Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How to get a shy girl to become friends with you.?

There is this shy girl that I see every once a while maybe once a week. She doesn't really talk to anyone and is really quiet. I had lunch with her a long time ago and being trying to get her to hang out with me.



I made friends with her friends that I know of and had them over to hangout, and I've invited her friends over for my new years party, and they are coming. But she is always either too busy with other friends or other issues. I've tried to invite her to hiking with me or take a dance class, and she's given me the busy signal.



Anyway, I don't really want a relationship (though wouldn't mind) but just to know her a little more. I don't think I've ever had this much trouble making friendship with someone. I'm a pretty friendly guy, and I never had a situation where someone just don't want me around.



We play the same instruments. She's has a gorgeous voice and musically talented, and I want to know some of her musical secrets.



Is she really that busy? What's going through her mind? What should I do?How to get a shy girl to become friends with you.?
try talking to her alot even if she just gives you one worded answer, eventually she'll get use to you and she'll start talking to you like its nothing and the more you talk to her she will start to trust youHow to get a shy girl to become friends with you.?
If you have directly asked her out on dates repeatedly or just to hang out and she consistently says no then I would say she is not interested in being friends with you.
Maybe you should ask her friends and see what she thinks about you.
u should just walk up 2 her n go like ';hey ur in my class right? can i borrow ur notes i forgot 2'; n then just make a small convo

n since u 2 play the same instruments ask 2 her help u with some techniques on how 2 play some songs if u have trouble with any
shes prob. going threw some **** in her life and dosent care to make new friends. or she could have a boyfriends. or she might actually be shy and you need to make the first move, not just asking her to do stuff.

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