Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Girls: How I should begin to become friends with a girl?

See, there's this girl in my school, thats a grade lower than me.

I've seen her a few times in the hallway, and she used to like my friend like a year ago, so I know her name. She doesn't know me, but in the hallways as we pass by there's always a second or so where we look at each other in the eyes.



So, I'm not looking to begin a relationship just yet, but I'd be interested to meet her as a friend and get to know her. Any ideas how to do it? Through my friend or.. out of the blue?



Preferred answerers: Girls, but guys with experience is welcome to.

Thanks!Girls: How I should begin to become friends with a girl?
Since she like'd your friend I wouldn't go that route. She might think he was into her and that could complicate things for you in the future. Instead, when you pass in the halls try a smile and a ';how are you?'; Try to get a conversation going. You could also ';accidentally'; bump into her and apologize but be careful with this one. You don't want to hurt her :PGirls: How I should begin to become friends with a girl?
Well i think the best possible way is when u see her in the hallways just go up to her and tell her hii or something like that and then like everytime u see her talk to her
First thing first, tell your friend about how your plan and if that's alright with him. If it doesn't seem okay for him, then you make decision and be ready to deal with consequences. About the girl, she probably is giving you good vibes and attention, knowing that you are the friend of the boy she likes. She would expect you to tell your friend that you see her, stuffs like that. But there is also an easy attraction to your crush' friend which could also mean that she could easily get attracted to you. Be careful though because it could also be that she might use you to make the other guy pay attention to her, jealous, etc. About telling her, how about winking at her, smiling, etc. when you meet her to make her think and get thrilled. Do it at least 2-3 times and then by the 3rd or 4th time, ask her out. She'd probably be uncomfortable the first time you invite her, ask her again. If she likes you, it will get somewhere, if she does not...it will not happen.

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