Your guy friend better get over the fact that he is actually short. 5'8 is actually short for a guy. 5'7 is above average for a girl, but not a giant. You shouldn't have to change because he's self cautious and has low self esteem.
like the other person said just walk slouched over or don't stand up as straight.
The solution to this problem will happen when you grow up.
You're not too tall...look at all the models...they're over 6 feet.
Stand proud my friend, and don't worry about that little insecure boy yo hangin with
You can't get shorter. Are you seriously asking this question.
this is just sad.
i heard that drinking a lot of soda and coffee (caffeine) stuns ur growth. i cant say for sure itll work tho. also being tall is not necesarily a bad thing either....and 5';7 is like a perfect height for a girl, at least in my opinion
destroying you posture will make you shorter...but i wouldn't do that because you will look better with great posture and besides your not even that tall for a girl....and a lot of guys that are kinda tall love girls of that height....me myself happen to be only 5,8 and want to increase my height so i started to do yoga to increase my posture and my height...
ladies answer mine plz http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
U can't get shorter!
I'm 5'10'; perfect height
most guys are at least 5'10';
so i don't wear heels much, thats ok, they hurt my feet anyway.
you are very very tall and still getting taller.
You should be 5'3'; at the most.
Start drinking lots of coffee to stunt your growth and eat deer meat or some meat that is not processed and full of crap and hormones . no beef. buffalo , deer okay. no regular meat though.
Cod liver oil will help too
It's impossible unless you cut off your feet. Drinking tea will not make a difference. But, as a tall girl, I do know how you feel, I was 5ft 8 when I was 15 and am now 6ft and have stopped growing, phew!! And I hated it, was taller than most guys in my year of about 500 students. But I don't care now, There's no way of changing my height so I've got used to it. With respect to your guy friend, just joke about height with him, just say look if i could give you 4 inches extra, i would. I wear heels whenever I go out, makes your legs look great!! Who cares what you wear on your feet, it's about how you feel, and trust me, most short folk would love to be in your position!! Embrace it!!
5'8 is average for a girl. you physically cannot stop yourself from growing. i have female freinds who are 5'11, and i am 5'1. i would rather be your height than mine!! it is easier to find clothes that fit you correctly, there's nothing wrong with being a little taller than your freinds. if they are really your friends, height won't matter!!
You can't physically shrink yourself. You need to do the opposite to becoming tall basically. So have bad posture, like don't stand up straight so you wont appear taller. Oh, and try to wear clothes that are too big for you as they make you look shorter. Being a little taller than other people isn't so bad, and like you said your 16 so your near the age where you stop growing. This is age 18 for girls and around 20-24 for boys.
you cant change how tall you are im 5'9 and my sister is 5'1 and she's older then me we have both stopped growing
You should really accept yourself for your height. There's not much you can do, except costly surgery...which they'd surely decline anyways. I'd kill to be that tall, lol. If you're that tall, then it's a good chance that you'll stay that way and just hope to not get any taller. Smoking stunts growth, but don't do that, it's stupid. Just be happy with the way you are! ^_^
You'll have plenty of time to be short, when you're old and decrepit.
There's no way to make yourself shorter. Just be happy the way you are. Another 1/2 an inch and that's the shortest a model could be, which you could think about becoming.
Nothing you can do will make you shorter, and nothing you can do will make you taller. Its just the genes you were born with sorry. Look on the bright side some GORGEOUS women are very tall. All super models are over 5';6. I consider you very lucky. I'm 5';2 I have to have all my pants shortened heals don't help they still need shortened. I can't reach anything up high I have to clime or take a latter with me. It sucks too.
Dont slouch. I used to slouch a lot (not out of shame of my height, just poor posture) and it caused me to get daily migraines. Its really not worth it.
Maybe you should try to gain 2 inches, that way you can model! (models are between 5'9-5'11)
And the fact that you are considering doing harm to yourself (stunting growth, slouching, etc) to get a guy to like you is not healthy at all. Just because he's short doesn't make it your problem, he needs to get over himself.
Good luck, stay tall and beautiful!
How to become friends with these girls?
Whenever I click on my friend Jenny's myspace, I see this girl Julia commenting her once in awhile. I occasionly click to Julia's myspace; it seems like I would really hit it off with her and her 2 other friends. They are all into the same things as me; politics, animal rights and things like that. I would really like friends like them.
How can I get in with this crowd? Whenever I click their myspace profiles and see their pictures with each other, I always think, I wish I had friends who did spontanious stuff like that. I would ask Jenny to introduce me to these girls, but she hasn't spent any time with them in a loong time. And I don't want to contact them over myspace, it would be to weird.
But I'm afraid if I wait until the school year begins again, I won't have any friends ever. I'm already a junior, but I'm homeschooled, and have 0 friends except for Jenny. I'd like to have friends but don't know how.How to become friends with these girls?
Just explain your self...you can do a friend request and send them a message that you were using the wonders of myspace and saw on your friend Jenny's myspace that you were into _______ and thought you would go out on a limb and congratulate them. You share the same interests it would be fun if we all got together sometime... do you all like coffee, etc. If anything they would think of it as a compliment and think it would be great to meet you or at least myspace you back or add you as their myspace friend. Trust me, they won't be freaked out... that is what Myspace is all about, meetng new people.How to become friends with these girls?
why not contact them on myspace? that's why they're on myspace, likely, to keep in contact with people they know and potentially make friends with people they'd like to know. how will they ever know if they want to be your friend if you don't get in touch with them?
Talk to them over myspace or have Jenny introduce them to you. Just suggest to Jenny that you all go to a movie. It's little things that spark great things to come!
i deff. dont think its wierd to add them on myspace and just sent them a comment like ';hi Im jenny's friend, i'd like to be your friend'; or something like that
i know sounds super wierd but heyy.. some of the best friendships start in a wierd way haha..
for example some guy that likes my best friend added me and sent me a comment saying soemthing like ';hey i dont know you but Im intrested in your best friend %26amp;%26amp; i would like to eb friends with you since you are her best friend, hope you dont think its wierd.. well w/b'; and i sent him one back saying thanks for the add and idk.. and he seems cool
so you never know.. just try it. its not wierd at all
okay um. if you dont have any friends theres probly a reason. so the first thing you do is dont be annoying. and these girls dont seem popular so there most likly really easy to get along with. just talk to them. but if they are popular i suggest you dont. it gets really annoying when random people just like. message you.
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How can I get in with this crowd? Whenever I click their myspace profiles and see their pictures with each other, I always think, I wish I had friends who did spontanious stuff like that. I would ask Jenny to introduce me to these girls, but she hasn't spent any time with them in a loong time. And I don't want to contact them over myspace, it would be to weird.
But I'm afraid if I wait until the school year begins again, I won't have any friends ever. I'm already a junior, but I'm homeschooled, and have 0 friends except for Jenny. I'd like to have friends but don't know how.How to become friends with these girls?
Just explain your self...you can do a friend request and send them a message that you were using the wonders of myspace and saw on your friend Jenny's myspace that you were into _______ and thought you would go out on a limb and congratulate them. You share the same interests it would be fun if we all got together sometime... do you all like coffee, etc. If anything they would think of it as a compliment and think it would be great to meet you or at least myspace you back or add you as their myspace friend. Trust me, they won't be freaked out... that is what Myspace is all about, meetng new people.How to become friends with these girls?
why not contact them on myspace? that's why they're on myspace, likely, to keep in contact with people they know and potentially make friends with people they'd like to know. how will they ever know if they want to be your friend if you don't get in touch with them?
Talk to them over myspace or have Jenny introduce them to you. Just suggest to Jenny that you all go to a movie. It's little things that spark great things to come!
i deff. dont think its wierd to add them on myspace and just sent them a comment like ';hi Im jenny's friend, i'd like to be your friend'; or something like that
i know sounds super wierd but heyy.. some of the best friendships start in a wierd way haha..
for example some guy that likes my best friend added me and sent me a comment saying soemthing like ';hey i dont know you but Im intrested in your best friend %26amp;%26amp; i would like to eb friends with you since you are her best friend, hope you dont think its wierd.. well w/b'; and i sent him one back saying thanks for the add and idk.. and he seems cool
so you never know.. just try it. its not wierd at all
okay um. if you dont have any friends theres probly a reason. so the first thing you do is dont be annoying. and these girls dont seem popular so there most likly really easy to get along with. just talk to them. but if they are popular i suggest you dont. it gets really annoying when random people just like. message you.
Contact them.
How to make friends with this girl?
Theres this girl who is a year older than me and she looks really cool and I want to be friends with her. A bunch of my other friends are friends with her and my one friend said that she thinks that the girl thinks i'm intresting or wants to get to know me. I complimented her on her shirt one and yesterday she complimented me on my hair but how can I become good friends with her? Especially when she has all these other friends and I have no classes with her?How to make friends with this girl?
Approach her when you can in the halls or out at lunch and ask her for her opinion on something.
Not something like ';how my hair looks today';? or things like that, but something more serious.
Tell her about another friend you have, or a conversation you had with your mom or dad or sibling and ask her ';what would you do in that situation';? you can add ';you are a little older than me, maybe you have experience on this and I would like your help';.
She will feel needed, she will feel that her opinion really matters to you and the conversation will pick up from there.
Good luck.How to make friends with this girl?
y doint try asking her 4 her phone number and then u 2 can cheep in contact,and if her ather friends r around her then nevermaind u can join in and chat to her still right? u can allso ask 4 her e mail address and u 2 can get to no each ather that way to!! no ather friends in the way then!!!^^
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Approach her when you can in the halls or out at lunch and ask her for her opinion on something.
Not something like ';how my hair looks today';? or things like that, but something more serious.
Tell her about another friend you have, or a conversation you had with your mom or dad or sibling and ask her ';what would you do in that situation';? you can add ';you are a little older than me, maybe you have experience on this and I would like your help';.
She will feel needed, she will feel that her opinion really matters to you and the conversation will pick up from there.
Good luck.How to make friends with this girl?
y doint try asking her 4 her phone number and then u 2 can cheep in contact,and if her ather friends r around her then nevermaind u can join in and chat to her still right? u can allso ask 4 her e mail address and u 2 can get to no each ather that way to!! no ather friends in the way then!!!^^
best of lack!!!!!
Shy girl.. how do we become friends?
Ok so...... there is a girl in almost everyone of my classes. She is really nice, and I really want to try to become friends with her. She i VERY quiet though and shy. Everytime I try to talk to her I never know what to say. I don't know if I should leave her alone, or try to become her friend. What should I do?Shy girl.. how do we become friends?
Just be polite at first. Talk to her normally, be polite and friendly. Try to sit next to her, make jokes, nothing offensive though, and ask her to join you at lunch or something. When you have to do a group project ask her if she needs a partner. Ask her for help with something (and if you don't need help pretend that you do) or ask her to explain a concept to you. Once you two start talking, ask her if she'd like to go out with you and your friends - don't take her clubbing LOL go to like a movie or shopping, something that won't make her feel uncomfortable. A good idea though: if you have a large group of friends, don't introduce her to all of them at once because she is very shy. Pick a few of your closest friends and gradually introduce her to more.Shy girl.. how do we become friends?
just talk to her....and tell her that you want to be friends with her! XD
Keep trying!
ok if u ever have a project in one of classes she's in...ask her if she wants to be partners...my teacher assigned me and a shy girl to be partners in the beginning of fresh man year..which was this year haha and now we're BEST friends haha. And ask her what she's into. I just expressed myself to the girl and she saw that i was reading twilight and i let her borrow it and she loved it..so just express yourself and tell her about u let her tell u about her and see what happens
Just be polite at first. Talk to her normally, be polite and friendly. Try to sit next to her, make jokes, nothing offensive though, and ask her to join you at lunch or something. When you have to do a group project ask her if she needs a partner. Ask her for help with something (and if you don't need help pretend that you do) or ask her to explain a concept to you. Once you two start talking, ask her if she'd like to go out with you and your friends - don't take her clubbing LOL go to like a movie or shopping, something that won't make her feel uncomfortable. A good idea though: if you have a large group of friends, don't introduce her to all of them at once because she is very shy. Pick a few of your closest friends and gradually introduce her to more.Shy girl.. how do we become friends?
just talk to her....and tell her that you want to be friends with her! XD
Keep trying!
ok if u ever have a project in one of classes she's in...ask her if she wants to be partners...my teacher assigned me and a shy girl to be partners in the beginning of fresh man year..which was this year haha and now we're BEST friends haha. And ask her what she's into. I just expressed myself to the girl and she saw that i was reading twilight and i let her borrow it and she loved it..so just express yourself and tell her about u let her tell u about her and see what happens
How to talk to this girl to be her friend?
I tried talking to her didn't go that well. I have 3 classes with her. I don't really have alot of girl friends so I just want to make more. How to a become friends with her. Im CLUELESS!!How to talk to this girl to be her friend?
aww haha that's nice :)
well, being a girl, i know that personally i just like friendly people who don't show off. so don't be cocky ahah. Just say hey, or mention something that happened in class sometime and just open the door for conversation :) you can do it.How to talk to this girl to be her friend?
Be yourself and don't be one of those fakers because you end up with nothing...Be true to yourself and ask does she make a good friend? Are you willing to be friends with her or are you just counting up how many girl friends you and your mates have...Building up friendships is a great way to socialise, get to know each other and maybe even become life friends...So just be yourselfim thinking of starting a cult
aww haha that's nice :)
well, being a girl, i know that personally i just like friendly people who don't show off. so don't be cocky ahah. Just say hey, or mention something that happened in class sometime and just open the door for conversation :) you can do it.How to talk to this girl to be her friend?
Be yourself and don't be one of those fakers because you end up with nothing...Be true to yourself and ask does she make a good friend? Are you willing to be friends with her or are you just counting up how many girl friends you and your mates have...Building up friendships is a great way to socialise, get to know each other and maybe even become life friends...So just be yourself
How do i make a girl friend become a girlfriend?
there is this girl i like and i have her number and i text her as much as i can but she never texts me, and only texts me back if i ask a question. idk why that is but i talked to her on facebook IM and thats how i got her number. its hard to text with her cuz she seems withdrawn from it. and because of that and im shy, im almost afarid to talk to her in person at school. she sits with these group of kids at lunch that im afarid if i go over and talk to her, they will say bad things about me to her when im gone. i know in order to befriend her, and then ask her out to be my girlfriend I HAVE TO TALK TO HER. but im jus confused rite now. So what shoud i do???How do i make a girl friend become a girlfriend?
Flirt and smile, if she sends signals, repeat until at a limit, then ask her out.
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Flirt and smile, if she sends signals, repeat until at a limit, then ask her out.
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How to become friends again?
Right now, there's this girl I was friends with in elementary school, we had a on/off friendship, sometimes we would be sort of like enemies then friends again. Now that I'm in high school, I realized I missed being friends with her, but I'm not sure how to approach her anymore. We talk sometimes but have really short and awkward conversations now. She's sort of unpredictable.How to become friends again?
Invite her to go shopping with you, and then buy her a meal or a cup of hot chocolate, and try and have a laugh and mend things between you?
Or just invite her round your house and have some fun doing something together.
I always find when you extend an arm towards someone in that way, they hardly ever refuse, and it always helps in resolving things.How to become friends again?
i had that too with a girl
it's still kind of on/off and when it's off it's really REALLY awkward to talk :/
you should give it time and keep the short conversations. and you should ask her waht she would think when you guys would do something together! :)
invite her to go shopping or to see a movie with you and another friend.
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invite her to go out with u like to the mall, movie, eat, u know stuff like that. try and talk to her more in school. hope it works out for u =)
Invite her to go shopping with you, and then buy her a meal or a cup of hot chocolate, and try and have a laugh and mend things between you?
Or just invite her round your house and have some fun doing something together.
I always find when you extend an arm towards someone in that way, they hardly ever refuse, and it always helps in resolving things.How to become friends again?
i had that too with a girl
it's still kind of on/off and when it's off it's really REALLY awkward to talk :/
you should give it time and keep the short conversations. and you should ask her waht she would think when you guys would do something together! :)
invite her to go shopping or to see a movie with you and another friend.
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invite her to go out with u like to the mall, movie, eat, u know stuff like that. try and talk to her more in school. hope it works out for u =)
How to become friends with a friends friends?
haha, confused?
well i'm kinda best friends with this girl named.. it doesn't even matter.
but everytime we hang out, usually only me and her hang out..
and i want to become friends with her friends, but i don't think they like me that much, only because some of them think i 'steal her' hahah, it's kind of immature..
but still, i wanna become friends with them :)How to become friends with a friends friends?
Just become social with her friends and then at some point of time you will start to gain a relationship with them and then you all will be friends.
Experience.How to become friends with a friends friends?
Hahaha. I have the same problem. :)
Just ask your friend to go somewhere and invite some of her friends. (Movies? Park? Bowling? Whatever) when there, ask your friend to start a conversation for all of you to discuss. :] After talking for a bit, ask her friends questions about themselves, show them you're interested in knowing about them and becoming their friend.
Hopefully it'll all work out for you. :3
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have a party or go sum where and invite them to, if you get to know them im sure they will see that ur not tryin got steal their friend off them, and yes that is very immature but im nearly 15 and my friends r still going on with it... i got to know this one grl just by saying hi every time i saw her, and sitting with her every once and a while even though i barely new her name i just though she seemed nice, once she got to know me we became great friends :P
well i'm kinda best friends with this girl named.. it doesn't even matter.
but everytime we hang out, usually only me and her hang out..
and i want to become friends with her friends, but i don't think they like me that much, only because some of them think i 'steal her' hahah, it's kind of immature..
but still, i wanna become friends with them :)How to become friends with a friends friends?
Just become social with her friends and then at some point of time you will start to gain a relationship with them and then you all will be friends.
Experience.How to become friends with a friends friends?
Hahaha. I have the same problem. :)
Just ask your friend to go somewhere and invite some of her friends. (Movies? Park? Bowling? Whatever) when there, ask your friend to start a conversation for all of you to discuss. :] After talking for a bit, ask her friends questions about themselves, show them you're interested in knowing about them and becoming their friend.
Hopefully it'll all work out for you. :3
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have a party or go sum where and invite them to, if you get to know them im sure they will see that ur not tryin got steal their friend off them, and yes that is very immature but im nearly 15 and my friends r still going on with it... i got to know this one grl just by saying hi every time i saw her, and sitting with her every once and a while even though i barely new her name i just though she seemed nice, once she got to know me we became great friends :P
Boys: how many of you have started a friendship with a girl knowing you want it to turn into more?
just curious if any guys become friends with girls because they like them and want them to be their girlfriend?Boys: how many of you have started a friendship with a girl knowing you want it to turn into more?
NEVER been on a date in my life.Boys: how many of you have started a friendship with a girl knowing you want it to turn into more?
yes
alot of them do.
I;ve done this a nice few times. it never works.
all the time i did that with my gf i have right now
I have done it a couple of times the gf-bf relationship lasted for a year then i broke up with her.
Well, I think it's impossible to not be a friend with a girl first, and just jump into a relationship with her, and actually have the relationship last more than a few days. Guys are always looking for potential matches, and many of the girls that a guy associates with would be considered eligable of him dating them. I myself would need to get to know a girl first, and then, if I thought we were compatible, would ask her out. So, I guess it all depends on the guy. Does that answer your question?
Absolutely... I do it all the time.. In fact, if I start up a friendship with a girl out of nowhere, it means I like her. My only female friends who I don't like are ones that I am just around all the time or have known forevor. I won't bother making friends with a girl simply for the sake of being friends...I have guys for that.
There is a saying that ';The only thing keeping your guy friends from sleeping with you...is you.';. And its pretty true.
I have, and it makes it really hard later, especially if you are really good friends. It's scary to ask them out, because if something goes wrong, or she says no, you know that your friendship will never be quite the same again. So if you suspect this of someone, please go easy on the guy, he's probably scared to death. If you don't like him, tell him that you will just forget that it ever happened.
NEVER been on a date in my life.Boys: how many of you have started a friendship with a girl knowing you want it to turn into more?
yes
alot of them do.
I;ve done this a nice few times. it never works.
all the time i did that with my gf i have right now
I have done it a couple of times the gf-bf relationship lasted for a year then i broke up with her.
Well, I think it's impossible to not be a friend with a girl first, and just jump into a relationship with her, and actually have the relationship last more than a few days. Guys are always looking for potential matches, and many of the girls that a guy associates with would be considered eligable of him dating them. I myself would need to get to know a girl first, and then, if I thought we were compatible, would ask her out. So, I guess it all depends on the guy. Does that answer your question?
Absolutely... I do it all the time.. In fact, if I start up a friendship with a girl out of nowhere, it means I like her. My only female friends who I don't like are ones that I am just around all the time or have known forevor. I won't bother making friends with a girl simply for the sake of being friends...I have guys for that.
There is a saying that ';The only thing keeping your guy friends from sleeping with you...is you.';. And its pretty true.
I have, and it makes it really hard later, especially if you are really good friends. It's scary to ask them out, because if something goes wrong, or she says no, you know that your friendship will never be quite the same again. So if you suspect this of someone, please go easy on the guy, he's probably scared to death. If you don't like him, tell him that you will just forget that it ever happened.
How do i not become friends with somebody?
well there is this girl i became friends with and she is best friends with a girl i hate. the girl i hate picks her boogers and sniffs em and eats them and stuff and the girl i became friends with doesnt no i hate her and. i dont want to be friends with her but she thinks we are great friends and im now discovering what she is really like and i acutally seem to hate her.....How do i not become friends with somebody?
Be nice to her but leave it at that. Don't ask her too many questions as she will think you're interested in getting to know her Try and make excuses to keep conversations to a minimum. Just slowly phase her out of your life.condo rentals in sound device error
Be nice to her but leave it at that. Don't ask her too many questions as she will think you're interested in getting to know her Try and make excuses to keep conversations to a minimum. Just slowly phase her out of your life.
How do i not become friends with somebody?
well there is this girl i became friends with and she is best friends with a girl i hate. the girl i hate picks her boogers and sniffs em and eats them and stuff and the girl i became friends with doesnt no i hate her and. i dont want to be friends with her but she thinks we are great friends and im now discovering what she is really like and i acutally seem to hate her.....How do i not become friends with somebody?
Be nice to her but leave it at that. Don't ask her too many questions as she will think you're interested in getting to know her Try and make excuses to keep conversations to a minimum. Just slowly phase her out of your life.
Be nice to her but leave it at that. Don't ask her too many questions as she will think you're interested in getting to know her Try and make excuses to keep conversations to a minimum. Just slowly phase her out of your life.
How can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
Im a sophmore and 16 and Im really bad at talkin to guys. The only guys I can talk to and not make a fool of myself is the nerdy guys so to speak. I have a lot of girl friends but only a few guy friends who are all taken. I really like this guy Erik in my history class but what can I do? He doesnt really sit near me and I havent really spoke to him and itd be awkward to purposefully just go over there to speak to him .Cause what would I say? So yeah answer my questions please How can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
just go up to him and ask him a question bout homework ur somethin)even if u dont need any help)
and then just start talkin to him just be urself and im sure that he will like u just fine
or in the hallway or in class go up to him and just say hey wats up ur somethin once u got a convo started it gets really easy from there
good luck :) %26lt;33How can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
Please do not do anything. Be friends with them but never ever ask a guy out.
Go over, if a friend is near him just be like wasn't that history test hard? and then be like do you think so Erik?
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I had the same problem when I was your age (now I'm 20). How about you ask him a question about homework or your history class. Then just lead yourself into a short conversation, and walk away smiling. That will lead the way into a little friendship. Then take it from there.
just be freindly and outgoing, but not pushy or slutty, like some girls, and dont be nervous at all, it cant help you unless hes got a knife, and i doubt he does
ask them about class assignments, then gradually build up conversation
What's wrong with the nerdy guys? Us nerds are the ones who will be making the big bucks so we'll see who's laughing then.
Plus nerds are nice people with great personalities. I know firsthand, I at one time had the chance to become a popular guy - A great looking preppy girl asked me out but I declined her offer saying Not interested and gave her no reason to my action. I will remain a nerd because that's who I am.
Ask your friend to take your seat one day and then be forced to sit near him. Strike up a conversation. See if he's interested. If not, don't push it, he'll make fun of you.
just go up to him and ask him a question bout homework ur somethin)even if u dont need any help)
and then just start talkin to him just be urself and im sure that he will like u just fine
or in the hallway or in class go up to him and just say hey wats up ur somethin once u got a convo started it gets really easy from there
good luck :) %26lt;33How can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
Please do not do anything. Be friends with them but never ever ask a guy out.
Go over, if a friend is near him just be like wasn't that history test hard? and then be like do you think so Erik?
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I had the same problem when I was your age (now I'm 20). How about you ask him a question about homework or your history class. Then just lead yourself into a short conversation, and walk away smiling. That will lead the way into a little friendship. Then take it from there.
just be freindly and outgoing, but not pushy or slutty, like some girls, and dont be nervous at all, it cant help you unless hes got a knife, and i doubt he does
ask them about class assignments, then gradually build up conversation
What's wrong with the nerdy guys? Us nerds are the ones who will be making the big bucks so we'll see who's laughing then.
Plus nerds are nice people with great personalities. I know firsthand, I at one time had the chance to become a popular guy - A great looking preppy girl asked me out but I declined her offer saying Not interested and gave her no reason to my action. I will remain a nerd because that's who I am.
Ask your friend to take your seat one day and then be forced to sit near him. Strike up a conversation. See if he's interested. If not, don't push it, he'll make fun of you.
How can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
Im a sophmore and 16 and Im really bad at talkin to guys. The only guys I can talk to and not make a fool of myself is the nerdy guys so to speak. I have a lot of girl friends but only a few guy friends who are all taken. I really like this guy Erik in my history class but what can I do? He doesnt really sit near me and I havent really spoke to him and itd be awkward to purposefully just go over there to speak to him .Cause what would I say? So yeah answer my questions please How can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
thats actually normal I mean i would start to question the girls who have many guy friends but are boyfriendless... guys usually are friends with a girl because they want or ';hope'; for something more someday.. usually there was some sort of attraction at some point.. so dont feel bad at all.. usually guys just randomley start talkin to ya first out of pure curiosity so just hold on and one cute guy will want to go out with yaHow can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
-_- I wish I knew.
Be yourself, and confident in you. Also don't judge other people like ';nerdy'; guys. You do know those are the ones that will end with a college degree and end up making the big bucks in the end...LOL
I've always had the problem of being better with guys rather than girls (friends wise) essentially, be blunt. Comment, etc. you'll make male friends in no time.
You are getting yourself worked up because you have romantic aspirations. Just think of all guys as friends. Try to make some comment about the class when you see them. You don't want to be flirty. The romance will come later as more boys take notice of you.
i got the same problem and im a boy i had girlfriends before but lately no girls been running my way or if i try to talk to any i dont know what to say / im shy to walk up and talk to them /i dont know what to tell you but you'll find somebody to be with one daY
thats actually normal I mean i would start to question the girls who have many guy friends but are boyfriendless... guys usually are friends with a girl because they want or ';hope'; for something more someday.. usually there was some sort of attraction at some point.. so dont feel bad at all.. usually guys just randomley start talkin to ya first out of pure curiosity so just hold on and one cute guy will want to go out with yaHow can I get a boyfriend or even just become friends with more guys? ?
-_- I wish I knew.
Be yourself, and confident in you. Also don't judge other people like ';nerdy'; guys. You do know those are the ones that will end with a college degree and end up making the big bucks in the end...LOL
I've always had the problem of being better with guys rather than girls (friends wise) essentially, be blunt. Comment, etc. you'll make male friends in no time.
You are getting yourself worked up because you have romantic aspirations. Just think of all guys as friends. Try to make some comment about the class when you see them. You don't want to be flirty. The romance will come later as more boys take notice of you.
i got the same problem and im a boy i had girlfriends before but lately no girls been running my way or if i try to talk to any i dont know what to say / im shy to walk up and talk to them /i dont know what to tell you but you'll find somebody to be with one daY
How do I become more than friends? (GIRLS PLEASE, guys too if you can help me!)?
I hate asking this but i'm a really shy person, sometimes. I have this guy friend and he always seems to have a gf, you know? I talk about my relationships to him and junk, and he talks to me about his gf's. We have alot in common and he's really sweet. I always have a blast with him and etc. But, I'm to shy to tell him. But, if he doesn't feel the same way I really don't want to kill our friendship! Know any subtle ways?How do I become more than friends? (GIRLS PLEASE, guys too if you can help me!)?
he sounds like a player at first ( not tring to be meen).then he sounds like a good guy.tell him you dont have to take this seriously.hopefully we can still be friends.i've been having a blast with you and then i started to fall for you. i was wondering will you go out with me.good luck i wish the best for you.How do I become more than friends? (GIRLS PLEASE, guys too if you can help me!)?
well, i had the same problem believe me been there done that. so ur shy right, but there is a time when u are gonna have to break out of that shell. so what i suggest i u do is hint ur friend more.. or just ask him if he sees u as a more than a friend. maybe he likes u too but he as well is too shy., or is scared that u might reject him cause it might ruin ur friendship. so what i suggest is to just ask!
I always feel a guy already knows if you want to be more than a friend and if he's interested, he'll make a move. Just continue being friends with him if you enjoy his friendship, but if you are too heartbroken to be around him, go out and find your own beau. Lots of movies just like this; sometimes they end up together, sometimes not. I tried telling a real good friend how I felt, and our friendship broke up. Good luck!
Maybe not to tell him is better.
Try to be sweeter with him, listen to his problems more often and get closer to him.
Invite him to eat sometimes.
If he wants to have something with you he will ask you first. But don't go between he and his grilfriend. It never works out.
he sounds like a player at first ( not tring to be meen).then he sounds like a good guy.tell him you dont have to take this seriously.hopefully we can still be friends.i've been having a blast with you and then i started to fall for you. i was wondering will you go out with me.good luck i wish the best for you.How do I become more than friends? (GIRLS PLEASE, guys too if you can help me!)?
well, i had the same problem believe me been there done that. so ur shy right, but there is a time when u are gonna have to break out of that shell. so what i suggest i u do is hint ur friend more.. or just ask him if he sees u as a more than a friend. maybe he likes u too but he as well is too shy., or is scared that u might reject him cause it might ruin ur friendship. so what i suggest is to just ask!
I always feel a guy already knows if you want to be more than a friend and if he's interested, he'll make a move. Just continue being friends with him if you enjoy his friendship, but if you are too heartbroken to be around him, go out and find your own beau. Lots of movies just like this; sometimes they end up together, sometimes not. I tried telling a real good friend how I felt, and our friendship broke up. Good luck!
Maybe not to tell him is better.
Try to be sweeter with him, listen to his problems more often and get closer to him.
Invite him to eat sometimes.
If he wants to have something with you he will ask you first. But don't go between he and his grilfriend. It never works out.
How do i become social with girls. I really want a girl friend i have little friends also?
Well... I am 13 years old and about to turn 14 soon. I was wondering how to become more social with girls. I had a girl friend but she broke up with me a while ago because we were friends (still are) and she thought it was a little weird. my girl friend moved on so I decided I would too so she got a boy friend and I am wanting a new girl friend. So my friend's GF (who is my ex's best friend) said she would try to fix me up with one of her friends. Though i am very unsocial usually around everyone but mainly girls (I think it is because i am shy). I don't want to get depressed again if i was to find someone and actually like them then they were to break up with me. I am in a confused state right now so if you can please help with any information that you can give me. Thank you for what ever you can offer.How do i become social with girls. I really want a girl friend i have little friends also?
Bro your 13 going to 14. Break ups are part of life.french name for
Bro your 13 going to 14. Break ups are part of life.
How do you become friends with some popular girls?
I am not the most popular person, mainly because I only get about 5 minutes to dress every morning and i wear jean shorts and a t shirt and flip flops every day. But the girls tolerate me. They talk to me sometimes, but only at school and stuff and about school stuff. How can I get close with them? Oh, and by the way, we are in middle school.How do you become friends with some popular girls?
I know this about you. Didn't I say I read you and feel you?
I am proud you are mine..and thanks for the insight :)How do you become friends with some popular girls?
be nice to everyone.. that is where you will come out the winner in life.
i was popular because i was nice to everyone, from the burn outs to the jocks..
fast forward 20 years.. my shooter was picking up a prom tux and struck up a conversation with a stranger. it was clear the stranger probably had a hard life and was not popular in high school..
moving the convo along.. the woman asked my son what prom he was going to, when he answered she said she went to that same school.
he told her my name.. his mothers name.
she nearly cried when telling him i was the only one that was nice to her.. and she carried that her whole life.
You'll be accepted if your yourself
but in my school ( not to brag) i am one of the ';popular girls'; and we aren't al lthat bad !
but yes we do like to do makeovers and facials and we are mature so.. if it sounds like you you'll be fine.
Usually the popular ones are girly but when it comes to sports they're good.
( Yes im a cheerleader but im not popular because of it )
this site tells u everything you need to klnow to become popular and it mostly works!
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Popular-in-Middle-School-(for-Girls)
Good luck on it =]
you dont want to be friends with the popular girls they will use u as a joke. find some real friends who will like you for who you are. trust me i have been there and it is sooooo much better.
I know this about you. Didn't I say I read you and feel you?
I am proud you are mine..and thanks for the insight :)How do you become friends with some popular girls?
be nice to everyone.. that is where you will come out the winner in life.
i was popular because i was nice to everyone, from the burn outs to the jocks..
fast forward 20 years.. my shooter was picking up a prom tux and struck up a conversation with a stranger. it was clear the stranger probably had a hard life and was not popular in high school..
moving the convo along.. the woman asked my son what prom he was going to, when he answered she said she went to that same school.
he told her my name.. his mothers name.
she nearly cried when telling him i was the only one that was nice to her.. and she carried that her whole life.
You'll be accepted if your yourself
but in my school ( not to brag) i am one of the ';popular girls'; and we aren't al lthat bad !
but yes we do like to do makeovers and facials and we are mature so.. if it sounds like you you'll be fine.
Usually the popular ones are girly but when it comes to sports they're good.
( Yes im a cheerleader but im not popular because of it )
this site tells u everything you need to klnow to become popular and it mostly works!
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Popular-in-Middle-School-(for-Girls)
Good luck on it =]
you dont want to be friends with the popular girls they will use u as a joke. find some real friends who will like you for who you are. trust me i have been there and it is sooooo much better.
How to become friends with this female and go out with her?
hey im 14 and im having female troubles!! :(. i never had a girl friend but rilly want one. okay heres my problem im rilly shy towards this one cute girl and I really like her but she doesn't like me. I have absolutely no idea on what to do. I think we are somewhat friends but she doesnt rilly know me and I don't know her even though we known each other since 4th grade now freshmen.
I hardly talk to her because I don't know what to say to start a conversation with her. I've liked her since 7th grade and she knows that I like her. I havent asked her out in those 2 years but I did today and she said no but with a really nice tone.
I was talking too one of my friends and she said that it was awkward of me asking her out.
I don't really know how to start a conversation with a female.
I am a really nice and honest male but a shy/quiet one.
so what can I do to get her to like me more????How to become friends with this female and go out with her?
no i odnt think anyone is here
I hardly talk to her because I don't know what to say to start a conversation with her. I've liked her since 7th grade and she knows that I like her. I havent asked her out in those 2 years but I did today and she said no but with a really nice tone.
I was talking too one of my friends and she said that it was awkward of me asking her out.
I don't really know how to start a conversation with a female.
I am a really nice and honest male but a shy/quiet one.
so what can I do to get her to like me more????How to become friends with this female and go out with her?
no i odnt think anyone is here
How do I become better friends with this girl?
There's this girl who I've only talked to a few times last semester but this semester we got parts in our school play that are connected with each other the whole time (I'm Ryan, she's Sharpay). This involves a lot of practice time together, if you see what I'm talking about this could be a kind of awkward situation. I'm just looking on how to ease the awkwardness and become a little closer.How do I become better friends with this girl?
I was in sort of the same situation as you. There was a time when this girl liked me, but I didn't notice, and then she got over me. She stopped talking to me, but then all of a sudden, I liked her! Oh, it was the worst time of my life. I'm over her now, thank God, after a whole year. Yet, she still won't talk to me. All I want is to be friends with her.
I know exactly how you feel. I'm going to warn you though. Please, please, try NOT to fall in love with her. It will screw you over and you will not be happy. You will fall into the same trap I fell into. Here are some tips that I learned from my mistakes:
- Don't TRY to get close with her. She will get annoyed by you.
- Don't show any signs of obsession. If you are obsessed with video games, DON'T SHOW IT! She will get annoyed REAL fast.
- Every once in a while, show up at her locker and talk. And by every once in a while, I mean once a week. Find out what SHE likes to talk about, because if you start rambling on about things she doesn't care about, she will not want to hang around with you.
- Talk on MSN. But not everyday. Once a week is perfect. Be chill when you talk on MSN though. Think hard about what you are going to say before hand. Trust me. Otherwise, you'll regret things later.
- Be good friends with her best friends.
- If she usually sits in the cafeteria with a group of people, SLOWLY start sitting with them. If you already do, then sit right in front of her. Don't sit beside her, because she will find it creepy.
- Impress her with your talent. But don't TRY to impress her. Just do it. If there's a talent show, do something your good at. Don't try to make a big show out of it, because then you will look like a fool.
I hope this helps. I seriously hope you don't end up the way I did. Please just act chill, and don't try to impress her. Please.
RobHow do I become better friends with this girl?
OMG if you were Troy and Gabriella, it would be lucky if you liked her (;
( ^ had to say that....)
anyway
just ask her if she wants to go to see a movie or something, tell her it's not a date but you want to get to know her a little better
just be cool about it and relaxed and it should be good :)
if she says no then nevermind, at least you tried :)~
good luck!
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the same way you would treat a friend. let her feel like she can trust you as a friend, but make her feel special. you got to be careful of the friends zone. compliment her. tell her she has a beautiful smile, ask her about her interests and then ask her out on a date :)
I was in sort of the same situation as you. There was a time when this girl liked me, but I didn't notice, and then she got over me. She stopped talking to me, but then all of a sudden, I liked her! Oh, it was the worst time of my life. I'm over her now, thank God, after a whole year. Yet, she still won't talk to me. All I want is to be friends with her.
I know exactly how you feel. I'm going to warn you though. Please, please, try NOT to fall in love with her. It will screw you over and you will not be happy. You will fall into the same trap I fell into. Here are some tips that I learned from my mistakes:
- Don't TRY to get close with her. She will get annoyed by you.
- Don't show any signs of obsession. If you are obsessed with video games, DON'T SHOW IT! She will get annoyed REAL fast.
- Every once in a while, show up at her locker and talk. And by every once in a while, I mean once a week. Find out what SHE likes to talk about, because if you start rambling on about things she doesn't care about, she will not want to hang around with you.
- Talk on MSN. But not everyday. Once a week is perfect. Be chill when you talk on MSN though. Think hard about what you are going to say before hand. Trust me. Otherwise, you'll regret things later.
- Be good friends with her best friends.
- If she usually sits in the cafeteria with a group of people, SLOWLY start sitting with them. If you already do, then sit right in front of her. Don't sit beside her, because she will find it creepy.
- Impress her with your talent. But don't TRY to impress her. Just do it. If there's a talent show, do something your good at. Don't try to make a big show out of it, because then you will look like a fool.
I hope this helps. I seriously hope you don't end up the way I did. Please just act chill, and don't try to impress her. Please.
RobHow do I become better friends with this girl?
OMG if you were Troy and Gabriella, it would be lucky if you liked her (;
( ^ had to say that....)
anyway
just ask her if she wants to go to see a movie or something, tell her it's not a date but you want to get to know her a little better
just be cool about it and relaxed and it should be good :)
if she says no then nevermind, at least you tried :)~
good luck!
-x-Natalie-x-
the same way you would treat a friend. let her feel like she can trust you as a friend, but make her feel special. you got to be careful of the friends zone. compliment her. tell her she has a beautiful smile, ask her about her interests and then ask her out on a date :)
Theirs this amazing girl at my school, but she has a cool boyfriend. How do i become friends with her?
theres this girl i like, I been trying to grab her attention but nothing worked out. I joined the basketball team, i joined the talent show and played fireflies on the piano and nothing seems to get her attention at all. I like her and i would soo go out with her, but how do i become friends with her atleast???Theirs this amazing girl at my school, but she has a cool boyfriend. How do i become friends with her?
Being a friend is about caring...don't let your romantic feelings get in the way of being a true friend. They'll break up...just wait it out.Theirs this amazing girl at my school, but she has a cool boyfriend. How do i become friends with her?
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start a conversation with her. get to know her.
She has a boyfriend, drop it!
Problem: You played FIREFLIES.
maybe she just isn't interested in you? I know a lot of guys have an ego but sometimes the girl just doesn't want you.
let her be....u wont get newhere with her if she has a bf and DOESNT show ne attention towards you or ne1 else.
Learn about her interests and join the same club of group. Girls expect guys to be the first one to start a conversation, so if your feeling brave why not start a conversation about homework or a class.
to get her simple attention, ';accidentally'; bump into her in the hall and apologize. Then start talking about how you didnt mean to hurt her. Oh, do you have any classes with her? If so, give her random glances and start talking to her more.
smile at her when you see her (:
add or on myspace, facebook, or whatever she has, and tell her that you see her around school and stuff. but dont tell her that you like her. act cool and collected.
start talking to her in person until you guys are finally close friends.
when she breaks up with her boyfriend, BAM! thats when you go for her (:
THE END.
tough luck, she has a BF so its not going to happen. ive gone after plenty of girls that had tool boyfriends and could only manage to hookup with them for a few weeks before they went back to their tool boyfriends. if its a cool kid, you're out of luck
i know this sounds crazy.... try talking to her. Yes i said it, go up to her and talk to her, dont be nervous, she is a girl not a crazy monster that will eat you. Plus girls actually like it when guys make the effort to talk to them. Dont push the going out with her if u know she has a bf, take it slow but also dont get into the friend zone cuz if u do ur screwed! but ya seriously she is not gong to come up to you, its just not gonna happen so grab ur balls and just got start a conversation with her. Maybe even plan out what ur going to say before u do it so you dont look as nervous. good luck.
alright well think about this,if she leaves her boyfriend for you, what makes you think she wont leave you for another guy. if you want a long relationship with this girl wait till shes single
im gonna tell you the truth
she's all ready going out with someone if you haven't even talked to
her well then she doesn't see you
try and meet other people and the more people u meet
then more people will know you and sooner or later she'll know u
You played Fireflies? She probably thinks you are gay now. Time to man up and kick her boyfriends *** for no reason, just to show her who the alpha male in the picture is.
well u could do 3 things
1. wait till they break up then start flirting with her.
2. start flirting with her now and hope that makes her break up with her bf.
3. ask her out now and pretend u dont know she has a bf. she will remeber that u r interested when they eventually do break up
Strike up a conversation with her-be yourself! Guys may not know this stuff, but girls love attention from guys-no matter who the guy is. Just joke around with her! Don't be shy. And NEVER go to her and say ';Hey um... well... never mind.'; That will make her think that something is wrong. So just keep trying! :) Good luck my fellow leprechaun! =P
when you see her just start a conversation with her, make a joke or something. have some type of verbal action, it doesnt even have to be for a very long time. just get her to notice that you are actually alive. then the next time you see her be sure to speak, keep it at speaking everytime you see her for....oh maybe about a week. then go back in for the convo. find out what subject she is good in at school and maybe exchange numbers and meet up somewhere for ';help';...just be creative! :)
please stop !
Listen sweetheart firstly you have to take off those love goggles you seem to be wearing, and trust me on this one, once you get to really know this amazing girl you won't think so as much. The truth is although you think she's the one for you/you really want, you have to come down to earth and realize that after all she has a bf and is probably happy with the guy? Now why would you want to ruin that for her? Do you believe that you can make her much happier? Are you in your opinion, better that this other guy somehow? Why not instead of thinking how amazing she is, really try to get to know more about her, you must know a friend that knows her personally, and have them introduce you. If not, then try getting yourself into the same things she's into? Like if she's in the student council then join in too, and take it from there. You'll have the best chance to get to know her better, because you'll have direct access to her and vise-versa. Then maybe you'll really know if you can be her friend or even want to for that matter? Good Luck.
Being a friend is about caring...don't let your romantic feelings get in the way of being a true friend. They'll break up...just wait it out.Theirs this amazing girl at my school, but she has a cool boyfriend. How do i become friends with her?
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start a conversation with her. get to know her.
She has a boyfriend, drop it!
Problem: You played FIREFLIES.
maybe she just isn't interested in you? I know a lot of guys have an ego but sometimes the girl just doesn't want you.
let her be....u wont get newhere with her if she has a bf and DOESNT show ne attention towards you or ne1 else.
Learn about her interests and join the same club of group. Girls expect guys to be the first one to start a conversation, so if your feeling brave why not start a conversation about homework or a class.
to get her simple attention, ';accidentally'; bump into her in the hall and apologize. Then start talking about how you didnt mean to hurt her. Oh, do you have any classes with her? If so, give her random glances and start talking to her more.
smile at her when you see her (:
add or on myspace, facebook, or whatever she has, and tell her that you see her around school and stuff. but dont tell her that you like her. act cool and collected.
start talking to her in person until you guys are finally close friends.
when she breaks up with her boyfriend, BAM! thats when you go for her (:
THE END.
tough luck, she has a BF so its not going to happen. ive gone after plenty of girls that had tool boyfriends and could only manage to hookup with them for a few weeks before they went back to their tool boyfriends. if its a cool kid, you're out of luck
i know this sounds crazy.... try talking to her. Yes i said it, go up to her and talk to her, dont be nervous, she is a girl not a crazy monster that will eat you. Plus girls actually like it when guys make the effort to talk to them. Dont push the going out with her if u know she has a bf, take it slow but also dont get into the friend zone cuz if u do ur screwed! but ya seriously she is not gong to come up to you, its just not gonna happen so grab ur balls and just got start a conversation with her. Maybe even plan out what ur going to say before u do it so you dont look as nervous. good luck.
alright well think about this,if she leaves her boyfriend for you, what makes you think she wont leave you for another guy. if you want a long relationship with this girl wait till shes single
im gonna tell you the truth
she's all ready going out with someone if you haven't even talked to
her well then she doesn't see you
try and meet other people and the more people u meet
then more people will know you and sooner or later she'll know u
You played Fireflies? She probably thinks you are gay now. Time to man up and kick her boyfriends *** for no reason, just to show her who the alpha male in the picture is.
well u could do 3 things
1. wait till they break up then start flirting with her.
2. start flirting with her now and hope that makes her break up with her bf.
3. ask her out now and pretend u dont know she has a bf. she will remeber that u r interested when they eventually do break up
Strike up a conversation with her-be yourself! Guys may not know this stuff, but girls love attention from guys-no matter who the guy is. Just joke around with her! Don't be shy. And NEVER go to her and say ';Hey um... well... never mind.'; That will make her think that something is wrong. So just keep trying! :) Good luck my fellow leprechaun! =P
when you see her just start a conversation with her, make a joke or something. have some type of verbal action, it doesnt even have to be for a very long time. just get her to notice that you are actually alive. then the next time you see her be sure to speak, keep it at speaking everytime you see her for....oh maybe about a week. then go back in for the convo. find out what subject she is good in at school and maybe exchange numbers and meet up somewhere for ';help';...just be creative! :)
please stop !
Listen sweetheart firstly you have to take off those love goggles you seem to be wearing, and trust me on this one, once you get to really know this amazing girl you won't think so as much. The truth is although you think she's the one for you/you really want, you have to come down to earth and realize that after all she has a bf and is probably happy with the guy? Now why would you want to ruin that for her? Do you believe that you can make her much happier? Are you in your opinion, better that this other guy somehow? Why not instead of thinking how amazing she is, really try to get to know more about her, you must know a friend that knows her personally, and have them introduce you. If not, then try getting yourself into the same things she's into? Like if she's in the student council then join in too, and take it from there. You'll have the best chance to get to know her better, because you'll have direct access to her and vise-versa. Then maybe you'll really know if you can be her friend or even want to for that matter? Good Luck.
How can I become better friends with a girl?
There's this girl I like, and I only see her like once a week. I like her, but I'm not sure she likes me. I've decided I want to try just being friends first before considering moving into something more, but the problem is she seems kinda shy. My question is...how do I get to know her better just as a friend without weirding her out? I would appriciate any help with this so I can get some good sleep at night lol.How can I become better friends with a girl?
This works a lot. Give her your number and tell her to call you sometime. If she's shy like you say she is, ask if she has a myspace or has email. Give her yours. If she likes you, she might give you something of hers in return. If you can in any way possible get her number, please don't wait to call her. Call her, find what you have in common, and once you guys talk enough to each other ask if she wants to hang out sometime. Since she is shy, you pretty much have to lead the friendship. You must do everything first and see how she responds. Pretty soon after, you never know, you guys may become more than friends! Best of luck!How can I become better friends with a girl?
That's a good question. Well.....you could try and sit with her @ lunch and just talk to her. Get a conversation going. Don't ask anything too personal. Just like do you haev any pets or siblings? That's usually get a conversation going. I hope this helps! See ya!
Don't think of her as a sex object. Treat her with respect. Sincerely act as if you are really happy to be with her.Just hang out and do ordinary things with her.After a while if there is any chemistry you will know...Good Luck!heatsink mount to howtocurlwithaflatiron
This works a lot. Give her your number and tell her to call you sometime. If she's shy like you say she is, ask if she has a myspace or has email. Give her yours. If she likes you, she might give you something of hers in return. If you can in any way possible get her number, please don't wait to call her. Call her, find what you have in common, and once you guys talk enough to each other ask if she wants to hang out sometime. Since she is shy, you pretty much have to lead the friendship. You must do everything first and see how she responds. Pretty soon after, you never know, you guys may become more than friends! Best of luck!How can I become better friends with a girl?
That's a good question. Well.....you could try and sit with her @ lunch and just talk to her. Get a conversation going. Don't ask anything too personal. Just like do you haev any pets or siblings? That's usually get a conversation going. I hope this helps! See ya!
Don't think of her as a sex object. Treat her with respect. Sincerely act as if you are really happy to be with her.Just hang out and do ordinary things with her.After a while if there is any chemistry you will know...Good Luck!
How can I become better friends with a girl?
There's this girl I like, and I only see her like once a week. I like her, but I'm not sure she likes me. I've decided I want to try just being friends first before considering moving into something more, but the problem is she seems kinda shy. My question is...how do I get to know her better just as a friend without weirding her out? I would appriciate any help with this so I can get some good sleep at night lol.How can I become better friends with a girl?
This works a lot. Give her your number and tell her to call you sometime. If she's shy like you say she is, ask if she has a myspace or has email. Give her yours. If she likes you, she might give you something of hers in return. If you can in any way possible get her number, please don't wait to call her. Call her, find what you have in common, and once you guys talk enough to each other ask if she wants to hang out sometime. Since she is shy, you pretty much have to lead the friendship. You must do everything first and see how she responds. Pretty soon after, you never know, you guys may become more than friends! Best of luck!How can I become better friends with a girl?
That's a good question. Well.....you could try and sit with her @ lunch and just talk to her. Get a conversation going. Don't ask anything too personal. Just like do you haev any pets or siblings? That's usually get a conversation going. I hope this helps! See ya!
Don't think of her as a sex object. Treat her with respect. Sincerely act as if you are really happy to be with her.Just hang out and do ordinary things with her.After a while if there is any chemistry you will know...Good Luck!
This works a lot. Give her your number and tell her to call you sometime. If she's shy like you say she is, ask if she has a myspace or has email. Give her yours. If she likes you, she might give you something of hers in return. If you can in any way possible get her number, please don't wait to call her. Call her, find what you have in common, and once you guys talk enough to each other ask if she wants to hang out sometime. Since she is shy, you pretty much have to lead the friendship. You must do everything first and see how she responds. Pretty soon after, you never know, you guys may become more than friends! Best of luck!How can I become better friends with a girl?
That's a good question. Well.....you could try and sit with her @ lunch and just talk to her. Get a conversation going. Don't ask anything too personal. Just like do you haev any pets or siblings? That's usually get a conversation going. I hope this helps! See ya!
Don't think of her as a sex object. Treat her with respect. Sincerely act as if you are really happy to be with her.Just hang out and do ordinary things with her.After a while if there is any chemistry you will know...Good Luck!
How can I become friends with the guys at school?
** i know this shouldnt be in singles and dating, but i figured more guys and girls would answer :) **
so ... my group of friends doesnt really socialize with guys, and so i dont have many guy friends. Right now i am going through some tuff times with the girls and i need some guy friends. But i dont know where to start! I really want both guy and girl friends. please help me!
i also think its harder because they know me and i know them, but not at a friendship level. Its not like i am starting highschool and can just be friends with everyone. I need to start some where ... but where?
thank you! guarenteed best answer!How can I become friends with the guys at school?
Become a trampy whore. Start wearing tight clothes and taking your top off at parties.................the guys will love you.
so ... my group of friends doesnt really socialize with guys, and so i dont have many guy friends. Right now i am going through some tuff times with the girls and i need some guy friends. But i dont know where to start! I really want both guy and girl friends. please help me!
i also think its harder because they know me and i know them, but not at a friendship level. Its not like i am starting highschool and can just be friends with everyone. I need to start some where ... but where?
thank you! guarenteed best answer!How can I become friends with the guys at school?
Become a trampy whore. Start wearing tight clothes and taking your top off at parties.................the guys will love you.
How can I become friends with the guys at school?
** i know this shouldnt be in singles and dating, but i figured more guys and girls would answer :) **
so ... my group of friends doesnt really socialize with guys, and so i dont have many guy friends. Right now i am going through some tuff times with the girls and i need some guy friends. But i dont know where to start! I really want both guy and girl friends. please help me!
i also think its harder because they know me and i know them, but not at a friendship level. Its not like i am starting highschool and can just be friends with everyone. I need to start some where ... but where?
thank you! guarenteed best answer!How can I become friends with the guys at school?
I've always found it easy to talk and hang with guys when I sort of become a guy myself. I don't mean go out and buy baggy pants and shirts and stuff, I just mean personality wise. Here's some things that help me.
~~You need to be relaxed, laid back, and be ready to have fun. And do not take what guys say seriously. What they may think is funny may seem rude and hurtful to you.
~~You need to be able to get rough and you cant be afraid to get ';down in the mud';. I was at a party where they were playing Boot Hockey. Me and my friend were the only girls who joined the guys and tackled and slid into people. The guys loved the fact that we were rough and got into the game. I made some friends because of it.
~~Make sure you can talk about something guys like to talk about like sports and video games. My guy friends really enjoy trying to explain to me how golf works, or about the engine on their boat. Guys like to sound like an expert.
~~Give them some competition. I've challenged guys by saying I can throw a football farther than them and I've challenged them to a 1-on-1 basketball game. A guy and I even got into a small argument over who could throw the other off of a jet ski first. It doesn't matter if you can or cant beat them, the fact that you challenged them and gave them competition is good enough.
~~Be yourself. Guys do not like girls to be something they arent. Sure, you arent a guy and you may be more girly than tomboy but guys like a girl that can be one of them. Keep in mind that you dont have to completely be a guy. You can scream and stuff and get weirded out, its completely fine. Guys actually like it. I know my guy friends love it when I let out a shriek or something if they are coming in for a tackle when we play football.
so ... my group of friends doesnt really socialize with guys, and so i dont have many guy friends. Right now i am going through some tuff times with the girls and i need some guy friends. But i dont know where to start! I really want both guy and girl friends. please help me!
i also think its harder because they know me and i know them, but not at a friendship level. Its not like i am starting highschool and can just be friends with everyone. I need to start some where ... but where?
thank you! guarenteed best answer!How can I become friends with the guys at school?
I've always found it easy to talk and hang with guys when I sort of become a guy myself. I don't mean go out and buy baggy pants and shirts and stuff, I just mean personality wise. Here's some things that help me.
~~You need to be relaxed, laid back, and be ready to have fun. And do not take what guys say seriously. What they may think is funny may seem rude and hurtful to you.
~~You need to be able to get rough and you cant be afraid to get ';down in the mud';. I was at a party where they were playing Boot Hockey. Me and my friend were the only girls who joined the guys and tackled and slid into people. The guys loved the fact that we were rough and got into the game. I made some friends because of it.
~~Make sure you can talk about something guys like to talk about like sports and video games. My guy friends really enjoy trying to explain to me how golf works, or about the engine on their boat. Guys like to sound like an expert.
~~Give them some competition. I've challenged guys by saying I can throw a football farther than them and I've challenged them to a 1-on-1 basketball game. A guy and I even got into a small argument over who could throw the other off of a jet ski first. It doesn't matter if you can or cant beat them, the fact that you challenged them and gave them competition is good enough.
~~Be yourself. Guys do not like girls to be something they arent. Sure, you arent a guy and you may be more girly than tomboy but guys like a girl that can be one of them. Keep in mind that you dont have to completely be a guy. You can scream and stuff and get weirded out, its completely fine. Guys actually like it. I know my guy friends love it when I let out a shriek or something if they are coming in for a tackle when we play football.
How do I become friends with a teenager girl?
Ok, I'm a 14 year old guy and the girl I like is 13. She started recently giving me high 5's and shaking my hand to *Congratulate* me which gave me the impression that she likes me which made me like her (kind of complicated...) But i still don't know how to approach her and sometimes I get worried that she'll be insulted by me going to talk to her. Please help! Also, do girls her age prefer guys like 17 and 18, because shes always talking with them.How do I become friends with a teenager girl?
13 year olds might like 17 and 18 year olds, but they don't like them. Just go talk to her. She obviously is interested in you.How do I become friends with a teenager girl?
im 15 and i have like 10 friends my age, all my friends are older than me, not to mention they're mostly guys because girls are to much drama, she could just be like me in that sense.
just start conversations about whatever is going on. dont be TOO flirty or she will think you're some kind of creeper. just a conversation here and there not all the time. your friendship will slowly build. find some excuse to get her number from HER, not ask around for her. thats weird.
just be NICE. and yourself. if she doesnt like you, oh well. if she does, great :D
i agree with Orangie that would just get the guys in BIG trouble you should go for it.
Woah, smart guy. Figured it out, have you?
XD I'm thirteen and yes, attracted to older, more mature guys because, well, us girls start puberty earlier and are generally interested in guys. And the guys in our grade are immature. So we look to 17-year-olds (who are hot, by the way).
I've skipped a grade so every guy in my grade is older than me (which rocks). But anyway, I doubt a 17 year old will date a 13 year old girl. So you're probably safe. If you're on speaking terms and she does all the things you've said she does, it does sound like she's interested in you. I find 13 a very difficult age to be because whenever I get a guy friend I wonder if he's not interested in me 'romantically' (long story...don't ask). But I never high-five a guy I hate so she obviously likes you. I don't think 13 year olds are capable of that sort of love.
But lots of the girls in my class date (for about two days, but whatever). Go for it. You're not really close, so if she says no, move on.
13 year olds might like 17 and 18 year olds, but they don't like them. Just go talk to her. She obviously is interested in you.How do I become friends with a teenager girl?
im 15 and i have like 10 friends my age, all my friends are older than me, not to mention they're mostly guys because girls are to much drama, she could just be like me in that sense.
just start conversations about whatever is going on. dont be TOO flirty or she will think you're some kind of creeper. just a conversation here and there not all the time. your friendship will slowly build. find some excuse to get her number from HER, not ask around for her. thats weird.
just be NICE. and yourself. if she doesnt like you, oh well. if she does, great :D
i agree with Orangie that would just get the guys in BIG trouble you should go for it.
Woah, smart guy. Figured it out, have you?
XD I'm thirteen and yes, attracted to older, more mature guys because, well, us girls start puberty earlier and are generally interested in guys. And the guys in our grade are immature. So we look to 17-year-olds (who are hot, by the way).
I've skipped a grade so every guy in my grade is older than me (which rocks). But anyway, I doubt a 17 year old will date a 13 year old girl. So you're probably safe. If you're on speaking terms and she does all the things you've said she does, it does sound like she's interested in you. I find 13 a very difficult age to be because whenever I get a guy friend I wonder if he's not interested in me 'romantically' (long story...don't ask). But I never high-five a guy I hate so she obviously likes you. I don't think 13 year olds are capable of that sort of love.
But lots of the girls in my class date (for about two days, but whatever). Go for it. You're not really close, so if she says no, move on.
How can i become friends with ';that girl';?
there is this great girl in one of my classes (calculus, not a social class), and i really, really, want to get to know her some more, and spend time with her. we have been in many of the same classes since 2nd grade, and i always thought she was a great person (i wouldve started a friendship at that age, but i didnt want ';cooties';). the problem is, that i am EXTREMELY shy. i have never made a single friend on my own, and i am incredibly socially awkward. i have a hard time even answering questions during class due to shyness. i really want to get to know her, and i want to change 16 years of being a loner for that.
what can i do?How can i become friends with ';that girl';?
If your looking for a miricle answer, it doesn't exist. Simply stop her after class and say ';you know we've gone to school together for years and I know nothing about you'; then ask her things about herself. If she brushes you off she's not the kind of girl you need as a friend.How can i become friends with ';that girl';?
Be ';That guy';.
First thing stop being shy and involve in the activities that are happening in the class. Girls will react more to them who are smart and are confident. So change yourself first.
be cool, not be shy, make sure your clothes match
be courageous and ask her about homework or about a problem or something.
If you're that shy and you have no friends, then you have some changes to make before you give it a go... Unless her turn-ons include socially impotent loners with a love for calculus, then ur a shoe-in. Sorry that's the truth.
Look all you're going to get from people on this are jokes or F-ing cliches... Look you have to make large strides to be with this girl considering the shape you're in now buddy. Think about it.
okay think
if you fail you fail some one is better out there
if you dont try you will never know
if you win you did good for trying
okay got that good.
just talk to her say 'ay whats up, have you heard about...';
get it?
got it?
good
us girls really arnt that mean
we LOVE when guys talk to us
no matter who
espica;;y shy guys cause we feel special :))
I used to be very shy too, but once u start talking and making friends it gets so much easier. Casually ask something like ';are u getting this?'; or just start with a smile. If she really is a good person this shouldn't be too hard. Best wishes!
try to calm a little and ask her out!!!.
If you have been around this girl for so long, try to figure out her likes and dislikes. Do a bit of detective work. Does she read books for fun? does she like animals? who are her friends? Is she outgoing or shy? stuff like that....you will be able to figure out a good way to strike up a conversation
with her. Good luck, I have other ideas, but, no room here. E-mail me
Take it from a guy who has been there, you can overcome the shyness. In fact, my shyness never really went away, I just learned to deal with it. The most important thing is to be yourself with this girl. People are not stupid and will know if you are faking or being a poser. Just be genuine when you talk to her, and if she's into you then great. You also have to be willing to accept the fact that it might not all work out like the movies in the end, and that you just might not be compatible. Learning to take rejection for what it is (just a ';judge a book by its cover'; type of decision that doesn't really reflect on you: the person) is the best way to overcome shyness because it takes away, or minimizes, the ';consequences'; of going out on that limb. All you gotta do is be confident, strike up a conversation about anything at all to get talking, and it will take care of itself from there. Don't forget, she's not Joe Cool either, she may just be as nervous as you are!
well be confident and smile at her. start saying hello when you see her. once you do that be like don't you have like most of my classes with me.. then you start talking to her more. just be yourself, don't try so hard that you become annoying..
You have have to psych yourself out. When ever you feel fear or anxiety think of the word boldness. Understand that women think just like men in the fact that they will feel shy or uncomfortable when approaching a guy. A good exercise is to familiarize yourself with the word by writing on paper in big letters and saying it loud. This will allow you to find strength in the meaning of the word and may help you overcome some of your shyness. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO APPROACH WOMEN! She will not harm you and and think of something hurtful to say to her as a comeback if she tries to hurt your feelings. This will give you confidence. I suggest you think about what your going to say a try to be calm and smile but not to hard when talking to her. Good Luck Zachwith black nail polish
what can i do?How can i become friends with ';that girl';?
If your looking for a miricle answer, it doesn't exist. Simply stop her after class and say ';you know we've gone to school together for years and I know nothing about you'; then ask her things about herself. If she brushes you off she's not the kind of girl you need as a friend.How can i become friends with ';that girl';?
Be ';That guy';.
First thing stop being shy and involve in the activities that are happening in the class. Girls will react more to them who are smart and are confident. So change yourself first.
be cool, not be shy, make sure your clothes match
be courageous and ask her about homework or about a problem or something.
If you're that shy and you have no friends, then you have some changes to make before you give it a go... Unless her turn-ons include socially impotent loners with a love for calculus, then ur a shoe-in. Sorry that's the truth.
Look all you're going to get from people on this are jokes or F-ing cliches... Look you have to make large strides to be with this girl considering the shape you're in now buddy. Think about it.
okay think
if you fail you fail some one is better out there
if you dont try you will never know
if you win you did good for trying
okay got that good.
just talk to her say 'ay whats up, have you heard about...';
get it?
got it?
good
us girls really arnt that mean
we LOVE when guys talk to us
no matter who
espica;;y shy guys cause we feel special :))
I used to be very shy too, but once u start talking and making friends it gets so much easier. Casually ask something like ';are u getting this?'; or just start with a smile. If she really is a good person this shouldn't be too hard. Best wishes!
try to calm a little and ask her out!!!.
If you have been around this girl for so long, try to figure out her likes and dislikes. Do a bit of detective work. Does she read books for fun? does she like animals? who are her friends? Is she outgoing or shy? stuff like that....you will be able to figure out a good way to strike up a conversation
with her. Good luck, I have other ideas, but, no room here. E-mail me
Take it from a guy who has been there, you can overcome the shyness. In fact, my shyness never really went away, I just learned to deal with it. The most important thing is to be yourself with this girl. People are not stupid and will know if you are faking or being a poser. Just be genuine when you talk to her, and if she's into you then great. You also have to be willing to accept the fact that it might not all work out like the movies in the end, and that you just might not be compatible. Learning to take rejection for what it is (just a ';judge a book by its cover'; type of decision that doesn't really reflect on you: the person) is the best way to overcome shyness because it takes away, or minimizes, the ';consequences'; of going out on that limb. All you gotta do is be confident, strike up a conversation about anything at all to get talking, and it will take care of itself from there. Don't forget, she's not Joe Cool either, she may just be as nervous as you are!
well be confident and smile at her. start saying hello when you see her. once you do that be like don't you have like most of my classes with me.. then you start talking to her more. just be yourself, don't try so hard that you become annoying..
You have have to psych yourself out. When ever you feel fear or anxiety think of the word boldness. Understand that women think just like men in the fact that they will feel shy or uncomfortable when approaching a guy. A good exercise is to familiarize yourself with the word by writing on paper in big letters and saying it loud. This will allow you to find strength in the meaning of the word and may help you overcome some of your shyness. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO APPROACH WOMEN! She will not harm you and and think of something hurtful to say to her as a comeback if she tries to hurt your feelings. This will give you confidence. I suggest you think about what your going to say a try to be calm and smile but not to hard when talking to her. Good Luck Zach
I became friends with a girl in my grade in the last few weeks. I invited her to my party and realized what?
she was really like. She was selfish and rude and liked to show off. after I invited her, I thinks she thinks we are closer. I don't want to be her friend. How should I tell her this in a nice way?I became friends with a girl in my grade in the last few weeks. I invited her to my party and realized what?
Just stay away from her,ignore her and stop hanging out with her she will get the message soon =]I became friends with a girl in my grade in the last few weeks. I invited her to my party and realized what?
You may want to talk to her about what your dislikes about her. If she can do that, she can change her habits for you and for everyone else. It's really harsh for you to end this friendship with her especially that you only known her for a few weeks.
Just stay away from her,ignore her and stop hanging out with her she will get the message soon =]I became friends with a girl in my grade in the last few weeks. I invited her to my party and realized what?
You may want to talk to her about what your dislikes about her. If she can do that, she can change her habits for you and for everyone else. It's really harsh for you to end this friendship with her especially that you only known her for a few weeks.
How can I become friends with this one girl?
My language arts teacher paired up up together for a project and she seems really nice. We have a lot of things in common, too. But there's only one problem: her friends are jerks who boss her around and only think of themselves. Plus, they hate me.
Long story short, I really want to be her friend because she seems nice and we have things in common, but she already has a group of friends that are jerks and I don't want to be friends with them and they definately don't want to be friends with me, and she probably wants to stay their friend because they're popular. So what do I do?
Thanks for your time,
MeghanHow can I become friends with this one girl?
Well I personally think you should become friends with her. It doesn't matter if she has so called ';popular'; friends that hate you. %26amp;%26amp; it's not like you're going to be her very best friend, you're just going to be her friend and that's that; If people don't like it it's their problem not yours. %26amp;%26amp; just because she is friends with these people that doesn't mean you have to be. So I suggest trying to become friends with her %26amp;%26amp; just see what happens. She could be your friend %26amp;%26amp; the other peoples friends at the same time! :)
Hope I could help!!How can I become friends with this one girl?
Well you're already friends with her. Who cares if you don't get along with her other friends, all she should care about is that you two are friends. You sound like you really want this girl to be your friend, so be a good friend back and be friends with her because you want to. Don't care about those other so called friends of her. You're free to choose who you want your friends to be, so choose wisely.
just be her friend....your gunna have friends who have friends you dont like or even dispise, it doesnt matter.
Long story short, I really want to be her friend because she seems nice and we have things in common, but she already has a group of friends that are jerks and I don't want to be friends with them and they definately don't want to be friends with me, and she probably wants to stay their friend because they're popular. So what do I do?
Thanks for your time,
MeghanHow can I become friends with this one girl?
Well I personally think you should become friends with her. It doesn't matter if she has so called ';popular'; friends that hate you. %26amp;%26amp; it's not like you're going to be her very best friend, you're just going to be her friend and that's that; If people don't like it it's their problem not yours. %26amp;%26amp; just because she is friends with these people that doesn't mean you have to be. So I suggest trying to become friends with her %26amp;%26amp; just see what happens. She could be your friend %26amp;%26amp; the other peoples friends at the same time! :)
Hope I could help!!How can I become friends with this one girl?
Well you're already friends with her. Who cares if you don't get along with her other friends, all she should care about is that you two are friends. You sound like you really want this girl to be your friend, so be a good friend back and be friends with her because you want to. Don't care about those other so called friends of her. You're free to choose who you want your friends to be, so choose wisely.
just be her friend....your gunna have friends who have friends you dont like or even dispise, it doesnt matter.
How to be friends with a popular girl(I'm a guy)?
There's this girl in my class that I really like, she's really pretty and has a great personality. The thing is, she doesn't even seem to know I exist. I at least want to be friends with her, but I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, she'll start to think I'm a stalker or something. Is there any way that I can become friends with her without completely embarrassing myself? I'm in middle school, if that helps.How to be friends with a popular girl(I'm a guy)?
Find something that you have in common and do not be too obvious. Girls rs like compliments, say something like..You hair looks good today did you do something different or have you lost weight
(they love that)..You can also start by finding out what are her favorite TV shows ans start watching them so you can have a conversation.
Then just take it day by dayHow to be friends with a popular girl(I'm a guy)?
hey tristan i can't really help you but good luck
Just talk to her.
try to be funny and everybody will notice you
Find something that you have in common and do not be too obvious. Girls rs like compliments, say something like..You hair looks good today did you do something different or have you lost weight
(they love that)..You can also start by finding out what are her favorite TV shows ans start watching them so you can have a conversation.
Then just take it day by dayHow to be friends with a popular girl(I'm a guy)?
hey tristan i can't really help you but good luck
Just talk to her.
try to be funny and everybody will notice you
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