How do you become a ';good'; friend with a girl?

I've known her for a couple months now and had a chat about becoming good friends. But she says that it can't happen over night and I understand that. I think the problem is that we live far apart and go to two different schools and only see each other @ work on the weekends. How can I become a good friend of hers? I mean you can't ';force'; someone to be a good friend of yours.............How do you become a ';good'; friend with a girl?
How you ask? You have to be nice and kind and caring of her feelings above yours but don't put your feelings in the vault. You have to show her that you like her with actions of kindness like carrying her heavy loads or letting her go ahead through a door or you offering to help her on something she is struggling with. Overall, be a gentleman. It is what girls want now adays.How do you become a ';good'; friend with a girl?
If you're looking for a romantic thing with this girl forget about being a good friend. That is romantic suicide. Once a friend it is soooo difficult to switch over to romance.
Hmm....Luckily u are not chasing her. Just be friends, then sometimes just spend time visit her. Try talk to her more often and let her feel that u r safe...
You need to pay attention to her, learn everything you can about her...her likes/dislikes. Remember the things she tells you. Provide for her when she is in need. Listen to her.
Just hang out, talk, and do nice things for her. You don't have to take it overboard though. Just do what you would with your other friends except be a little nicer about holding doors or buying the dinner.
lat time do it's work, don't roach it lat it jest happen