How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?

Okay, so I am really confused about this friendship with a girl I have know for a little more than 2 years now.



Background Info:



We met at church when one of her friends brought her and I became friend with her, In fact, she might be the person I talked to the most when we were at church together.



I've had a kind of on/off crush on her since we've met. She has dated a couple of guys at my church and I've seen what their friendship has been like since they broke up. Because of that, I have been afraid to ask her out because I don't want to destroy our friendship. Just to let you know, we just talk, we never hang out. But it seems like as soon as I get over her, She somehow pops back into the picture. For Example, recently I started college, and she is taking Dual Credit classes (she is a HS senior) and we have a class together, so we were shocked to see each other.



Anyway, here is where the ';signals'; kind of started A month she got a new phone and asked for my number. One day she randomly called me to tell me class was cancelled, she had never done this before. Okay, now skip a couple of weeks of interacting with each other (as in no talking). Last Wednesday I had to sit in the hall while people took their test, and then She came out with some of her friends and started talking to me. I have an iPhone so she was curious on what the texting o the phone is like and made me send her a text. Friday comes along and she doesn't show for class. I decided hey, I'll text her to see where she was today. We talked a little and I eventually went to Wal Mart to meet some friends there. As I was walking with them, she by happened to be there as well and called me out excitedly. We talked a little and told me that she was going to go to this raunchy play at the college later, I told her I might go, so I raced to my friends and told them we have to go because this could be my chance. Anyway, later in the night we go to the play, I spot her and just acted like I didn't even know she was there. She then spotted me and asked to sit with her during the play (BTW I was already with a group of people). So anyway as we got to the seating area, the usher told us we were on totally different sides of the theatre, but somehow convinced them to let me go to the other side. So I went and as we were sitting down, She asked if I could tie her tie (She was dressed as a sexy school girl for halloween) and there was a little cleavage so I tried to tie it, but eventually took the tie and tied it on my own neck and gave it back to her (mistake, but I don't want her to think I'm a perv). Anyway, Since she is with her friends, I tried not to get involved and kept quiet, half way through the raunchy play, her friends want to leave citing that it was practically a porn(it was the rocky horror picture show). So as she was leaving with her group, she told me bye and hugged me. As she was walking, I asked if she wanted to go see a movie tomorrow. She said that she had already had a date with this guy from our class, she even called him geeky. So I felt crushed, especially since he is a douche bag who wears flip flops in Fall, so I told her to tell me how it goes. And then the last thing I did was probably one of the biggest things I regret, I said you look sexy. she gave me a giggly thanks and left. Anyway, I waited all weekend to here from her, and nothing, then At school today, we didn't talk, but that douche went and talked to her, and I think that she was kind of not interested, but being nice. I feel hurt and confused about all of this. Would somebody clarify this for me, and possibly tell me what I should do try and get a relationship going?



My friend tried to cheer me up by saying she obviously has a thing for me if she pulled me away from my friends at the play, but I'm not so sure about that.How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?
Friendship is a slow growing plant. Live a life that pleases your creator and ask him for the right girl in your life. It will happen and you will know. This works, it did for me. Be honest with her and yourself. It might be time to tell her that you really are attracted to her and would like to know her better. Then let her make the next move. Don't be shy. Ask her out and let her know how you feel. But don't jump too hard or it might scare her away.How do I know if a girl friend wants to be more than friends?
try and get to know her really well and become good friends first

DONT COME ON TOO STRONG!!! thats the biggest mistake most people make (yes i have done it many times)

the tie thing was cute!! its sooo cute that she asked you to do it for her

and she might have gotten that date at the movies to make you jealous because she though you'd ask her.

once you guys become good friends, just ask her. i know it seems completely out of the question, but trust me, any girl would love if i guy asked her that. if you're too scared, ask he on AIM or a text message.



good luck and i really hope everything works out between you guys!!