i rely like this guy
i guess he doesnt like me back
my bff and him are good friends
good,normal,platonic,friends
i hate iti want to be his ';girl'; thats a friend ';friend'; if thats all thats possible
HOW DO I BECOME A GUYS ';GIRL,FRIEND'; not girlfriend..
if i go to online school now so i never see him really
what do i do
how can i slowly become his friend
i need to know i cant take it anymore i want to hang out with him
please helpHow to become his ';friend'; thats a girl.not gf.....if i rely like him....PLZ HELP?
Awesome I got to cyber school to.. =]]
And I suggest you find really cool things he like to do and play with him alot more (don't just talk to him to be talking about something)
Like when you have something really fun to do (tell him)
If you just see him and have nothing to say (Wave and don't say anything) =]]
So this way your not annoying. and your easssing your way into the fun cato
:DDDD good luck!
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Alot of girl ';friends'; but no ';girlfriend';. What to do?
OK Here is my little history I am in my late 20s and somehow I have end up with a lot of female friends. I used to have a lot of male friends but somehow most my friends are female. It is confusing cause I am interested in some of them and not sure if they have the same feelings. Most of them know each other and they give me conflicting signals. One says the other is interested in me and the other says the other and so on. I don't know what to do I think becoming friends with girls is more hassle than help. I just hate gossiping with no results. I like to be their friends either way but love to get a new girlfriend so somebody point me to how I can sort things outAlot of girl ';friends'; but no ';girlfriend';. What to do?
If they are all just your friends then you need to let the one you like know you want to be more than friends. girls cant read minds. be subtle but persistent...little things, she should pick up pretty quick and if she feels the same you will be able to tell but if she doesnt then you will know and wont feel so awkaward if you have been subtle about it :)Alot of girl ';friends'; but no ';girlfriend';. What to do?
It is not advisable to find a real gf within your group of female friends as you might lose more than one friend if your relationship does not work out. Try to find one outside your social circle for your own good.
Get more guy friends, please. Guy friends help you out with this kind of stuff. The friends you have that are saying that one another like you? They're looking for something to gossip about and they're women so they misread A TON of things for love. Just get more guy friends. They'll know how to get women and they can help you out.
be sure having girl';friends'; is much better than a girlfriend!!!
so be a man when with the girls............dont try to keep them happy............keep and work to make your life comfortable......
believe me man ....... then life will change 360' and for good
I also had the same situation, because I'm a male nurse..I have found the solution in looking outside my friends..I suggest you to do the same..
If one tells you the other is interested and you're like ';Really? Awesome!'; then you ruin your chances with that one cause she's not special anymore. Duh.
So next time one tells you the other is interested, just say ';Well I'm not interested in her because 'blah blah blah''; Make something up about why you're not attracted to the other girl, but simultaneously act all coy like you really like the girl who's telling you the other one is interested. Many girls are catty and they'll buy into anything.
If the girl's a hater, try to figure out what she hates about the other girl and then sympathize with her and make fun of the other one behind her back. No better way to bond with a hater.
Also, many chicks are freaks and like to be mistreated. If the first tactic doesn't work, try treating them like crap - make appointments and don't show up, make fun of them, pick your nose and wipe it on them, borrow money and don't pay it back. Some chicks love that stuff.
Then after you f*ck one of them, don't be overly mean, but don't get all romantic either. You can stay and make her breakfast if you must, but don't stay too long. Women often complain about how a guy leaves too soon but they prefer if we outstayed our welcome? Didn't think so.
Also, what do you dress like and do you have good grooming habits? That could be the problem.Changing bed sheets
If they are all just your friends then you need to let the one you like know you want to be more than friends. girls cant read minds. be subtle but persistent...little things, she should pick up pretty quick and if she feels the same you will be able to tell but if she doesnt then you will know and wont feel so awkaward if you have been subtle about it :)Alot of girl ';friends'; but no ';girlfriend';. What to do?
It is not advisable to find a real gf within your group of female friends as you might lose more than one friend if your relationship does not work out. Try to find one outside your social circle for your own good.
Get more guy friends, please. Guy friends help you out with this kind of stuff. The friends you have that are saying that one another like you? They're looking for something to gossip about and they're women so they misread A TON of things for love. Just get more guy friends. They'll know how to get women and they can help you out.
be sure having girl';friends'; is much better than a girlfriend!!!
so be a man when with the girls............dont try to keep them happy............keep and work to make your life comfortable......
believe me man ....... then life will change 360' and for good
I also had the same situation, because I'm a male nurse..I have found the solution in looking outside my friends..I suggest you to do the same..
If one tells you the other is interested and you're like ';Really? Awesome!'; then you ruin your chances with that one cause she's not special anymore. Duh.
So next time one tells you the other is interested, just say ';Well I'm not interested in her because 'blah blah blah''; Make something up about why you're not attracted to the other girl, but simultaneously act all coy like you really like the girl who's telling you the other one is interested. Many girls are catty and they'll buy into anything.
If the girl's a hater, try to figure out what she hates about the other girl and then sympathize with her and make fun of the other one behind her back. No better way to bond with a hater.
Also, many chicks are freaks and like to be mistreated. If the first tactic doesn't work, try treating them like crap - make appointments and don't show up, make fun of them, pick your nose and wipe it on them, borrow money and don't pay it back. Some chicks love that stuff.
Then after you f*ck one of them, don't be overly mean, but don't get all romantic either. You can stay and make her breakfast if you must, but don't stay too long. Women often complain about how a guy leaves too soon but they prefer if we outstayed our welcome? Didn't think so.
Also, what do you dress like and do you have good grooming habits? That could be the problem.
How can I become this girls friend?
How do I get to know a girl or even start talking to her if she is in none of my classes? I have lunch with her but I don't sit at the same table as her. And I really have trouble talk to this person. I would feel really uncomfortable going head on to her table with her and her friends.
How should I approach her?How can I become this girls friend?
find a way to stand by her in the lunch line. Strike up a casual conversation.How can I become this girls friend?
start by talking to her on AIM or facebook..etc
then you can slowly ask her to hang with you at lunch and outside of school
How should I approach her?How can I become this girls friend?
find a way to stand by her in the lunch line. Strike up a casual conversation.How can I become this girls friend?
start by talking to her on AIM or facebook..etc
then you can slowly ask her to hang with you at lunch and outside of school
How do i become friends again with this girl?
Hi, I used to hang out with a group of girls. They were really good friends and i had a crush on one of em. She's pretty and talkative, but they arent very outgoing and VERY quiet sometimes. I'm pretty much friends with all the school, except the younger kids. When other people come up and sit at our table at lunch, her and all of her friends like shut up and never talk. I told her i liked her, and we continued to be friends, but over a month things started to just go downhill. I changed alot, but it wasn't a big deal, i just hung out with different people more at the mall to shop and stuff, and they didnt like that. I talked to my friend and he told me that the friendship got messed when i told her that i liked her and things just became awkward. I wasn't making it awkward, SHE was, all quiet and stuff and i didnt know what was wrong. On my facebook honesty box i get messages saying ';oh i miss you. you changed so much and your not you anymore i miss you so much.. :(';
But I think this is Bullspit, because she doesn't even attempt to talk to me.
What do i do?How do i become friends again with this girl?
Well, I actually know exactly what she's going through so I'll give you my little situation, and what I thought. Maybe it will offer you some insight on what she might be thinking.
I dated this guy and we broke up and didn't talk for awhile. Before, I could tell him everything, and he wouldn't judge me, and he was an upbeat type person. Then we started talking again, and he totally changed, i felt like i couldn't tell him anything without being judged, he was just boring and tired all the time. so I started avoiding him because i didn't want to be around him when he was like that.
you may not think you changed that much, but she obviously notices, and maybe she doesn't like the person you've turned into and that's why she's avoiding you. try talking to her and ask her what she liked about you that you aren't now. if you changed, maybe you can keep some changes, and change other things back. compromise :) hope i helped.How do i become friends again with this girl?
She's too shy to talk to you about it in person. You should pull her aside, JUST the two of you and talk everything over. She'll feel more comfortable if it's just you. Get some alone time.
Quiet girls are very thoughtful, and girls in general are all over-analytical. So explain to her the exact situation you are in.
A good ol nice talk would do the trick, I think being expressive doesn't just it beat all? Learn to approach a girl in different situations, try to get her attention, spend time with her if possible.
aww. well im a little confused. but I think you should show HER this story.
well if she felt the same about you great, all you have to do is find a quiet place and dont rush into things
go slow when you start and be calm if she dosent agree with something you said.
love is a precious thing at a young age.
i would know.
The girl is shy,
try making her more comfortable and she will talk just like how a newborn bird sings.
Peace
hunny you need to talk to her and her only its the only way to get the 100% true answer i know it could be hard but you want to know and if she don't talk then tell her she needs to Speak up kinda be aggressive but nice all at the same time im makes her think you care to know what she has to say and that you still like her. but if she wants to be friends is all good
If she is still sending you messages it sounds like she wants to talk to you. Maybe you should try and see if she would go out to lunch sometime so that you and her can talk about it. That way it is just the two of you. If she agrees to this explain to her why you told her that you like her and why you hang out with other people. It is a free world and you can hang out with whom ever you choose.
Hey ask her to go with u for a walk so you can talk and then ask: '' .what is the problem? You say that things are getting awkward and everything but you are the one who is making it awkward.You are always quiet and never talk much at all and then on face book u leave me those comments? look, i dont want to sound as if i dont want to be friends with you, or sound mean, but i just want u to talk to me ''
or its maybe because she misses the old u, and u might think that you havent changed a lot but she might feel that there is a big difference
well at school try and talk to her or ask one of her friends to talk to her. but if i were u i would try complimenting her. saying how that shirt really brings out her eyes today. girls always love that, trust me. then try going back to the way it use to be. hang out with only her and her friends and when ever u see her say hey whats up or hows it going. get her number and call her and just get talking bout things. i hope this helps you.
seems your nice and friendly , you never did anything wrong mainly her that she stopped talking to you, in this situation she should talk to you she should be after you even if it's just for being friends, but if you really like her well just try talking to her again if she acts the same quiet and separating from you just let it go ,theirs a lot more girls who will follow your lead, dont degrade yourself begging her .....
you like this girl and you distanced yourself with her by going out with other friends.
if you like her spend sometime with her.talk to her.be with her.yes she was silent but she didnt move away, you moved away.
theres still time go and get her.goodluck
ur friend was wrong about how ur friendship with this girl got messed up when u told her u liked her. ur friendship with her got messed up when u started hanging out with other people cause that tells her that u don't want to be around her any more so she separated herself from u . I don't think u 2 could ever be friends again to tell the truth
But I think this is Bullspit, because she doesn't even attempt to talk to me.
What do i do?How do i become friends again with this girl?
Well, I actually know exactly what she's going through so I'll give you my little situation, and what I thought. Maybe it will offer you some insight on what she might be thinking.
I dated this guy and we broke up and didn't talk for awhile. Before, I could tell him everything, and he wouldn't judge me, and he was an upbeat type person. Then we started talking again, and he totally changed, i felt like i couldn't tell him anything without being judged, he was just boring and tired all the time. so I started avoiding him because i didn't want to be around him when he was like that.
you may not think you changed that much, but she obviously notices, and maybe she doesn't like the person you've turned into and that's why she's avoiding you. try talking to her and ask her what she liked about you that you aren't now. if you changed, maybe you can keep some changes, and change other things back. compromise :) hope i helped.How do i become friends again with this girl?
She's too shy to talk to you about it in person. You should pull her aside, JUST the two of you and talk everything over. She'll feel more comfortable if it's just you. Get some alone time.
Quiet girls are very thoughtful, and girls in general are all over-analytical. So explain to her the exact situation you are in.
A good ol nice talk would do the trick, I think being expressive doesn't just it beat all? Learn to approach a girl in different situations, try to get her attention, spend time with her if possible.
aww. well im a little confused. but I think you should show HER this story.
well if she felt the same about you great, all you have to do is find a quiet place and dont rush into things
go slow when you start and be calm if she dosent agree with something you said.
love is a precious thing at a young age.
i would know.
The girl is shy,
try making her more comfortable and she will talk just like how a newborn bird sings.
Peace
hunny you need to talk to her and her only its the only way to get the 100% true answer i know it could be hard but you want to know and if she don't talk then tell her she needs to Speak up kinda be aggressive but nice all at the same time im makes her think you care to know what she has to say and that you still like her. but if she wants to be friends is all good
If she is still sending you messages it sounds like she wants to talk to you. Maybe you should try and see if she would go out to lunch sometime so that you and her can talk about it. That way it is just the two of you. If she agrees to this explain to her why you told her that you like her and why you hang out with other people. It is a free world and you can hang out with whom ever you choose.
Hey ask her to go with u for a walk so you can talk and then ask: '' .what is the problem? You say that things are getting awkward and everything but you are the one who is making it awkward.You are always quiet and never talk much at all and then on face book u leave me those comments? look, i dont want to sound as if i dont want to be friends with you, or sound mean, but i just want u to talk to me ''
or its maybe because she misses the old u, and u might think that you havent changed a lot but she might feel that there is a big difference
well at school try and talk to her or ask one of her friends to talk to her. but if i were u i would try complimenting her. saying how that shirt really brings out her eyes today. girls always love that, trust me. then try going back to the way it use to be. hang out with only her and her friends and when ever u see her say hey whats up or hows it going. get her number and call her and just get talking bout things. i hope this helps you.
seems your nice and friendly , you never did anything wrong mainly her that she stopped talking to you, in this situation she should talk to you she should be after you even if it's just for being friends, but if you really like her well just try talking to her again if she acts the same quiet and separating from you just let it go ,theirs a lot more girls who will follow your lead, dont degrade yourself begging her .....
you like this girl and you distanced yourself with her by going out with other friends.
if you like her spend sometime with her.talk to her.be with her.yes she was silent but she didnt move away, you moved away.
theres still time go and get her.goodluck
ur friend was wrong about how ur friendship with this girl got messed up when u told her u liked her. ur friendship with her got messed up when u started hanging out with other people cause that tells her that u don't want to be around her any more so she separated herself from u . I don't think u 2 could ever be friends again to tell the truth
How can I become friends with girls?
I've got a real problem making friends with girls. I am friends with plenty of boys and most of the girls I know are very nice to me and say hi quite often and things like that but I haven't developed a friendship with a single one so I never get to hang around with girls in or outside school.
I probably won't get to see any girls now until I start university in September. The uni is in my home town so I'm going to be living at home. So what is a good way for a shy boy to start making friends with girls?How can I become friends with girls?
hey =]
its hard making friends with the opposite sex. I've been in your shoes before, and yes i know how u feel when they say hi or start a conversation with you and you mumble....embarrassing much?
well the best advice i can give you (it worked with me) go out with your guy mates but invite girls you want to get along with , to come. See how things go. it might also help to imagine your talking to your sister or someone your close with.
girls don't bite, and if their the ones saying hi to you first then take that as a sign they want to be your friend....your a big guy now, pull your self together! practice makes perfect
good luck =]How can I become friends with girls?
You could try church. Sometimes they have events for young people. Its a good way to have fun with no guilt.
Oh you will probably see girls at uni!
Girls aren't hard to talk to, you just talk about pretty much anything. But just don't go for the polly prissy pants type, you know the snobs because they would probably shut you down.
You will be fine :)
Good luck!
I probably won't get to see any girls now until I start university in September. The uni is in my home town so I'm going to be living at home. So what is a good way for a shy boy to start making friends with girls?How can I become friends with girls?
hey =]
its hard making friends with the opposite sex. I've been in your shoes before, and yes i know how u feel when they say hi or start a conversation with you and you mumble....embarrassing much?
well the best advice i can give you (it worked with me) go out with your guy mates but invite girls you want to get along with , to come. See how things go. it might also help to imagine your talking to your sister or someone your close with.
girls don't bite, and if their the ones saying hi to you first then take that as a sign they want to be your friend....your a big guy now, pull your self together! practice makes perfect
good luck =]How can I become friends with girls?
You could try church. Sometimes they have events for young people. Its a good way to have fun with no guilt.
Oh you will probably see girls at uni!
Girls aren't hard to talk to, you just talk about pretty much anything. But just don't go for the polly prissy pants type, you know the snobs because they would probably shut you down.
You will be fine :)
Good luck!
How do girls Become just friends with GUYS? guys answer 2 plz!?
hi so im 14 and i have a lot of friends that are girls and none that are boys i talk to them and all but i dont have any i would hang out with or anything how do i become friends? and how do you become friends and not have them think you want to hook up? i would really really like to have some guy friends. and nows the perfect time to start because im going into high school.
thanks so much!How do girls Become just friends with GUYS? guys answer 2 plz!?
find the gay boys.
or string a guy along until he gives up and settles for frienship instead.How do girls Become just friends with GUYS? guys answer 2 plz!?
Just go out more and mingle.
just make jokes.
guys love funny girls.
my guy friends and I just laugh.
it's really just about being relatable, and entertaining.
:]
just hang with them...and if they ask u out and u dont want to just say ';i really want us to be friends,thats all,sorry'; i bet they'll understand....=)i have a lot of guy friends and they understand that we r just friends....GOOD LUCK~!
C YA
i'm naturally a tomboy (my friends call me more than a tomboy). if you're athletic, then you have a definite chance of meeting guys. go to your friends; your girl friends may know some guys and hang out with them.
Dunno, I'm 13 and have a ton of friends that are guys. I guess if your friendly, have some same interests and aren't really flirty with them you'll eventually be friends. Sometimes if you have a boyfriend they'll also easier be your friend.
just talk to them as if they were just one of your girl friends
be yourself, joke around and stuff
Well simply all u have to do is just start tlking to them and hanging out more and get your friends to introduce you to them so it seems like you really didnt want to tlk to them but dont flirt with them unless you really like them bc they'll get the wrong idea.
all you got to do is talk to them and make them laugh because if you have guy friends they will protect you like your they're girlfriend
you worry abt small things just wait you'll have them .....don't worry abt it ......
just talk to us and act like a friend. we dont think that just because you talk to us, you wanna be with us. having friends who are s are important to us too.
Dont be all flirty and whatnot,
I have more guy friends than girl friends,
they are alot easier to get along with.
just dont flirt with them alot,
but dont be a total *********.
Call them your FRIENDS.
Dont be al preppy and girly with them(unless of course they are gay)
I have a gay bestfriend, and hes practically my shopping parterr.,
To be Honest, NO guy, i mean NO GUY ever expects to have a girl become a friend. At some point, they become attracted to them, whether in the beginning or somewhere down the road, it is natural
But talk to some guys and be frank with them, say I am just not interested but I like hanging out with you. Then it is up to the guy whether or not to hang out with you. If they do, you got a friend. But don't expect any guy to just say, I would love to friends with you.
If that happens, they probably like you more than just a friend just don't know how to approach it or they are gay.
I agree w/ you. It's ok to have friends that are girls, but girls are also caddy and talk about you behind your back. If you had a guy friend then you don't really have to worry about the caddiness (unless he's gay). If u don't want your guy friend to think that you want to hook up then try not to flirt w/ him. Tell him that he's a cool dude and you wanna be friends. Tell him that you wanna hang out %26amp; do whatever you do in your home town. Guy friends have your back when drama comes up. When u get in high school and if u go to a few parties there will be many guys (upper classmen) that may try to take advantage of u, so keep your guy friends close. There are just some things that girl friends can't do so u gotta keep your guy friends close. Your guy friend can look for a respectful boyfriend for you (not the jerks that most freshman girls always look at). Sometimes you just get tired of listening to your girl friends talk about the same mumbo %26amp; guys always have something funny to say. They're just refreshing.
thanks so much!How do girls Become just friends with GUYS? guys answer 2 plz!?
find the gay boys.
or string a guy along until he gives up and settles for frienship instead.How do girls Become just friends with GUYS? guys answer 2 plz!?
Just go out more and mingle.
just make jokes.
guys love funny girls.
my guy friends and I just laugh.
it's really just about being relatable, and entertaining.
:]
just hang with them...and if they ask u out and u dont want to just say ';i really want us to be friends,thats all,sorry'; i bet they'll understand....=)i have a lot of guy friends and they understand that we r just friends....GOOD LUCK~!
C YA
i'm naturally a tomboy (my friends call me more than a tomboy). if you're athletic, then you have a definite chance of meeting guys. go to your friends; your girl friends may know some guys and hang out with them.
Dunno, I'm 13 and have a ton of friends that are guys. I guess if your friendly, have some same interests and aren't really flirty with them you'll eventually be friends. Sometimes if you have a boyfriend they'll also easier be your friend.
just talk to them as if they were just one of your girl friends
be yourself, joke around and stuff
Well simply all u have to do is just start tlking to them and hanging out more and get your friends to introduce you to them so it seems like you really didnt want to tlk to them but dont flirt with them unless you really like them bc they'll get the wrong idea.
all you got to do is talk to them and make them laugh because if you have guy friends they will protect you like your they're girlfriend
you worry abt small things just wait you'll have them .....don't worry abt it ......
just talk to us and act like a friend. we dont think that just because you talk to us, you wanna be with us. having friends who are s are important to us too.
Dont be all flirty and whatnot,
I have more guy friends than girl friends,
they are alot easier to get along with.
just dont flirt with them alot,
but dont be a total *********.
Call them your FRIENDS.
Dont be al preppy and girly with them(unless of course they are gay)
I have a gay bestfriend, and hes practically my shopping parterr.,
To be Honest, NO guy, i mean NO GUY ever expects to have a girl become a friend. At some point, they become attracted to them, whether in the beginning or somewhere down the road, it is natural
But talk to some guys and be frank with them, say I am just not interested but I like hanging out with you. Then it is up to the guy whether or not to hang out with you. If they do, you got a friend. But don't expect any guy to just say, I would love to friends with you.
If that happens, they probably like you more than just a friend just don't know how to approach it or they are gay.
I agree w/ you. It's ok to have friends that are girls, but girls are also caddy and talk about you behind your back. If you had a guy friend then you don't really have to worry about the caddiness (unless he's gay). If u don't want your guy friend to think that you want to hook up then try not to flirt w/ him. Tell him that he's a cool dude and you wanna be friends. Tell him that you wanna hang out %26amp; do whatever you do in your home town. Guy friends have your back when drama comes up. When u get in high school and if u go to a few parties there will be many guys (upper classmen) that may try to take advantage of u, so keep your guy friends close. There are just some things that girl friends can't do so u gotta keep your guy friends close. Your guy friend can look for a respectful boyfriend for you (not the jerks that most freshman girls always look at). Sometimes you just get tired of listening to your girl friends talk about the same mumbo %26amp; guys always have something funny to say. They're just refreshing.
How do i deal with a friend that makes out with every guy you like?
I'm in a coed house with this guy. he is soo sweet and nice and well mannered. he is very hard to get to know, since we are both so shy. the thing is i always catch him staring at me! he does things for me, like open doors and donates to my charity, and finished a piece of chocolate i didn't want, but i thnk he's just being nice? we have hung out more and now he's seems a bit more comfortable coming up to me and starting a convo. he always seems to be around me (even if not directly talking to me). what should i do? flirt? the only thing is he hooked up with my girl friend last year, but doesn't seem interested in a r/s. They made out again two nights ago, so i'm guessing he doesn't like me then..(thing is my friend does this with LOTs of guys and they become ';off limits'; b/c of it ughhh and she doens't ';know'; if she likes him or not)How do i deal with a friend that makes out with every guy you like?
Well to me it sounds like he might like you as a friend. Or maybe your friend sees you with him and is jealous and then wants him again. I have heard of this all of the time. And your friend probably does this all of the time b/c she's easy. I have a friend well more an ';associate'; that does the same stuff. And I can't stand her. So just talk to him and make a move your self and then you'll really know if he likes you.How do i deal with a friend that makes out with every guy you like?
looks like he likes you. so....your mate puts out. i think it all depends on how good a mate she is to you.
it looks like your mate is a bed mate and he likes you as a friend or a future girlfriend. so try getting him alone and do a good bit of flirrtin. that should work. but make it clear that you wont take your pals boy away from her. if he likes you he will tell you the truth.... or you could even suss out how things go by asking your friend. how she really feels about him.not to much i hope .x
Well to me it sounds like he might like you as a friend. Or maybe your friend sees you with him and is jealous and then wants him again. I have heard of this all of the time. And your friend probably does this all of the time b/c she's easy. I have a friend well more an ';associate'; that does the same stuff. And I can't stand her. So just talk to him and make a move your self and then you'll really know if he likes you.How do i deal with a friend that makes out with every guy you like?
looks like he likes you. so....your mate puts out. i think it all depends on how good a mate she is to you.
it looks like your mate is a bed mate and he likes you as a friend or a future girlfriend. so try getting him alone and do a good bit of flirrtin. that should work. but make it clear that you wont take your pals boy away from her. if he likes you he will tell you the truth.... or you could even suss out how things go by asking your friend. how she really feels about him.not to much i hope .x
Become Closer With My Girl Friends?
i have many girl friends. i mean. 4-5 of them are close and i talk to them a lot but atleast 2 i dont even talk to, but we hang out and stuff. (adequatenses?) but even with my dude friends...i SOMETIMES feel as if i'm soo isolated. (i'm barely in their classes) but i mean, with the girls if i'm with them i honestly don't know wat to say..(but i end up talking about something wit them and making them laugh) but sincei 'm like this is think they don't want to talk to me...so HOW CAN I FIX THIS PROBLEM...like i wanna make it that they want to talk to me.Become Closer With My Girl Friends?
why don't you initiate the conversation. like when you guys are hanging out play some music you like and say oh man i love this band i so want to see them in concert. then ask them what they thing, now you have carried on the convo. point is you have to try.
now if you have done that and they still just like to hang out. well.... these girls just might be hang out buddies only. this is what i mean. i have i have 3 close friends and my girlfriend. none of them are alike. if i want to have awesome convos i can rely on pearl. if i want to go to the club then either michelle or shannon are really fun to be with. if i'm with them i know i'll have a good time. if i need advice i go to shannon coz she's mature and has experience life.
my point is. some friends are good to be with for maybe a few things that you want to do for that day. while other friends are good to hang out with when i want to do other stuff that i couldn't do with my other friends.
so, maybe you have to find a friend who really like to talk a lot. lol you know what i mean?
good luck
why don't you initiate the conversation. like when you guys are hanging out play some music you like and say oh man i love this band i so want to see them in concert. then ask them what they thing, now you have carried on the convo. point is you have to try.
now if you have done that and they still just like to hang out. well.... these girls just might be hang out buddies only. this is what i mean. i have i have 3 close friends and my girlfriend. none of them are alike. if i want to have awesome convos i can rely on pearl. if i want to go to the club then either michelle or shannon are really fun to be with. if i'm with them i know i'll have a good time. if i need advice i go to shannon coz she's mature and has experience life.
my point is. some friends are good to be with for maybe a few things that you want to do for that day. while other friends are good to hang out with when i want to do other stuff that i couldn't do with my other friends.
so, maybe you have to find a friend who really like to talk a lot. lol you know what i mean?
good luck
Girl wants to become friends before dating me?
we both like each other and are bi but don't talk all that much. We usually communicate through someone that we're good friends with especially lately when we found out we both liked each other. One time we were texting each other and she told me she wants us to become friends b4 going out or anything and that she needs to know me better. I respect that and understand and stuff but I don't know how long it will be until we can go out and I'm afraid that b4 we're able to go out she'll fall for someone else or we end up not dating. I wanna go out with her sooo bad. I know this isn't much of a question but does anyone have any advice for me? Like how long Im gonna have to wait or anything like that. Help me please. This is sort of confusing for me. Girl wants to become friends before dating me?
If you want it to last, i definately suggest being friends first. Just like get to know each other, hang out just the two of you, not really a date tho cuz that can put too much pressure on it if you dont know each other too well. Flirty friends. Keep acting like you like her and stuff. You probably wont have to wait too long. Depends on how fast you can get her to like you enough to want to date. Maybe two weeks, maybe up to a month. If it goes on for much more than like a month and a half, ask her out. If she still doesnt want to, then move on.Girl wants to become friends before dating me?
i know where u coming from bro. i'm bi myself and am aming for a girl i like that's a close friend. before going out she said she has to get over a guy who dumped her a week ago. she didnt waste anytime in asking me to go out with her. but, she needed to get to know me better. im doing anything she says. do the same and you'll succeed. good luck bro.
If you want it to last, i definately suggest being friends first. Just like get to know each other, hang out just the two of you, not really a date tho cuz that can put too much pressure on it if you dont know each other too well. Flirty friends. Keep acting like you like her and stuff. You probably wont have to wait too long. Depends on how fast you can get her to like you enough to want to date. Maybe two weeks, maybe up to a month. If it goes on for much more than like a month and a half, ask her out. If she still doesnt want to, then move on.Girl wants to become friends before dating me?
i know where u coming from bro. i'm bi myself and am aming for a girl i like that's a close friend. before going out she said she has to get over a guy who dumped her a week ago. she didnt waste anytime in asking me to go out with her. but, she needed to get to know me better. im doing anything she says. do the same and you'll succeed. good luck bro.
How to become closer friends with a girl?
she seems like a nice girl. the problem is whenever I talk to her it's like I'm just telling her a string of jokes and she's responding. I figure I should try talking about some more serious things, but like what? And what are some other tips?How to become closer friends with a girl?
Usually most people start with the ';hows it going'; or wtv but to start a conversation alot of people use like hows your summer, what have you done today, and ask like her hobbies like do you play any sports and that those can usually lead up to come conversations. Especially if you have stuff in common.
Usually most people start with the ';hows it going'; or wtv but to start a conversation alot of people use like hows your summer, what have you done today, and ask like her hobbies like do you play any sports and that those can usually lead up to come conversations. Especially if you have stuff in common.
I really want to become friends with these girls..?
Theres a group of girls in my class and I want to join their group... one girl usually says hi to me and they just seem happy, and fun. How do i fit in with them and how do i get them to see i wanna be their friends?I really want to become friends with these girls..?
I guess you're just gonna have to be yourself. That's basically how you make friends, right? If they seem fun and simply the kind of friends you would be friends with, just be nice to them and they will eventually realize that you want to be their friend. I mean, they most likely like you as one of the girls said hi to you. Don't immediately jump in and be like ';Hey I'm in your group now. I'll be your best friend!'; They'll just be like ';What?'; So just gradually become friends with them. You know, just say hi everytime you see them, compliment them eg. I like your shoes, if anyone of them needs help on homework or something try to help them or if anyone needs lunch money you could let them borrow some. Just little things that could make them think you're cool and want to be friends with you. By then they might ask you to come sit with them at lunch or invite you to hang out with them. This is what I do and it works!
I hope that made sense and good luck! I hope I helped!I really want to become friends with these girls..?
well if they are smart you can pretend like you need help, or just talk to them, if you do a group project try as hard as you can to get in their group, just be like hey, you guys look smart and i have no idea what im doing lol. even if they arent smart just do it!
Look cute
Always be honest
Start talking to them
Be nice
NEVER BE SLUTTY
If they need help or something help them
Approach them and start a conversation.if there is a empty chair ask if anyone sitting there and if you can join them .you will either get a yes or no.Either way you tryed.
I guess you're just gonna have to be yourself. That's basically how you make friends, right? If they seem fun and simply the kind of friends you would be friends with, just be nice to them and they will eventually realize that you want to be their friend. I mean, they most likely like you as one of the girls said hi to you. Don't immediately jump in and be like ';Hey I'm in your group now. I'll be your best friend!'; They'll just be like ';What?'; So just gradually become friends with them. You know, just say hi everytime you see them, compliment them eg. I like your shoes, if anyone of them needs help on homework or something try to help them or if anyone needs lunch money you could let them borrow some. Just little things that could make them think you're cool and want to be friends with you. By then they might ask you to come sit with them at lunch or invite you to hang out with them. This is what I do and it works!
I hope that made sense and good luck! I hope I helped!I really want to become friends with these girls..?
well if they are smart you can pretend like you need help, or just talk to them, if you do a group project try as hard as you can to get in their group, just be like hey, you guys look smart and i have no idea what im doing lol. even if they arent smart just do it!
Look cute
Always be honest
Start talking to them
Be nice
NEVER BE SLUTTY
If they need help or something help them
Approach them and start a conversation.if there is a empty chair ask if anyone sitting there and if you can join them .you will either get a yes or no.Either way you tryed.
Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
hey.its me. ok here's the deall!! i wear a lot of hollister and i own a pair of nike 6.0 shoes. but! i'm not really skinny-ish...i'm probably about 34'; around my stomach and my thighs aren't small either.but not huge either.and I'm short too. 5';1' it sucks too...i have a columbia jacket too an i own a lot of things any old prep would really have.but i just don't look right in some clothes because of my thighs mainly. i hate it.so am i considered prep? next question....there's this one girl at school,she is kind of a role model to me.shes pretty and prep and shes a lot like me.but we never talk.i think it has to do with her having a smaller waist and skinner thighs.... i want to be friends but i don't know how..were both in 7th grade too and i REFUSE to walk up to her and start talking to her. help? how do i lose weight off my thighs? anyone willing to go through this challenge with me? loosing weight?
thanks truly.means a lot.
NO RUDE COMMENTS TELLING ME I'M A SNOT AND NEED TO GET A LIFE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT! ITS MY LIFE OK! NOT YOURS! I CHOOSE TO BE A ';PREP'; AND THAT'S MY OPINION! DON'T RUIN IT FOR ME PLEASE. im sorry for it having to be on caps lock but i just would prefer nicer comments. ok? thanks...remember i will take anoyone to go through this challenge with me...Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
A prep is someone who attends a college preparatory school (chiefly those on the East Coast). So, unless you attend one such private school, no, you are not a prep. Quit confounding the overuse and mangling of the terminology.Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
why are yu so excited about owning a pair of 6.0 nikes.? i also dont see how thts relevant to being a prep. and how do yu expect to become friends with someone if yu refuse to walk up to her and talk to her.?
yu have issues.
serious ones, my dear.
poser...
yes u are considered a prep and this girl you should just try and talk to her, sit next to her at lunch but be nice constantly. and if she dosent like u for who u are she is a jerk and you dont deserve her as a friend and about ur thighs...so what ik this sounds a bit selfish but just look around and try to point out someone whos bigger than u maybe but keep it in ur head, and then just look at how they walk around and keep there heads up high and doesnt care what anyone says about them, they may have a speacial thing like a singing voice about them
awww darling i totally feel you! ummm judging from your description i would have to say you are quite preppy in your outlook and fashion sense and yes i agree [not in a mean way or anything] that losing the weight off your thighs would make you much more attractive and self confident and you two would just click right away! best way to lose weight from the thighs biking/exercise biking [though NOT on a hard level or a level which strains your muscles as that'll just make your thighs even thicker and more muscly] - and once thats done you are just gonna look sooooo hot! mmmm pretty pretty preppy girls! [and no im not a pedo im only 16! and yes i admit it many seventh grade chicks are HOT!]
If you want to lose weight you need to work out. But you have to work in a certain range and you have to work out aerobically which means 40-60% of your maximum heart rate. Your maximum heart rate 220 - (your age). So that's that for losing weight.
Now onto the preppy bit. Do you go to a private school? If you live in the USA then that's ok too because hollister and ';preppy'; clothes are cheaper over there. Here in England, the typical preppy girl would have blonde back brushed hair and skinny legs wearing just abercrombie or hollister gilets. To me you just sound like a normal girl who wants to look sophisticated, nothing wrong with wanting to dress nicely though! I would start off a conversation with her complimenting her outfit and ask some questions. Just sound interested in her and talk about christmas and what clothes are on your wish list etc.
Although, I don't think you should be too influenced by her, it's important to have your own style and not be influenced by the absolute latest must have fashion statement. Also, don't try too hard, people can always tell when you try too hard and there is a big difference between putting in an effort into looking nice and trying way too hard to be fashionable. And make sure you don't wear preppy clothes every single day as well because then people WILL start to think you are a little snobby or arrogant.
I wish you the best of luck :D
i get the whole chubby thing. some clothes just don't look right on people.
i try and go for loose but fashionable items like babydoll tops.
also skinny jeans would help your things.
i honestly dont believe in labels. there are ';emo'; kids now that dress in hollister and crap. its more of a fashionable store than prep
prep is lik polos and mini skirts and all that stuff
try a store like forever 21
theyre clothes cannot be labeled and look really cute.
they also arent super small
about the role model thing---- when i was in 7th grade i had someone like that. and then my freshman yr we started hanging out and i realized that she was just a regular person like me.
dont waste your time trying to be like someone. use your time wisely by finding out the person u rly are.
im 16 and i didnt figure out who i was until last yr,
u got a while 2 go
and to loose wight do some crunches
also try following wieghtwatchers
its easy to follow and u can eat w/e you want
goodluck
I know this is not what you want to hear, but I am going to tell you anyways... so I am sorry. The only reason I am telling you is because I WISH someone would have told me this when I was your age.
Who the **** cares? Being a ';prep'; maybe the so called cool thing to do, but there is so much more to life. You are so much better than that. Yes, middle and high school are hard, but if all you are trying to do is be 'cool' than you are not going to get anywhere. There is SO much beyond high school. Your life doesn't even start until after high school. Have you ever thought of the kid who sits next to you in math class that doesn't have any friends? Or all the people you and your friends gossip about?? Do you know how many teens commit suicide over situations at school? Too many. My sister was just like you, trying to be the 'cool' kid. She overdosed on tylenol, killing herself. She was 17, I was 15. I pray that her 'so called' friends would of acted like TRUE friends. But all she wanted was to be popular.
I was the chick jock in high school. That was all I was good at, and that is how I was accepted. I was not the smartest, prettiest, or even the tallest but when I had a ball in my hand I was the best. Find something your good at, and please stop trying to impress these people. It's not worth it. And definatly not worth someones life.
I am now 23 and am married to an amazing guy. We are expecting our first, and are SO happy, and rarely think about our school days anymore. Your life is just beginning.
Thanks for listening hun:)
Meg
ok dont piss off the public. nike sucks. get some DC's or something. you are not a prep by choice, its who you hang out with an how popular you are. run alot and time will do it. your in seventh grade. you have time to grow still. and if you were really a prep you would run the school. and holister is for posers. A.E. is another prep store. dont be afraid to talk. if she doesnt except you then **** her! you have a life to lead without a stuck up ***** in it to ruin it for you!
good luck. and diet and running will do it.favourite female name
thanks truly.means a lot.
NO RUDE COMMENTS TELLING ME I'M A SNOT AND NEED TO GET A LIFE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT! ITS MY LIFE OK! NOT YOURS! I CHOOSE TO BE A ';PREP'; AND THAT'S MY OPINION! DON'T RUIN IT FOR ME PLEASE. im sorry for it having to be on caps lock but i just would prefer nicer comments. ok? thanks...remember i will take anoyone to go through this challenge with me...Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
A prep is someone who attends a college preparatory school (chiefly those on the East Coast). So, unless you attend one such private school, no, you are not a prep. Quit confounding the overuse and mangling of the terminology.Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
why are yu so excited about owning a pair of 6.0 nikes.? i also dont see how thts relevant to being a prep. and how do yu expect to become friends with someone if yu refuse to walk up to her and talk to her.?
yu have issues.
serious ones, my dear.
poser...
yes u are considered a prep and this girl you should just try and talk to her, sit next to her at lunch but be nice constantly. and if she dosent like u for who u are she is a jerk and you dont deserve her as a friend and about ur thighs...so what ik this sounds a bit selfish but just look around and try to point out someone whos bigger than u maybe but keep it in ur head, and then just look at how they walk around and keep there heads up high and doesnt care what anyone says about them, they may have a speacial thing like a singing voice about them
awww darling i totally feel you! ummm judging from your description i would have to say you are quite preppy in your outlook and fashion sense and yes i agree [not in a mean way or anything] that losing the weight off your thighs would make you much more attractive and self confident and you two would just click right away! best way to lose weight from the thighs biking/exercise biking [though NOT on a hard level or a level which strains your muscles as that'll just make your thighs even thicker and more muscly] - and once thats done you are just gonna look sooooo hot! mmmm pretty pretty preppy girls! [and no im not a pedo im only 16! and yes i admit it many seventh grade chicks are HOT!]
If you want to lose weight you need to work out. But you have to work in a certain range and you have to work out aerobically which means 40-60% of your maximum heart rate. Your maximum heart rate 220 - (your age). So that's that for losing weight.
Now onto the preppy bit. Do you go to a private school? If you live in the USA then that's ok too because hollister and ';preppy'; clothes are cheaper over there. Here in England, the typical preppy girl would have blonde back brushed hair and skinny legs wearing just abercrombie or hollister gilets. To me you just sound like a normal girl who wants to look sophisticated, nothing wrong with wanting to dress nicely though! I would start off a conversation with her complimenting her outfit and ask some questions. Just sound interested in her and talk about christmas and what clothes are on your wish list etc.
Although, I don't think you should be too influenced by her, it's important to have your own style and not be influenced by the absolute latest must have fashion statement. Also, don't try too hard, people can always tell when you try too hard and there is a big difference between putting in an effort into looking nice and trying way too hard to be fashionable. And make sure you don't wear preppy clothes every single day as well because then people WILL start to think you are a little snobby or arrogant.
I wish you the best of luck :D
i get the whole chubby thing. some clothes just don't look right on people.
i try and go for loose but fashionable items like babydoll tops.
also skinny jeans would help your things.
i honestly dont believe in labels. there are ';emo'; kids now that dress in hollister and crap. its more of a fashionable store than prep
prep is lik polos and mini skirts and all that stuff
try a store like forever 21
theyre clothes cannot be labeled and look really cute.
they also arent super small
about the role model thing---- when i was in 7th grade i had someone like that. and then my freshman yr we started hanging out and i realized that she was just a regular person like me.
dont waste your time trying to be like someone. use your time wisely by finding out the person u rly are.
im 16 and i didnt figure out who i was until last yr,
u got a while 2 go
and to loose wight do some crunches
also try following wieghtwatchers
its easy to follow and u can eat w/e you want
goodluck
I know this is not what you want to hear, but I am going to tell you anyways... so I am sorry. The only reason I am telling you is because I WISH someone would have told me this when I was your age.
Who the **** cares? Being a ';prep'; maybe the so called cool thing to do, but there is so much more to life. You are so much better than that. Yes, middle and high school are hard, but if all you are trying to do is be 'cool' than you are not going to get anywhere. There is SO much beyond high school. Your life doesn't even start until after high school. Have you ever thought of the kid who sits next to you in math class that doesn't have any friends? Or all the people you and your friends gossip about?? Do you know how many teens commit suicide over situations at school? Too many. My sister was just like you, trying to be the 'cool' kid. She overdosed on tylenol, killing herself. She was 17, I was 15. I pray that her 'so called' friends would of acted like TRUE friends. But all she wanted was to be popular.
I was the chick jock in high school. That was all I was good at, and that is how I was accepted. I was not the smartest, prettiest, or even the tallest but when I had a ball in my hand I was the best. Find something your good at, and please stop trying to impress these people. It's not worth it. And definatly not worth someones life.
I am now 23 and am married to an amazing guy. We are expecting our first, and are SO happy, and rarely think about our school days anymore. Your life is just beginning.
Thanks for listening hun:)
Meg
ok dont piss off the public. nike sucks. get some DC's or something. you are not a prep by choice, its who you hang out with an how popular you are. run alot and time will do it. your in seventh grade. you have time to grow still. and if you were really a prep you would run the school. and holister is for posers. A.E. is another prep store. dont be afraid to talk. if she doesnt except you then **** her! you have a life to lead without a stuck up ***** in it to ruin it for you!
good luck. and diet and running will do it.
Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
hey.its me. ok here's the deall!! i wear a lot of hollister and i own a pair of nike 6.0 shoes. but! i'm not really skinny-ish...i'm probably about 34'; around my stomach and my thighs aren't small either.but not huge either.and I'm short too. 5';1' it sucks too...i have a columbia jacket too an i own a lot of things any old prep would really have.but i just don't look right in some clothes because of my thighs mainly. i hate it.so am i considered prep? next question....there's this one girl at school,she is kind of a role model to me.shes pretty and prep and shes a lot like me.but we never talk.i think it has to do with her having a smaller waist and skinner thighs.... i want to be friends but i don't know how..were both in 7th grade too and i REFUSE to walk up to her and start talking to her. help? how do i lose weight off my thighs? anyone willing to go through this challenge with me? loosing weight?
thanks truly.means a lot.
NO RUDE COMMENTS TELLING ME I'M A SNOT AND NEED TO GET A LIFE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT! ITS MY LIFE OK! NOT YOURS! I CHOOSE TO BE A ';PREP'; AND THAT'S MY OPINION! DON'T RUIN IT FOR ME PLEASE. im sorry for it having to be on caps lock but i just would prefer nicer comments. ok? thanks...remember i will take anoyone to go through this challenge with me...Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
A prep is someone who attends a college preparatory school (chiefly those on the East Coast). So, unless you attend one such private school, no, you are not a prep. Quit confounding the overuse and mangling of the terminology.Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
why are yu so excited about owning a pair of 6.0 nikes.? i also dont see how thts relevant to being a prep. and how do yu expect to become friends with someone if yu refuse to walk up to her and talk to her.?
yu have issues.
serious ones, my dear.
poser...
yes u are considered a prep and this girl you should just try and talk to her, sit next to her at lunch but be nice constantly. and if she dosent like u for who u are she is a jerk and you dont deserve her as a friend and about ur thighs...so what ik this sounds a bit selfish but just look around and try to point out someone whos bigger than u maybe but keep it in ur head, and then just look at how they walk around and keep there heads up high and doesnt care what anyone says about them, they may have a speacial thing like a singing voice about them
awww darling i totally feel you! ummm judging from your description i would have to say you are quite preppy in your outlook and fashion sense and yes i agree [not in a mean way or anything] that losing the weight off your thighs would make you much more attractive and self confident and you two would just click right away! best way to lose weight from the thighs biking/exercise biking [though NOT on a hard level or a level which strains your muscles as that'll just make your thighs even thicker and more muscly] - and once thats done you are just gonna look sooooo hot! mmmm pretty pretty preppy girls! [and no im not a pedo im only 16! and yes i admit it many seventh grade chicks are HOT!]
If you want to lose weight you need to work out. But you have to work in a certain range and you have to work out aerobically which means 40-60% of your maximum heart rate. Your maximum heart rate 220 - (your age). So that's that for losing weight.
Now onto the preppy bit. Do you go to a private school? If you live in the USA then that's ok too because hollister and ';preppy'; clothes are cheaper over there. Here in England, the typical preppy girl would have blonde back brushed hair and skinny legs wearing just abercrombie or hollister gilets. To me you just sound like a normal girl who wants to look sophisticated, nothing wrong with wanting to dress nicely though! I would start off a conversation with her complimenting her outfit and ask some questions. Just sound interested in her and talk about christmas and what clothes are on your wish list etc.
Although, I don't think you should be too influenced by her, it's important to have your own style and not be influenced by the absolute latest must have fashion statement. Also, don't try too hard, people can always tell when you try too hard and there is a big difference between putting in an effort into looking nice and trying way too hard to be fashionable. And make sure you don't wear preppy clothes every single day as well because then people WILL start to think you are a little snobby or arrogant.
I wish you the best of luck :D
i get the whole chubby thing. some clothes just don't look right on people.
i try and go for loose but fashionable items like babydoll tops.
also skinny jeans would help your things.
i honestly dont believe in labels. there are ';emo'; kids now that dress in hollister and crap. its more of a fashionable store than prep
prep is lik polos and mini skirts and all that stuff
try a store like forever 21
theyre clothes cannot be labeled and look really cute.
they also arent super small
about the role model thing---- when i was in 7th grade i had someone like that. and then my freshman yr we started hanging out and i realized that she was just a regular person like me.
dont waste your time trying to be like someone. use your time wisely by finding out the person u rly are.
im 16 and i didnt figure out who i was until last yr,
u got a while 2 go
and to loose wight do some crunches
also try following wieghtwatchers
its easy to follow and u can eat w/e you want
goodluck
I know this is not what you want to hear, but I am going to tell you anyways... so I am sorry. The only reason I am telling you is because I WISH someone would have told me this when I was your age.
Who the **** cares? Being a ';prep'; maybe the so called cool thing to do, but there is so much more to life. You are so much better than that. Yes, middle and high school are hard, but if all you are trying to do is be 'cool' than you are not going to get anywhere. There is SO much beyond high school. Your life doesn't even start until after high school. Have you ever thought of the kid who sits next to you in math class that doesn't have any friends? Or all the people you and your friends gossip about?? Do you know how many teens commit suicide over situations at school? Too many. My sister was just like you, trying to be the 'cool' kid. She overdosed on tylenol, killing herself. She was 17, I was 15. I pray that her 'so called' friends would of acted like TRUE friends. But all she wanted was to be popular.
I was the chick jock in high school. That was all I was good at, and that is how I was accepted. I was not the smartest, prettiest, or even the tallest but when I had a ball in my hand I was the best. Find something your good at, and please stop trying to impress these people. It's not worth it. And definatly not worth someones life.
I am now 23 and am married to an amazing guy. We are expecting our first, and are SO happy, and rarely think about our school days anymore. Your life is just beginning.
Thanks for listening hun:)
Meg
ok dont piss off the public. nike sucks. get some DC's or something. you are not a prep by choice, its who you hang out with an how popular you are. run alot and time will do it. your in seventh grade. you have time to grow still. and if you were really a prep you would run the school. and holister is for posers. A.E. is another prep store. dont be afraid to talk. if she doesnt except you then **** her! you have a life to lead without a stuck up ***** in it to ruin it for you!
good luck. and diet and running will do it.
thanks truly.means a lot.
NO RUDE COMMENTS TELLING ME I'M A SNOT AND NEED TO GET A LIFE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT! ITS MY LIFE OK! NOT YOURS! I CHOOSE TO BE A ';PREP'; AND THAT'S MY OPINION! DON'T RUIN IT FOR ME PLEASE. im sorry for it having to be on caps lock but i just would prefer nicer comments. ok? thanks...remember i will take anoyone to go through this challenge with me...Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
A prep is someone who attends a college preparatory school (chiefly those on the East Coast). So, unless you attend one such private school, no, you are not a prep. Quit confounding the overuse and mangling of the terminology.Am i considered a prep? and how do i become friends with this one girl?
why are yu so excited about owning a pair of 6.0 nikes.? i also dont see how thts relevant to being a prep. and how do yu expect to become friends with someone if yu refuse to walk up to her and talk to her.?
yu have issues.
serious ones, my dear.
poser...
yes u are considered a prep and this girl you should just try and talk to her, sit next to her at lunch but be nice constantly. and if she dosent like u for who u are she is a jerk and you dont deserve her as a friend and about ur thighs...so what ik this sounds a bit selfish but just look around and try to point out someone whos bigger than u maybe but keep it in ur head, and then just look at how they walk around and keep there heads up high and doesnt care what anyone says about them, they may have a speacial thing like a singing voice about them
awww darling i totally feel you! ummm judging from your description i would have to say you are quite preppy in your outlook and fashion sense and yes i agree [not in a mean way or anything] that losing the weight off your thighs would make you much more attractive and self confident and you two would just click right away! best way to lose weight from the thighs biking/exercise biking [though NOT on a hard level or a level which strains your muscles as that'll just make your thighs even thicker and more muscly] - and once thats done you are just gonna look sooooo hot! mmmm pretty pretty preppy girls! [and no im not a pedo im only 16! and yes i admit it many seventh grade chicks are HOT!]
If you want to lose weight you need to work out. But you have to work in a certain range and you have to work out aerobically which means 40-60% of your maximum heart rate. Your maximum heart rate 220 - (your age). So that's that for losing weight.
Now onto the preppy bit. Do you go to a private school? If you live in the USA then that's ok too because hollister and ';preppy'; clothes are cheaper over there. Here in England, the typical preppy girl would have blonde back brushed hair and skinny legs wearing just abercrombie or hollister gilets. To me you just sound like a normal girl who wants to look sophisticated, nothing wrong with wanting to dress nicely though! I would start off a conversation with her complimenting her outfit and ask some questions. Just sound interested in her and talk about christmas and what clothes are on your wish list etc.
Although, I don't think you should be too influenced by her, it's important to have your own style and not be influenced by the absolute latest must have fashion statement. Also, don't try too hard, people can always tell when you try too hard and there is a big difference between putting in an effort into looking nice and trying way too hard to be fashionable. And make sure you don't wear preppy clothes every single day as well because then people WILL start to think you are a little snobby or arrogant.
I wish you the best of luck :D
i get the whole chubby thing. some clothes just don't look right on people.
i try and go for loose but fashionable items like babydoll tops.
also skinny jeans would help your things.
i honestly dont believe in labels. there are ';emo'; kids now that dress in hollister and crap. its more of a fashionable store than prep
prep is lik polos and mini skirts and all that stuff
try a store like forever 21
theyre clothes cannot be labeled and look really cute.
they also arent super small
about the role model thing---- when i was in 7th grade i had someone like that. and then my freshman yr we started hanging out and i realized that she was just a regular person like me.
dont waste your time trying to be like someone. use your time wisely by finding out the person u rly are.
im 16 and i didnt figure out who i was until last yr,
u got a while 2 go
and to loose wight do some crunches
also try following wieghtwatchers
its easy to follow and u can eat w/e you want
goodluck
I know this is not what you want to hear, but I am going to tell you anyways... so I am sorry. The only reason I am telling you is because I WISH someone would have told me this when I was your age.
Who the **** cares? Being a ';prep'; maybe the so called cool thing to do, but there is so much more to life. You are so much better than that. Yes, middle and high school are hard, but if all you are trying to do is be 'cool' than you are not going to get anywhere. There is SO much beyond high school. Your life doesn't even start until after high school. Have you ever thought of the kid who sits next to you in math class that doesn't have any friends? Or all the people you and your friends gossip about?? Do you know how many teens commit suicide over situations at school? Too many. My sister was just like you, trying to be the 'cool' kid. She overdosed on tylenol, killing herself. She was 17, I was 15. I pray that her 'so called' friends would of acted like TRUE friends. But all she wanted was to be popular.
I was the chick jock in high school. That was all I was good at, and that is how I was accepted. I was not the smartest, prettiest, or even the tallest but when I had a ball in my hand I was the best. Find something your good at, and please stop trying to impress these people. It's not worth it. And definatly not worth someones life.
I am now 23 and am married to an amazing guy. We are expecting our first, and are SO happy, and rarely think about our school days anymore. Your life is just beginning.
Thanks for listening hun:)
Meg
ok dont piss off the public. nike sucks. get some DC's or something. you are not a prep by choice, its who you hang out with an how popular you are. run alot and time will do it. your in seventh grade. you have time to grow still. and if you were really a prep you would run the school. and holister is for posers. A.E. is another prep store. dont be afraid to talk. if she doesnt except you then **** her! you have a life to lead without a stuck up ***** in it to ruin it for you!
good luck. and diet and running will do it.
How can i get a girl to become my friend?
Okej, so i have quite a lot of girls as friends, and have no problem talking to them, but that's mainly because i'm in at least one of each of their classes. (i'm in grade 11). But there's this one specific girl that i want to become friends with that is in none of my classes, and she also has more friends than me. I'm nervous to approach her in the halls, because of her popularity level, plus i dont want to look like an idiot and randomly talk to her. I've never talked to her before, and i don't think she even knows my name. She's real nice though around her friends, but can anyone just tell me what i should do in this situation?How can i get a girl to become my friend?
easy... all you have to do is force interaction...but do it subtly. Find your way behind her at the lunch line...or ';accidentally'; bump into her on the way to class. or use your friends that are girls to your benefit. Discuss it with them...be sincere...and see if they can help, make sure they aren't blunt about it...all that will do is make it seem like your interested. when i was in hs i would put myself out there to be friends with everyone, i made a fool of myself and if people were turned off by my antics then i didnt need them as a friend. I was quite popular.
remember a friend will accept you for who you are...anyone else isn't worth the trouble.How can i get a girl to become my friend?
All you have to do is talk to them.
answer my question please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Agb1WkKpjnLbEo2Qo383t3bsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100205145112AAu9KUC
Slap her.
ask her how much money she want to be your friend
easy... all you have to do is force interaction...but do it subtly. Find your way behind her at the lunch line...or ';accidentally'; bump into her on the way to class. or use your friends that are girls to your benefit. Discuss it with them...be sincere...and see if they can help, make sure they aren't blunt about it...all that will do is make it seem like your interested. when i was in hs i would put myself out there to be friends with everyone, i made a fool of myself and if people were turned off by my antics then i didnt need them as a friend. I was quite popular.
remember a friend will accept you for who you are...anyone else isn't worth the trouble.How can i get a girl to become my friend?
All you have to do is talk to them.
answer my question please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Agb1WkKpjnLbEo2Qo383t3bsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100205145112AAu9KUC
Slap her.
ask her how much money she want to be your friend
How do I become best friends with this girl again without losing my other best friend?
Ok this is hard to explane. My best friends and I were all together and eveything was kool untill my one best friend said a very racial remark about hispanics and that caused a fight.... Well she said sorry and has a lot of crap going on now and me, my best friend sam and siondra are her only friends left, and i want to be best friends again but sam dosent and i am afraid of losing sam if i am best firneds with caitlin again.How do I become best friends with this girl again without losing my other best friend?
just try and talk to sam about this. i always talk to my friends and its works. but really talk about this situation and convince her that caitlin can be a good person. she should understand if she is a good friend.
if she doesn't, well, try to be caitlin's friend without sam knowing :-)How do I become best friends with this girl again without losing my other best friend?
Lots of confusion !!!
alright look if these two are both your friends and they are supposed to be your best friends then neither one would drop you just cause of another person that they dont like they are supposed to be in it for you and not everyone else
Explain to Sam that Caitlin apologized and you just want you all to be friends again. If Sam is a good friend, she will understand and want to make ammends. Perhaps you should try to sit everyone down and talk about it just to get it out in the open. Explain to Sam that you do not want to lose her as a friend but you would like to make up with Caitlin as well. As long as you are open and honest, everything should be fine.
Just get a new group of friends why should anyone get mad over someone else just because you want to be friends with them.
You can only have 1 best friend.
That is why they are ';best';.
I don't know your age. If you were a girl I would guess 13 to 15?
If you are a guy, maybe 16 to 19? At those ages, people change friends often, and it always seems like a conflict.
Just stay calm, and get along with both as well as you can, and don't worry about them getting upset....that is their problem.
real friends forgive
well if your friends have to choose youre friends for you then there not your friends ok so you just need to choose youreself by asking ';which on of them are more caring understanding'; so just go out hter and find out youre self
Friendship goes both way. You cant be someones friend if they want it. If you were his best friend, then you would have stood up for him and defend his position, honestly and frank. Friendship is earned and it seem you choose to passup that opportunity to earn it.
Sam may be angry now and not thinking straight, but you did not step in and help him hen he needed it. So I would first apologise for that and hope he will accept it. That may renew the friendship.
But right now, dont blame Sam, Caitlin is wrong and shoud be made to see that. You must do the right thing.
talk to both of them. if the one that was in wrong has already said sorry, try to bring them together, may be do some thing where they both are there!
OK if you and her had a fight and she said sorry, right?
and you want to still be her friend and your other friend doesn't want you'll to be best friends again so maybe this other girl isn't a true friend because your other friend is supposed to consider your other friends feelings because no ones perfect and people makes mistakes.
I hope I got this story straight!
there's sumthin called having more than one or two best friends...who cares if sam doesnt want to be friends with caitlin then thats her problem..its ur choice and u shuldnt care if sam doesnt want to be friends with caitlin..you will be the better person out of all this..and if sam is gna be mad and not be friends with u .. then shed be missing out on a great friend.u..
just try and talk to sam about this. i always talk to my friends and its works. but really talk about this situation and convince her that caitlin can be a good person. she should understand if she is a good friend.
if she doesn't, well, try to be caitlin's friend without sam knowing :-)How do I become best friends with this girl again without losing my other best friend?
Lots of confusion !!!
alright look if these two are both your friends and they are supposed to be your best friends then neither one would drop you just cause of another person that they dont like they are supposed to be in it for you and not everyone else
Explain to Sam that Caitlin apologized and you just want you all to be friends again. If Sam is a good friend, she will understand and want to make ammends. Perhaps you should try to sit everyone down and talk about it just to get it out in the open. Explain to Sam that you do not want to lose her as a friend but you would like to make up with Caitlin as well. As long as you are open and honest, everything should be fine.
Just get a new group of friends why should anyone get mad over someone else just because you want to be friends with them.
You can only have 1 best friend.
That is why they are ';best';.
I don't know your age. If you were a girl I would guess 13 to 15?
If you are a guy, maybe 16 to 19? At those ages, people change friends often, and it always seems like a conflict.
Just stay calm, and get along with both as well as you can, and don't worry about them getting upset....that is their problem.
real friends forgive
well if your friends have to choose youre friends for you then there not your friends ok so you just need to choose youreself by asking ';which on of them are more caring understanding'; so just go out hter and find out youre self
Friendship goes both way. You cant be someones friend if they want it. If you were his best friend, then you would have stood up for him and defend his position, honestly and frank. Friendship is earned and it seem you choose to passup that opportunity to earn it.
Sam may be angry now and not thinking straight, but you did not step in and help him hen he needed it. So I would first apologise for that and hope he will accept it. That may renew the friendship.
But right now, dont blame Sam, Caitlin is wrong and shoud be made to see that. You must do the right thing.
talk to both of them. if the one that was in wrong has already said sorry, try to bring them together, may be do some thing where they both are there!
OK if you and her had a fight and she said sorry, right?
and you want to still be her friend and your other friend doesn't want you'll to be best friends again so maybe this other girl isn't a true friend because your other friend is supposed to consider your other friends feelings because no ones perfect and people makes mistakes.
I hope I got this story straight!
there's sumthin called having more than one or two best friends...who cares if sam doesnt want to be friends with caitlin then thats her problem..its ur choice and u shuldnt care if sam doesnt want to be friends with caitlin..you will be the better person out of all this..and if sam is gna be mad and not be friends with u .. then shed be missing out on a great friend.u..
How do become good friends with girls? i don't want them to think i want them...?
i dont have heaps of friends, and no close friends that are girls.. there is this one girl i like who i think is very nice but i dont want to be too over the top.. i just want a good friend. thank youHow do become good friends with girls? i don't want them to think i want them...?
I don't know how old you are but hopefully this will help.
When we moved from one city to another, my son (who was 8 at the time) was worried about making friends at a summer day camp he was attending. I encouraged him to just talk to a few kids every day until he found a couple of kids he got along with. It worked real well for him, and within about a week he had a lot of casual friends.
In your case, it's about the same thing. If you want, start with the girl you mentioned in your question; just find a time to talk with her. Ask her a couple of questions about herself -- that's always a good way to start a conversation -- everyone likes people to take interest in them, and also to talk about themselves. Then you can also share some info about yourself in the conversation. Here are some conversation starters:
- So, did you get your homework done?
- What did you do your project on?
- (if you know she's interested in a sport or other specific hobby, you can ask about that, for example:) Did I see you on the soccer field last weekend? What position do you play?
If you want to proceed quickly with making friends, set some goals for yourself. For instance, promise yourself to talk to a specific number of people each day (1, 2, 3, whatever seems realistic but a little challenging to start with). Gradually you will find it natural to talk to new people and you will develop some new self-confidence. With my son at the summer camp I was mentioning, I actually offered him $1 for each kid he got the following information from:
- What school they go to
- What grade they were in
- Where they lived
- How many brothers and sisters they had
- He also had to share his information with them
In about a week I paid him $22, and then I stopped paying him when I heard a chorus of voices wish him goodbye when I picked him up at the end of the week.
Your situation may be a little different, but the concept should work just the same.
By the way, there is a book that is very easy to read (it's an old one but the information is very useful) called ';How to Win Friends and Influence People'; by Dale Carnegie. If you read it and use the information, you will probably find (as I did) that most people are just like you - they want to make friends but don't know how.
Good luck!How do become good friends with girls? i don't want them to think i want them...?
If you're NOT, just act like you're a homosexual.
They seem to get along with women just fine.
Approach the situation as a friend. She'll know the difference.
Just be yourself around girls and mostly act like a friend and not like your going to ask them out. do not try to be something your not.
Be friendly and natural. Show a sense of humor. Don't show that you are flirting.
I don't know how old you are but hopefully this will help.
When we moved from one city to another, my son (who was 8 at the time) was worried about making friends at a summer day camp he was attending. I encouraged him to just talk to a few kids every day until he found a couple of kids he got along with. It worked real well for him, and within about a week he had a lot of casual friends.
In your case, it's about the same thing. If you want, start with the girl you mentioned in your question; just find a time to talk with her. Ask her a couple of questions about herself -- that's always a good way to start a conversation -- everyone likes people to take interest in them, and also to talk about themselves. Then you can also share some info about yourself in the conversation. Here are some conversation starters:
- So, did you get your homework done?
- What did you do your project on?
- (if you know she's interested in a sport or other specific hobby, you can ask about that, for example:) Did I see you on the soccer field last weekend? What position do you play?
If you want to proceed quickly with making friends, set some goals for yourself. For instance, promise yourself to talk to a specific number of people each day (1, 2, 3, whatever seems realistic but a little challenging to start with). Gradually you will find it natural to talk to new people and you will develop some new self-confidence. With my son at the summer camp I was mentioning, I actually offered him $1 for each kid he got the following information from:
- What school they go to
- What grade they were in
- Where they lived
- How many brothers and sisters they had
- He also had to share his information with them
In about a week I paid him $22, and then I stopped paying him when I heard a chorus of voices wish him goodbye when I picked him up at the end of the week.
Your situation may be a little different, but the concept should work just the same.
By the way, there is a book that is very easy to read (it's an old one but the information is very useful) called ';How to Win Friends and Influence People'; by Dale Carnegie. If you read it and use the information, you will probably find (as I did) that most people are just like you - they want to make friends but don't know how.
Good luck!How do become good friends with girls? i don't want them to think i want them...?
If you're NOT, just act like you're a homosexual.
They seem to get along with women just fine.
Approach the situation as a friend. She'll know the difference.
Just be yourself around girls and mostly act like a friend and not like your going to ask them out. do not try to be something your not.
Be friendly and natural. Show a sense of humor. Don't show that you are flirting.
How can i become friend with a girl that i dont know?
As the school started i met many new people.I am 16 and she is 17 and she doesnt even know me.I see her every day at school but i dont know how to get close to her.what can i do to make her notice me.I dont know how to aproach her.Please give some advices and some tips. I dont feel confortable with my self.I am fat u see.My weight is 1.79m and my weight 94k.Please help me.
5 minutes ago - 7 day(s) left to answer.How can i become friend with a girl that i dont know?
Start walking toward her and as you get close, trip and fall right in front of her. After you climb back to your feet look at her and say, ';I am sorry...I've never fallen for a girl before';.
Good luck.How can i become friend with a girl that i dont know?
Your best bet just go up and talk to her. Complament her.
This is the Video Game section. If you by chance want to know how to get past the 4th world in Mario 3, I can help you with that. So unless you got a game question, your not getting a decent answer.
Just go talk to her. And put your questions in the right category.
First, what would make you comfortable with yourself? As long as you are not thinking of changing your personality for another person the changes you make to become comfortable with yourself are important. Second, if you feel comfortable do something nice for this girl - a flower, help with books - you will then be noticed. Third, join a club you %26amp; she both like - then you will get to know her. Once you know her you may not want to be noticed by her or you may find she likes you too. Good Luck.
Take the red rose and walk up to her. Tilt the analogue stick clockwise and press square, square, circle, triangle. This unlocks the kiss me cheat. You can use it as many times as you like.
5 minutes ago - 7 day(s) left to answer.How can i become friend with a girl that i dont know?
Start walking toward her and as you get close, trip and fall right in front of her. After you climb back to your feet look at her and say, ';I am sorry...I've never fallen for a girl before';.
Good luck.How can i become friend with a girl that i dont know?
Your best bet just go up and talk to her. Complament her.
This is the Video Game section. If you by chance want to know how to get past the 4th world in Mario 3, I can help you with that. So unless you got a game question, your not getting a decent answer.
Just go talk to her. And put your questions in the right category.
First, what would make you comfortable with yourself? As long as you are not thinking of changing your personality for another person the changes you make to become comfortable with yourself are important. Second, if you feel comfortable do something nice for this girl - a flower, help with books - you will then be noticed. Third, join a club you %26amp; she both like - then you will get to know her. Once you know her you may not want to be noticed by her or you may find she likes you too. Good Luck.
Take the red rose and walk up to her. Tilt the analogue stick clockwise and press square, square, circle, triangle. This unlocks the kiss me cheat. You can use it as many times as you like.
2girls 23yr, how do we go about making more regular girl friends to hang out with? Work and Uni not an option.
23 yr old best friends - single %26amp; heterosexual, Both Australian of an Assyrian background. clubbing is not our seen. sick of dining/cafeing and cinemas just the two of us. Activities such as aqua golf, put put, tenpin bowling are much more enjoyed in groups. At our age, we find it hard to make new friends, if we meet someone, we'll talk to them that night, and it ends there. How do we make friends that can become friends for regular weekend activities and hangouts..in particular friday and saturday nights - in sydney.2girls 23yr, how do we go about making more regular girl friends to hang out with? Work and Uni not an option.
Find a club or a group that the both of you like doing and make friends with like minded individuals. You both bowl, join a league or see if anyone's looking to strike up a team. Just a suggestion.
Find a club or a group that the both of you like doing and make friends with like minded individuals. You both bowl, join a league or see if anyone's looking to strike up a team. Just a suggestion.
Why do I feel so weird when I become super good friends with a girl?
I've never had a girlfriend before, but I plan on having one soon. The thing is, whenever I become good friends with a girl, and sort of have romantic thoughts and dreams of her, I feel pretty yucky. I'm not gay, I'm pretty sure of that, so I know that's not it. For example, there's a girl in my class, let's call her Jibbles (Although Jibbles is a very unattractive name). When I first saw her, I thought she was insanely beautiful. I never saw a girl like her, so naturally, I wanted to know her. I talk to her, and the first few days, conversations are just like ';Hey, how are you doing today?';. But after the first week, we really begin to know eachother. I know Jibble's favorite music, favorite sports, etc. One day, I would go home, wondering how I really felt about her. I don't know if I really love her or if she's just a friend to me. I go to bed later that day, and I think of sleeping with her, talking to her, and other 'stuff' with her. Then I get a dream on a completely random day of her falling in love with me, doing it with me, stuff like that. And I'm like, ';All right, I'm down with this';. So the next day, I walk up to her, and I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach. I can't make eye contact with her, and I'm afraid to talk to her. So I get this feeling alot, so I sort of stay away from her. But when I see her talking to other guys, I'm like, ';Ohhh no, she's mine';. So what is this strange feeling I have? Am I just being a selfish jerk, or am I feeling love or something? I know this was long, and I really appreciate the fact that you tok the time to help me. Cheers.Why do I feel so weird when I become super good friends with a girl?
One word man...LOVE!
No doubt about it. i think what you really need to know, is weather or not to ask her out. You guys are clearly friends, so that's good, all relationships work out better if your friends first. BUT will asking her out make you possibly loose her as a friend if she doesn't want to date you? Maybe. Only you know her well enough to decide that.
Personally i say, ';whats life with out a few chances'; ask her out and pray she will say ';yes';...and remember, confidants is key!
Stay positive and be yourself, if she says ';no'; its not the end of the world, ';Jibbles'; just obviously wasn't the girl for you.
Good Luck dude.
Hope everything goes the way you want it to.Why do I feel so weird when I become super good friends with a girl?
it sounds to me like u REALLY like her. thats why u get that feeling in your stomach and u get jealous. its normal when u really like someone. its what u do about it that matters.
LOL jibbles.. anyways You like her alot.. So ask her out then in like a year do it.. Simple
dude it sounds like u like her alot so what u do is go up 2 her and give her a hug and just tell her that she is very pretty and trust me it will get easier from vtheir on in
One word man...LOVE!
No doubt about it. i think what you really need to know, is weather or not to ask her out. You guys are clearly friends, so that's good, all relationships work out better if your friends first. BUT will asking her out make you possibly loose her as a friend if she doesn't want to date you? Maybe. Only you know her well enough to decide that.
Personally i say, ';whats life with out a few chances'; ask her out and pray she will say ';yes';...and remember, confidants is key!
Stay positive and be yourself, if she says ';no'; its not the end of the world, ';Jibbles'; just obviously wasn't the girl for you.
Good Luck dude.
Hope everything goes the way you want it to.Why do I feel so weird when I become super good friends with a girl?
it sounds to me like u REALLY like her. thats why u get that feeling in your stomach and u get jealous. its normal when u really like someone. its what u do about it that matters.
LOL jibbles.. anyways You like her alot.. So ask her out then in like a year do it.. Simple
dude it sounds like u like her alot so what u do is go up 2 her and give her a hug and just tell her that she is very pretty and trust me it will get easier from vtheir on in
I really want some friends who are GUYS, but don't know how to become friends, seriously.?
I don't have any guy friends but want to, but I don't know how to become friends with guys, and I really truly don't think just smile and say hi work too well. It seems like everyone other than a selective few such as me have guy and girl friends. Since I already know everyone at my school it seems hard to just all of the sudden become interested in being friends with them. I don't want to be more than friends
Ok Im going to tell you Im 14, school, church and spending the night with (girl) friends is basically my social life. I can't drive and my parents are strict on parties. I know I sound seriously odd, because most people have loaded social calendars.I really want some friends who are GUYS, but don't know how to become friends, seriously.?
Well. Dont think its ';odd'; because I kinda know what youre talking about. Seriously, just treat them like you would other friends and dont think you have to be macho manly manly man in front of them because if youre worrying about something like ';they might think this blah blah blah'; you dont have to worry because people respect other people for being who they are and not for putting forward a front. Dont think youre the only one! Its not like its really super hard just really say hi (name here) what you been up to? Just like youd normally say hi. Because hello doesnt mean ';i think youre hott'; Hello means...well...hello. If they think youre wanting to be ';more than friends'; than they just have problems if you just say hey. So yeah. Just try to be yourself and dont make yourself nervous or anything! I hope I helped a lil. And dont get the impression that I think youre stupid or anything! Cause I dont !I really want some friends who are GUYS, but don't know how to become friends, seriously.?
It will come naturally...trust.
Be yourself. Dont be afraid to talk to people. I have lots of guy friends and I dont even know how it happens...Good luck!!
play some sportz with them
That's a really difficult question to answer. You might want to speak with your guidance counselor about your feelings.
you just gotta build up your self- esteem try talkink to one guy u know since u were small and then he will present u to his friends and you will get more
Just talk to them. Start conversation.
I talk to the guys near my locker, the guys I sit next to in class, and the guys I've been friends with since middle school.
Oh and i talk with the guys in my clubs and organizations.
Seriously if you just talk to them casually, friendship will form without you even realizing it. It's just natural.
Ok Im going to tell you Im 14, school, church and spending the night with (girl) friends is basically my social life. I can't drive and my parents are strict on parties. I know I sound seriously odd, because most people have loaded social calendars.I really want some friends who are GUYS, but don't know how to become friends, seriously.?
Well. Dont think its ';odd'; because I kinda know what youre talking about. Seriously, just treat them like you would other friends and dont think you have to be macho manly manly man in front of them because if youre worrying about something like ';they might think this blah blah blah'; you dont have to worry because people respect other people for being who they are and not for putting forward a front. Dont think youre the only one! Its not like its really super hard just really say hi (name here) what you been up to? Just like youd normally say hi. Because hello doesnt mean ';i think youre hott'; Hello means...well...hello. If they think youre wanting to be ';more than friends'; than they just have problems if you just say hey. So yeah. Just try to be yourself and dont make yourself nervous or anything! I hope I helped a lil. And dont get the impression that I think youre stupid or anything! Cause I dont !I really want some friends who are GUYS, but don't know how to become friends, seriously.?
It will come naturally...trust.
Be yourself. Dont be afraid to talk to people. I have lots of guy friends and I dont even know how it happens...Good luck!!
play some sportz with them
That's a really difficult question to answer. You might want to speak with your guidance counselor about your feelings.
you just gotta build up your self- esteem try talkink to one guy u know since u were small and then he will present u to his friends and you will get more
Just talk to them. Start conversation.
I talk to the guys near my locker, the guys I sit next to in class, and the guys I've been friends with since middle school.
Oh and i talk with the guys in my clubs and organizations.
Seriously if you just talk to them casually, friendship will form without you even realizing it. It's just natural.
How do I get a girl to like me? How do I keep her interested?
I'm really good at becoming friends with girls, but I'm really bad at taking that next step and getting on that more than friend level. How do I let her know I'm interested without being a creep?How do I get a girl to like me? How do I keep her interested?
ask her, and if she says no then she doesnt deserve you or just get her in your bed?How do I get a girl to like me? How do I keep her interested?
sweeeet talk her shell like that!!
haaa, i knows a lot quick sum: break friendship by not returing calls %26amp; then she'll wonder whats happening %26amp; from there, lol man this stuff is so easy%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; confidence !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! %26amp; go in there like a alpha male as if she needs you %26amp; not the other way around
ask her, and if she says no then she doesnt deserve you or just get her in your bed?How do I get a girl to like me? How do I keep her interested?
sweeeet talk her shell like that!!
haaa, i knows a lot quick sum: break friendship by not returing calls %26amp; then she'll wonder whats happening %26amp; from there, lol man this stuff is so easy%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; confidence !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! %26amp; go in there like a alpha male as if she needs you %26amp; not the other way around
How can i talk to guys more easily and become friends with them?
ok. well lately ive been feeling really insecure because all the guys in the class ignore me. Im pretty sure it has to do with looks and personality. Im soo CONFUSED! In our class all the guys talk to the loud, girls that seem so sure of themselves and fun. eevn the ugly ones they seem to like as freinds. and im going crazy because i remember i sued to be friends with all these guys and now they just dony talk to me anymore! I'm a 13 yr, old girl in grade 8, and im really confused about how to act around guys. They seem to expect soo much. I mean looks, personality, perfect grades its too much to handle! I dont even know who i am...? how am i supposed to act mmyself around others? I feel so akward self consciouse, and UGLY. I mean i have tonnes of girl friends, but the only way i can actully get out a few sentences with a guy is if one of my girl friends is there and they start the convo. Also, all of the grownups , some complete strangers compliment me on my hair, or how pretty i look. But i really dont believe any of these comments because all the guys seem to think im disgusting. Like today, im like hiii to one of the guys and then there likee ewwww and they ran away. and then all of these girls in grade seven always compliment me there like ur soo pretty.I feel like im a hideous freak now becuuz of all the guys in our class. And this past year or so ive become really quite, i used to be louder, not so self consciouse, and not afraid to speak my mind. Now, im afraid when i walk into the classroom, ppl are already judging me on everything, my hair the way i talk %26amp;%26amp; walk. I think this is partly becuuz my x-friends always judged me and made fun of me calling me stupid and stuff, but i really wish i could just let loose, and be friends with a guy again! I mean is this normal? not being able to talk to guys, but b4 all the guys were like mii friends? HELPP!!!!!!How can i talk to guys more easily and become friends with them?
who cares that dey are not talkin to u. judt be ur self. make da good grdes and keep ur self lookin clean and fresh. donr worry bout dem. If dey dont wanna talk to u den Screw dem!!
Dnt make dat small issue da center of ur life.
And dnt call ur self ugly. I bet ur prettier den everyone in ur class.
Just do u an dont worry bout dat. Those loud girls may be talk to dem but trust me... does guy dont have not even a lil respect 4 does girls.
Keep ur respect. Be u. Love life. LIVE!! HAVE FUN!!! U ARE BEAUTIFUL!! BELIEVE IT!!How can i talk to guys more easily and become friends with them?
okay first;.... CHILLL OUTTT, you have to relax
you have to act yourself a dont be insecure!
If your confident about yourself and not care a lot about what other people think about you then you will have more friends.
Be loud and proud!
You just have to be yourself, i know your young but i'm sure you have opinions, thoughts, music you love, possibly artistic abilities and so forth. Embrace those kinds of things about you... I was once in your situation, everyone gets nervous about talking to the same sex, exspecially when you don't know how to relate. I think you just need to find the right guy to talk too, 8th grade boys are immature. By the way i don't think those friends of yours are very good friends if there telling you you're stupid!!kids myspace
who cares that dey are not talkin to u. judt be ur self. make da good grdes and keep ur self lookin clean and fresh. donr worry bout dem. If dey dont wanna talk to u den Screw dem!!
Dnt make dat small issue da center of ur life.
And dnt call ur self ugly. I bet ur prettier den everyone in ur class.
Just do u an dont worry bout dat. Those loud girls may be talk to dem but trust me... does guy dont have not even a lil respect 4 does girls.
Keep ur respect. Be u. Love life. LIVE!! HAVE FUN!!! U ARE BEAUTIFUL!! BELIEVE IT!!How can i talk to guys more easily and become friends with them?
okay first;.... CHILLL OUTTT, you have to relax
you have to act yourself a dont be insecure!
If your confident about yourself and not care a lot about what other people think about you then you will have more friends.
Be loud and proud!
You just have to be yourself, i know your young but i'm sure you have opinions, thoughts, music you love, possibly artistic abilities and so forth. Embrace those kinds of things about you... I was once in your situation, everyone gets nervous about talking to the same sex, exspecially when you don't know how to relate. I think you just need to find the right guy to talk too, 8th grade boys are immature. By the way i don't think those friends of yours are very good friends if there telling you you're stupid!!
I really want to become good friends with this girl...?
but she has like 4-5 close friends that are boys and me and her talk a lot but we dont ever go hang out like she does with them. Ive only know her about a month in a half but I really want to become good friends with her. I think about her all the time and I need to know how, ThanksI really want to become good friends with this girl...?
Ok. Im like this girl i hang with a bunch of dudes, and then if im not with them Im with a bunch of girls. But the best way is just to focus on her. Be her friend. First you'll be her friend in the background, but then when you guys find common ground, you'll be like those other guys too.I really want to become good friends with this girl...?
You really want to be good friends with her? When you are thinking about her all the time, it means you like her. Ask her out, instead of trying to be her friend
exchange phone numbers and text her :]
cute messages are always just soo.. cute ;]
ask her out and see how it goes
If you wanna be more than just friends:
tell her how ya feel!!! It's the best way to go... Trust me, girls luv it when your totally honest with them
If you really and truly just wanna be friends:
Ask all of the guys and her to go to a movie or skating or something. Just talk to her more and try to get to know her other friends too.
Hope that helps (it's helped me be4, exact same thing happened to me, well the guy had a lot of gal friends and we were just 'acquaintances' wanted more)
Ok. Im like this girl i hang with a bunch of dudes, and then if im not with them Im with a bunch of girls. But the best way is just to focus on her. Be her friend. First you'll be her friend in the background, but then when you guys find common ground, you'll be like those other guys too.I really want to become good friends with this girl...?
You really want to be good friends with her? When you are thinking about her all the time, it means you like her. Ask her out, instead of trying to be her friend
exchange phone numbers and text her :]
cute messages are always just soo.. cute ;]
ask her out and see how it goes
If you wanna be more than just friends:
tell her how ya feel!!! It's the best way to go... Trust me, girls luv it when your totally honest with them
If you really and truly just wanna be friends:
Ask all of the guys and her to go to a movie or skating or something. Just talk to her more and try to get to know her other friends too.
Hope that helps (it's helped me be4, exact same thing happened to me, well the guy had a lot of gal friends and we were just 'acquaintances' wanted more)
How could I become friends with a japanese girl I met recently?
Hi,
I am 26 and have been passionate about Japanese culture for a very long time. I see Japan as a fascinating country, although I haven't been yet and haven't got any Japanese friends so far.
However, I am planning a trip to Japan in the near future and have recently started to learn the language. I went to buy a book from a specialist shop and chatted to the young saleswoman who came from Tokyo. She was very nice and seemed pleased to see somebody interested in her culture / way of life. I thought that it could be a good idea to get to know her a bit better to find out more about her country and so on. Would you have any suggestions on how to approach the subject. I know that Japanese people can be very private and I do not mean to be rude to her. Any sensible ideas are welcome.
PS. Just in case some of you are wondering, I am not gay. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and am only seeking a friendship with this girl :-)
How could I become friends with a japanese girl I met recently?
Go back to the store and strike up a conversation again. See if you can get the conversation on Japan and tell her you may be going. Ask her if she has any free time can she give you some advice and you treat her to a coffee or something.How could I become friends with a japanese girl I met recently?
Can't give any great advice, only to say that as an English teacher I often read forums in the Japanese newspapers - I found that there's a great deal of annoyance with some Japanese about gaijin, foreigners, being obsessive about Japanese culture. They have a term for those people, which I forget now (but you know, the fascination with manga, all the kawaii, cutesy-cool commodities, etc etc): so I'd just say if you want to be friends, don't do it on the basis that she is from somewhere you happen to have a fashionable attraction for, as the japanese believe strongly in the etiquette of relationships and may find you superficial.
hmm why did you suspect that we would think of you as gay? just go about as you would befriend someone of your own culture. besides any japanese who went to your country would be acclimated to your custom.
just talk to her a lot and ask her about her country.
during m first day of class in anatomy %26amp; physiology, i heard this girl speaking japanese to her other japanese friend in the hallway.. and so, when we went inside the classroom, i followed her and sat next to her. lol then asked her if she was japanese(pretending not to know, i didn't wanna seem weird) then we talked everytime in class and now we're friends :)
I am 26 and have been passionate about Japanese culture for a very long time. I see Japan as a fascinating country, although I haven't been yet and haven't got any Japanese friends so far.
However, I am planning a trip to Japan in the near future and have recently started to learn the language. I went to buy a book from a specialist shop and chatted to the young saleswoman who came from Tokyo. She was very nice and seemed pleased to see somebody interested in her culture / way of life. I thought that it could be a good idea to get to know her a bit better to find out more about her country and so on. Would you have any suggestions on how to approach the subject. I know that Japanese people can be very private and I do not mean to be rude to her. Any sensible ideas are welcome.
PS. Just in case some of you are wondering, I am not gay. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and am only seeking a friendship with this girl :-)
How could I become friends with a japanese girl I met recently?
Go back to the store and strike up a conversation again. See if you can get the conversation on Japan and tell her you may be going. Ask her if she has any free time can she give you some advice and you treat her to a coffee or something.How could I become friends with a japanese girl I met recently?
Can't give any great advice, only to say that as an English teacher I often read forums in the Japanese newspapers - I found that there's a great deal of annoyance with some Japanese about gaijin, foreigners, being obsessive about Japanese culture. They have a term for those people, which I forget now (but you know, the fascination with manga, all the kawaii, cutesy-cool commodities, etc etc): so I'd just say if you want to be friends, don't do it on the basis that she is from somewhere you happen to have a fashionable attraction for, as the japanese believe strongly in the etiquette of relationships and may find you superficial.
hmm why did you suspect that we would think of you as gay? just go about as you would befriend someone of your own culture. besides any japanese who went to your country would be acclimated to your custom.
just talk to her a lot and ask her about her country.
during m first day of class in anatomy %26amp; physiology, i heard this girl speaking japanese to her other japanese friend in the hallway.. and so, when we went inside the classroom, i followed her and sat next to her. lol then asked her if she was japanese(pretending not to know, i didn't wanna seem weird) then we talked everytime in class and now we're friends :)
How do I become friends with someone?
I'm a 13 year old girl turning 14 soon. I go to this youth orchestra every Sunday and am the youngest member (but there are some 14-15 year olds too; the oldest is 18). The problem is that people always seem to ignore me even if I smile and say hi.
I have one girl friend (just a friend, I'm not gay) at the orchestra but we're not that close; we've never hung out or anything. My chamber group is all boys so it's hard to find something to agree on doing.
I think it's because I'm ugly but ugly girls at my orchestra still have friends and are pretty popular. My mom's friends all think I'm really pretty but I don't think so. When I have spring break in a couple of weeks I'm going to get contact lenses (I wear glasses and look better without them), get some new clothes, shop for makeup for the first time with my mom, and try to improve my appearance. I have acne and I think that also lowers my self-esteem.
So how do I become close friends (like people you can casually hang out with all the time and invite to your house) with someone? I am also crushing on someone in the orchestra but I'm already unpopular so it's hard to imagine talking to him.
Thank you for reading this long question! I really appreciate it! :)How do I become friends with someone?
Don't allow your acne to lower your self esteem. If you think more of yourself, then others will also. Why don't you ask a question after you say ';';hi'; to these people? Complement them on what they're wearing and start a chat from there. Ask if they've seen a certain movie or talk about other things. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion. Please realize that you're just as good as anyone else in life. Do believe that you are worthy of the best. You're on the right track by getting contact lenses and trying to improve your appearance. Keep talking and opening up to these people and they will come around.How do I become friends with someone?
Write a letter declaring your intent to commence a friendship. Jokes...
Ask them about themselves, people like to talk about themselves, you might find something in common :).
You want to know what you should work on first and for most? Higher self esteem. People will not respect you if you do not like yourself. Believe me, people can tell. So, work on your self esteem issues first, and perhaps you'll have an easier time making friends.
confidence is the key!
I have one girl friend (just a friend, I'm not gay) at the orchestra but we're not that close; we've never hung out or anything. My chamber group is all boys so it's hard to find something to agree on doing.
I think it's because I'm ugly but ugly girls at my orchestra still have friends and are pretty popular. My mom's friends all think I'm really pretty but I don't think so. When I have spring break in a couple of weeks I'm going to get contact lenses (I wear glasses and look better without them), get some new clothes, shop for makeup for the first time with my mom, and try to improve my appearance. I have acne and I think that also lowers my self-esteem.
So how do I become close friends (like people you can casually hang out with all the time and invite to your house) with someone? I am also crushing on someone in the orchestra but I'm already unpopular so it's hard to imagine talking to him.
Thank you for reading this long question! I really appreciate it! :)How do I become friends with someone?
Don't allow your acne to lower your self esteem. If you think more of yourself, then others will also. Why don't you ask a question after you say ';';hi'; to these people? Complement them on what they're wearing and start a chat from there. Ask if they've seen a certain movie or talk about other things. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion. Please realize that you're just as good as anyone else in life. Do believe that you are worthy of the best. You're on the right track by getting contact lenses and trying to improve your appearance. Keep talking and opening up to these people and they will come around.How do I become friends with someone?
Write a letter declaring your intent to commence a friendship. Jokes...
Ask them about themselves, people like to talk about themselves, you might find something in common :).
You want to know what you should work on first and for most? Higher self esteem. People will not respect you if you do not like yourself. Believe me, people can tell. So, work on your self esteem issues first, and perhaps you'll have an easier time making friends.
confidence is the key!
How does one become ';just friends'; with a girl?
In my opinion ';I just see you as a friend'; is code for ';I am unnatracted to you and could never myself with you as a romantic partner';. What I was wondering is how a guy ends up in this zone ( I know the answer - not making a move, being wussy etc -I just want opinions) I want alll opinions, those from PUA's, non-PUA's, young, old etc! More specifically (for those that want to answer), can a guy become just friends with a girl without him displaying typicaly behavior that would make him in the friend zone. In other words, are there any ';limiting factors'; that shove a guy in the friend zone no matter what his personality is (he can be extremely confident and rich yet gets in the friend zone) - the female being in a relationship doesnt count.How does one become ';just friends'; with a girl?
First of all, watch the move: Just Friends!!! Trust me, it will help you!
You should just hang out with your ';girl'; friend. If she is into the same kinda music you are, why not go to a concert together? Trust me, girls are hurt even when you say you just want to be friends but since they are hanging out with you, that gives them more potential to be ';more spontaneous'; to other guys. Girls like to have guys as friends so they could see how guys react in certain situations.How does one become ';just friends'; with a girl?
yea a guy can be just friends with a girl.. i have my best guy friend and we've been best friends for 5yrs (we are both 15)
i would never date him.. he's just my friend.
Sometimes the attraction just isn't there. It could be anything from her thinking you don't share enough in common, to her not liking your sense of humor, to her simply not being attracted to you. There are certain things that are just deal breakers with most girls. Maybe you two aren't in the same place in life, and she knows that in the long run things won't work out so why bother? There isn't really one specific thing, it's just that sometimes ';it's'; there and sometimes, ';it's'; not.
First of all, watch the move: Just Friends!!! Trust me, it will help you!
You should just hang out with your ';girl'; friend. If she is into the same kinda music you are, why not go to a concert together? Trust me, girls are hurt even when you say you just want to be friends but since they are hanging out with you, that gives them more potential to be ';more spontaneous'; to other guys. Girls like to have guys as friends so they could see how guys react in certain situations.How does one become ';just friends'; with a girl?
yea a guy can be just friends with a girl.. i have my best guy friend and we've been best friends for 5yrs (we are both 15)
i would never date him.. he's just my friend.
Sometimes the attraction just isn't there. It could be anything from her thinking you don't share enough in common, to her not liking your sense of humor, to her simply not being attracted to you. There are certain things that are just deal breakers with most girls. Maybe you two aren't in the same place in life, and she knows that in the long run things won't work out so why bother? There isn't really one specific thing, it's just that sometimes ';it's'; there and sometimes, ';it's'; not.
I really like this girl but we're only friends. Girls help me?
Ok, well I've known this girl for 2 years. The first year I knew her we didn't really talk. But the 2nd year, we had about 5 classes together and we really got to become good friends. We're going to different high schools now. And I want her to know that I really like her. But I don't know how she feels about me.. I had the perfect chance to tell her how I feel today.. You see, me and her were texting.. And she nd her mom have a close relationship.. So I told her she reminds me of the girl from gilmore girls.. She told me to call her.I did, and she wanted to know how she reminded me of the girl from gilmore girls... I said she was smart and had a close relationship with her mom. I wasn't thinking about what I said.. and didn't really pay too much attention to it.. And I changed the subject. I could of said so much more! I felt like such a dumbass and I felt like slapping myself for being so blind. Also, she wrote in my yearbook and here's what she wrote: Luis.. !Leaves!(Insider btw) hello:) it's been fun cereal buddy! I'll miss you next year! You're hilarious! Hope I see you over the summer too* Oh! And u better get a phone and txt me!!! (I'm not gonna say her #)... I'll ttyl love you xoxo %26lt;3 Mackenzie =) haha (I think your crazy)
And that's it. Just tell me if you think I should just man up and tell her straight up I like her, and ask her if she likes me back? Or should I tell her some other way? I'm SO CONFUSED! Help me ladies. :)I really like this girl but we're only friends. Girls help me?
well she sort of seems like she likes you..if you want to try to get with her then do so but if something goes wrong you could be risking your friendship...but hey it could go back to normal eventuallyI really like this girl but we're only friends. Girls help me?
Yes!!! Tell her straight up that you like her alot. And ask if she feels the same, and for her to be honest. You can take it if she doesn't like you, so only say she does if she truly does. Girls like it if a guy tells her IN PERSON, BY THEM, NOT SOMEONE ELSE, that they like them. And tell her, she's beautiful, not hot. That's always a plus. Hope I helped! Repost some details and i'll check on how it went. Good luck!
Listen,
She will be flattered.
She is a human being.
Not some beautiful princess from....wherever.
She's as normal as you, and whatever you say, I'm sure she'll take it to heart and just man up and do it!
I bet she'll be flattered and just say, ';Mackenzie, I like you.';
鈾ope I could help you鈾?br>
PEnElOpE jOnEs
that is really sweet.
okay u should deffinitley tell her. but, dont do it by text/phone. meet up somewhere like she suggested, and be like i've got something to tell u....
OR
write her a letter. crazy as it may sound, but a lot of girls like romantic things like that.
if she is a gem, like u say, then make sure u keep it (her) safe...
hope this helped, and let me know how things work out! :)
MizzFabPink
x
p.s. if it does not work out, make sure u make the EFFORT to remain friends. dont let her slip thru ur fingers.
And that's it. Just tell me if you think I should just man up and tell her straight up I like her, and ask her if she likes me back? Or should I tell her some other way? I'm SO CONFUSED! Help me ladies. :)I really like this girl but we're only friends. Girls help me?
well she sort of seems like she likes you..if you want to try to get with her then do so but if something goes wrong you could be risking your friendship...but hey it could go back to normal eventuallyI really like this girl but we're only friends. Girls help me?
Yes!!! Tell her straight up that you like her alot. And ask if she feels the same, and for her to be honest. You can take it if she doesn't like you, so only say she does if she truly does. Girls like it if a guy tells her IN PERSON, BY THEM, NOT SOMEONE ELSE, that they like them. And tell her, she's beautiful, not hot. That's always a plus. Hope I helped! Repost some details and i'll check on how it went. Good luck!
Listen,
She will be flattered.
She is a human being.
Not some beautiful princess from....wherever.
She's as normal as you, and whatever you say, I'm sure she'll take it to heart and just man up and do it!
I bet she'll be flattered and just say, ';Mackenzie, I like you.';
鈾ope I could help you鈾?br>
PEnElOpE jOnEs
that is really sweet.
okay u should deffinitley tell her. but, dont do it by text/phone. meet up somewhere like she suggested, and be like i've got something to tell u....
OR
write her a letter. crazy as it may sound, but a lot of girls like romantic things like that.
if she is a gem, like u say, then make sure u keep it (her) safe...
hope this helped, and let me know how things work out! :)
MizzFabPink
x
p.s. if it does not work out, make sure u make the EFFORT to remain friends. dont let her slip thru ur fingers.
How can i become closer friends with this girl? 10 points?
I started to like a girl that introduced herself to me, and I felt she was thinking the same about me. we started to do a lot of things together and talk more frequent, she constantly asked to hangout with me, and gave me a lot of compliments, bought me a fish, sang me a song, told me she loves talking with me... I was convinced she liked me back. so a little bit later I told her how I felt about her and she says: your an amazing person but, I just see you as a friend.
she started to ignore me a lot after that but and just wasn't the same when we talked.
But now we are starting to talk again, as friends. but over the past weeks I have began to talk with her less and now I feel like she just needed some space.
I understand i cant change her feelings towards me, but she is just like me, only female inside. I really like her, and im fine with being just her friend. But i think she is feeling awkward when we talk. so how can i fix this and become really close friends with her?
Any advice?
ThanksHow can i become closer friends with this girl? 10 points?
I've been in this exactly same situation...I've gone through some very awkward times with this guy. But now I call him my brother. It's what we were meant to be. The best advice I can give you is talk about it. You become really close friends when you are willing to share anything with the other person, so just be really open with her. Tell her that you just want to be close friends. And listen to her when she talks back. I hope things work out for you :)How can i become closer friends with this girl? 10 points?
Girls are funny and it just takes time. Just keep space and distance and then it will be ok
tell her you like someone else, but not in a really obvious way, she'll feel more at ease
The relationship was already growing since you guys were hanging out more frequently, so there was no need for you to tell her how you feel about her. Returning some of those compliments would have been sufficient for her. Stick with being her regular friend, you might have to give her a little space for a while. She is feeling uncomfortable because your feelings towards her have more tensity than the feelings she has towards you. Just give her a call like once a week and only talk to her face to face whenever it is necessary. By giving her a little space for a while she might start to wonder how comes you are not talking to her so often. She might believe that you are now seeing her as a regular friend, which is the most comfortable level she can talk to you at. She might even realize that she is not under pressure to have the same feelings you have towards her. Just take it slow with her. However these things take time so just be patient.
she started to ignore me a lot after that but and just wasn't the same when we talked.
But now we are starting to talk again, as friends. but over the past weeks I have began to talk with her less and now I feel like she just needed some space.
I understand i cant change her feelings towards me, but she is just like me, only female inside. I really like her, and im fine with being just her friend. But i think she is feeling awkward when we talk. so how can i fix this and become really close friends with her?
Any advice?
ThanksHow can i become closer friends with this girl? 10 points?
I've been in this exactly same situation...I've gone through some very awkward times with this guy. But now I call him my brother. It's what we were meant to be. The best advice I can give you is talk about it. You become really close friends when you are willing to share anything with the other person, so just be really open with her. Tell her that you just want to be close friends. And listen to her when she talks back. I hope things work out for you :)How can i become closer friends with this girl? 10 points?
Girls are funny and it just takes time. Just keep space and distance and then it will be ok
tell her you like someone else, but not in a really obvious way, she'll feel more at ease
The relationship was already growing since you guys were hanging out more frequently, so there was no need for you to tell her how you feel about her. Returning some of those compliments would have been sufficient for her. Stick with being her regular friend, you might have to give her a little space for a while. She is feeling uncomfortable because your feelings towards her have more tensity than the feelings she has towards you. Just give her a call like once a week and only talk to her face to face whenever it is necessary. By giving her a little space for a while she might start to wonder how comes you are not talking to her so often. She might believe that you are now seeing her as a regular friend, which is the most comfortable level she can talk to you at. She might even realize that she is not under pressure to have the same feelings you have towards her. Just take it slow with her. However these things take time so just be patient.
I really this girl. But we're only friends (girls only please)?
Ok, well I've known this girl for 2 years. The first year I knew her we didn't really talk. But the 2nd year, we had about 5 classes together and we really got to become good friends. We're going to different high schools now. And I want her to know that I really like her. But I don't know how she feels about me.. I had the perfect chance to tell her how I feel today.. You see, me and her were texting.. And she nd her mom have a close relationship.. So I told her she reminds me of the girl from gilmore girls.. She told me to call her.I did, and she wanted to know how she reminded me of the girl from gilmore girls... I said she was smart and had a close relationship with her mom. I wasn't thinking about what I said.. and didn't really pay too much attention to it.. And I changed the subject. I could of said so much more! I felt like such a dumbass and I felt like slapping myself for being so blind. Also, she wrote in my yearbook and here's what she wrote: Luis.. !Leaves!(Insider btw) hello:) it's been fun cereal buddy! I'll miss you next year! You're hilarious! Hope I see you over the summer too* Oh! And u better get a phone and txt me!!! (I'm not gonna say her #)... I'll ttyl love you xoxo %26lt;3 Mackenzie =) haha (I think your crazy)
And that's it. Just tell me if you think I should just man up and tell her straight up I like her, and ask her if she likes me back? Or should I tell her some other way? I'm SO CONFUSED! Help me ladies. :)I really this girl. But we're only friends (girls only please)?
girls aren't the only ones that can answer this dude.
I have met plenty of chicks who talk to me like this, and i thought she was into me, and it turns out that she talks to EVERY guy like this.She is the girl that you have no clue if she's interested in you or not, and you'll never find out;UNLESS you ask her out.
grow a pair of balls, ask her out, if she says yes then hooray, if not than there are worse things.
I'm in the middle of a chick problem myself, but its no biggie.
Just calm down, ask her out, if she says no, than its a no.Try to be friends still and if it doesn't work, screw her.
And that's it. Just tell me if you think I should just man up and tell her straight up I like her, and ask her if she likes me back? Or should I tell her some other way? I'm SO CONFUSED! Help me ladies. :)I really this girl. But we're only friends (girls only please)?
girls aren't the only ones that can answer this dude.
I have met plenty of chicks who talk to me like this, and i thought she was into me, and it turns out that she talks to EVERY guy like this.She is the girl that you have no clue if she's interested in you or not, and you'll never find out;UNLESS you ask her out.
grow a pair of balls, ask her out, if she says yes then hooray, if not than there are worse things.
I'm in the middle of a chick problem myself, but its no biggie.
Just calm down, ask her out, if she says no, than its a no.Try to be friends still and if it doesn't work, screw her.
How can I become friends with a guy, and talk to them?
ok. well lately ive been feeling really insecure because all the guys in the class ignore me. Im pretty sure it has to do with looks and personality. Im soo CONFUSED! In our class all the guys talk to the loud, girls that seem so sure of themselves and fun. eevn the ugly ones they seem to like as freinds. and im going crazy because i remember i sued to be friends with all these guys and now they just dony talk to me anymore! I'm a 13 yr, old girl in grade 8, and im really confused about how to act around guys. They seem to expect soo much. I mean looks, personality, perfect grades its too much to handle! I dont even know who i am...? how am i supposed to act mmyself around others? I feel so akward self consciouse, and UGLY. I mean i have tonnes of girl friends, but the only way i can actully get out a few sentences with a guy is if one of my girl friends is there and they start the convo. Also, all of the grownups , some complete strangers compliment me on my hair, or how pretty i look. But i really dont believe any of these comments because all the guys seem to think im disgusting. Like today, im like hiii to one of the guys and then there likee ewwww and they ran away. and then all of these girls in grade seven always compliment me there like ur soo pretty.I feel like im a hideous freak now becuuz of all the guys in our class. And this past year or so ive become really quite, i used to be louder, not so self consciouse, and not afraid to speak my mind. Now, im afraid when i walk into the classroom, ppl are already judging me on everything, my hair the way i talk %26amp;%26amp; walk. I think this is partly becuuz my x-friends always judged me and made fun of me calling me stupid and stuff, but i really wish i could just let loose, and be friends with a guy again! I mean is this normal? not being able to talk to guys, but b4 all the guys were like mii friends? HELPP!!!!!!How can I become friends with a guy, and talk to them?
your in 8th grade, the worst grade for guys because that is when they go through puberty. it sucks, but guys are real jerks than, and you just need to keep your head up high, join club, after school activities so you can meet new people. AND most importantly don't give a damn about what other people think of you,because it'll get u nowhere in life. GOOD LUCK!! =)
your in 8th grade, the worst grade for guys because that is when they go through puberty. it sucks, but guys are real jerks than, and you just need to keep your head up high, join club, after school activities so you can meet new people. AND most importantly don't give a damn about what other people think of you,because it'll get u nowhere in life. GOOD LUCK!! =)
How to become better friends with this girl....?
So I'm a freshman in high school. I sit next to this girl in math who went to my middle school, but we never talked until this year. We're in the same MathScienceTech program, and we've just been talking and laughing during class to make it go by faster. She's nice, funny, smart, and pretty cute--pretty much the whole package in my opinion. I guess I'm okay looking...probably better than average.....
So. How can I become better friends with her? I mean besides just talking in class a lot...she's my friend on facebook. i dont see her very much outside of that class, and my school has around 1900 people.
*not: she's not really girly-girlish, but she mainly hangs around girls. but she still talks to guys, just not nearly as much.
thanks!How to become better friends with this girl....?
try inviting her to the movies or just hanging out out of school time were you guys can get to know each other better
So. How can I become better friends with her? I mean besides just talking in class a lot...she's my friend on facebook. i dont see her very much outside of that class, and my school has around 1900 people.
*not: she's not really girly-girlish, but she mainly hangs around girls. but she still talks to guys, just not nearly as much.
thanks!How to become better friends with this girl....?
try inviting her to the movies or just hanging out out of school time were you guys can get to know each other better
Teens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
Hey people. Im looking forward to making new friends. i want to be known and popular. i want to have a bunch of friends who i can hang out and have fun with. how do i become friends with the popular girls at school? where do i start? how do i make a conversation with any of them when i'm not even friends with them? any tips on becoming friends with them. i really need and want to become friends with them. help me outTeens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
dont talk **** about anyone ever and wear a tube topTeens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
this will happen by the time!! Take it easy! You cant plan the TOMORROW!
Just be your real;self and make lots of friends, Friend will lead you to another friend and the new friend to someone else...and then you will get a gf too!!!
You are just excited cuz your young age
The popular girls youre on about are the stuck up sluts who tbh, no one likes.
Okay, I will give you the advice I was given for this situation.
';They're all people just like you. You are not superior nor inferior, so just suck it up, you're beautiful, and just talk to them.';
Also; the more people you know, the more YOU'RE known. So keep talking to people. Wear colorful, different outfits that you think are cute. Don't give a damn about anyone else.
The rest is luck.
Have fun, I believe in ya (:
popular high school girls are always really slutty so find some guys to sleep with, wear a ton of makeup, buy jeans that cost you an arm and a leg because they're covered in holes and worn out and only buy clothes brands that start with an A or H (american eagle, hollister, ambercrombie, etc.) once you do make friends, make sure to always have something nasty to say about them so you can gossip about them to others as soon as they leave the room, don't forget to attend any parties that involve booze, and make sure you have a texting phone and use it all the time during school, regardless of school policy about phones.
If you're not friends with many of them, it's going to be a tough job, but it'll happen. Yes, you just have to be yourself. That's the number 1 key. But let me explain something to you: Popular girls have their own little cliques, and there are different types of popular out there; there are 'goths', preps, plain jane's, athletics, nerds, and the over achievers. What is your true self? Which category do you fit in with? What category would make you the most happy? What category would make you feel good about yourself and not weird and in the wrong place? You don't want to feel intimidated, do you? You want to be happy, don't you? Good luck.
to start a conversation: give them a compliment such as: ';i love your shoes! where did you get them?'; then start talking about something related to that, but make sure the topic is interesting. popular girls LOVE to be complimented. to be known and popular, make sure u look ur best. i know ppl say looks dont matter, but they're a big part of giving good 1st impressions. u also need to be tell funny, witty jokes and (when needed) give quick funny comebacks.
Don't EVER suck up to anyone No matter how Popular they might be at school because that's Not what Friendship's are based on, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls might seem really cool and make you feel like you belong, but if your sucking up to them and hanging out with them just because of their cool status then that sadly will make you as fake as them!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself, don't be something or somebody your not, if not into boys and makeup and wearing the latest designer shoes then your not going to fit in with this particular group of people.
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, don't hang out with people that you have nothing in common with.
I didn't hang out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with and I could be myself and didn't have to worry about the clothes that I wore and these people are still my friends to this very day.
to be honest, that's the worst thing to do. Become friends with the popular people.
I remember I was popular, and to be honest, when we all left school. I have not kept with one single person from there who didn't go to my school now. And I saw on Facebook they all hanging around with themselves (i even thought they were my best friends) and none of them ever invited me and it wasn't as if my number changed.
Tbh, I think you feel pretty lonely being popular, you never really have a friend you can confide in. But, I think what you want is a good bunch of friends, so if I was you that's what I'd head to look for.
Let me tell you something about 'popular girls'
They are stuck-up, bitchy and fake. All they will ever care about is themselves and boys.
I have so many in my school, they are just as described, don't try and fit in with them because you'll regret it.
Get real friends, not people that are 'known', they usually end up with no friends in the end.
Why would you want to be 'known' anyway? Everyone will know all of your business.
You don't need to be friends with them at all, you just want to. Trust me, don't get involved with girls like that.
Have seen the film 'Mean Girls'? watch it and see what they're like.
Please use this advice, they are not worth it, find decent friends! x
suck up to anyone No matter how un popular they might be at school, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls is really cool and makes you feel like you belong, but if your sucking thing,make sure its not their boyfriends!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself,or be something or somebody your not, get into boys and let them get into you!
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, try drugs and group sex
I hung out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with because they would lend me money and these people are still looking for me to this very day.
dont talk **** about anyone ever and wear a tube topTeens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
this will happen by the time!! Take it easy! You cant plan the TOMORROW!
Just be your real;self and make lots of friends, Friend will lead you to another friend and the new friend to someone else...and then you will get a gf too!!!
You are just excited cuz your young age
The popular girls youre on about are the stuck up sluts who tbh, no one likes.
Okay, I will give you the advice I was given for this situation.
';They're all people just like you. You are not superior nor inferior, so just suck it up, you're beautiful, and just talk to them.';
Also; the more people you know, the more YOU'RE known. So keep talking to people. Wear colorful, different outfits that you think are cute. Don't give a damn about anyone else.
The rest is luck.
Have fun, I believe in ya (:
popular high school girls are always really slutty so find some guys to sleep with, wear a ton of makeup, buy jeans that cost you an arm and a leg because they're covered in holes and worn out and only buy clothes brands that start with an A or H (american eagle, hollister, ambercrombie, etc.) once you do make friends, make sure to always have something nasty to say about them so you can gossip about them to others as soon as they leave the room, don't forget to attend any parties that involve booze, and make sure you have a texting phone and use it all the time during school, regardless of school policy about phones.
If you're not friends with many of them, it's going to be a tough job, but it'll happen. Yes, you just have to be yourself. That's the number 1 key. But let me explain something to you: Popular girls have their own little cliques, and there are different types of popular out there; there are 'goths', preps, plain jane's, athletics, nerds, and the over achievers. What is your true self? Which category do you fit in with? What category would make you the most happy? What category would make you feel good about yourself and not weird and in the wrong place? You don't want to feel intimidated, do you? You want to be happy, don't you? Good luck.
to start a conversation: give them a compliment such as: ';i love your shoes! where did you get them?'; then start talking about something related to that, but make sure the topic is interesting. popular girls LOVE to be complimented. to be known and popular, make sure u look ur best. i know ppl say looks dont matter, but they're a big part of giving good 1st impressions. u also need to be tell funny, witty jokes and (when needed) give quick funny comebacks.
Don't EVER suck up to anyone No matter how Popular they might be at school because that's Not what Friendship's are based on, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls might seem really cool and make you feel like you belong, but if your sucking up to them and hanging out with them just because of their cool status then that sadly will make you as fake as them!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself, don't be something or somebody your not, if not into boys and makeup and wearing the latest designer shoes then your not going to fit in with this particular group of people.
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, don't hang out with people that you have nothing in common with.
I didn't hang out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with and I could be myself and didn't have to worry about the clothes that I wore and these people are still my friends to this very day.
to be honest, that's the worst thing to do. Become friends with the popular people.
I remember I was popular, and to be honest, when we all left school. I have not kept with one single person from there who didn't go to my school now. And I saw on Facebook they all hanging around with themselves (i even thought they were my best friends) and none of them ever invited me and it wasn't as if my number changed.
Tbh, I think you feel pretty lonely being popular, you never really have a friend you can confide in. But, I think what you want is a good bunch of friends, so if I was you that's what I'd head to look for.
Let me tell you something about 'popular girls'
They are stuck-up, bitchy and fake. All they will ever care about is themselves and boys.
I have so many in my school, they are just as described, don't try and fit in with them because you'll regret it.
Get real friends, not people that are 'known', they usually end up with no friends in the end.
Why would you want to be 'known' anyway? Everyone will know all of your business.
You don't need to be friends with them at all, you just want to. Trust me, don't get involved with girls like that.
Have seen the film 'Mean Girls'? watch it and see what they're like.
Please use this advice, they are not worth it, find decent friends! x
suck up to anyone No matter how un popular they might be at school, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls is really cool and makes you feel like you belong, but if your sucking thing,make sure its not their boyfriends!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself,or be something or somebody your not, get into boys and let them get into you!
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, try drugs and group sex
I hung out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with because they would lend me money and these people are still looking for me to this very day.
Teens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
Hey people. Im looking forward to making new friends. i want to be known and popular. i want to have a bunch of friends who i can hang out and have fun with. how do i become friends with the popular girls at school? where do i start? how do i make a conversation with any of them when i'm not even friends with them? any tips on becoming friends with them. i really need and want to become friends with them. help me outTeens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
dont talk **** about anyone ever and wear a tube topTeens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
this will happen by the time!! Take it easy! You cant plan the TOMORROW!
Just be your real;self and make lots of friends, Friend will lead you to another friend and the new friend to someone else...and then you will get a gf too!!!
You are just excited cuz your young age
The popular girls youre on about are the stuck up sluts who tbh, no one likes.
Okay, I will give you the advice I was given for this situation.
';They're all people just like you. You are not superior nor inferior, so just suck it up, you're beautiful, and just talk to them.';
Also; the more people you know, the more YOU'RE known. So keep talking to people. Wear colorful, different outfits that you think are cute. Don't give a damn about anyone else.
The rest is luck.
Have fun, I believe in ya (:
popular high school girls are always really slutty so find some guys to sleep with, wear a ton of makeup, buy jeans that cost you an arm and a leg because they're covered in holes and worn out and only buy clothes brands that start with an A or H (american eagle, hollister, ambercrombie, etc.) once you do make friends, make sure to always have something nasty to say about them so you can gossip about them to others as soon as they leave the room, don't forget to attend any parties that involve booze, and make sure you have a texting phone and use it all the time during school, regardless of school policy about phones.
If you're not friends with many of them, it's going to be a tough job, but it'll happen. Yes, you just have to be yourself. That's the number 1 key. But let me explain something to you: Popular girls have their own little cliques, and there are different types of popular out there; there are 'goths', preps, plain jane's, athletics, nerds, and the over achievers. What is your true self? Which category do you fit in with? What category would make you the most happy? What category would make you feel good about yourself and not weird and in the wrong place? You don't want to feel intimidated, do you? You want to be happy, don't you? Good luck.
to start a conversation: give them a compliment such as: ';i love your shoes! where did you get them?'; then start talking about something related to that, but make sure the topic is interesting. popular girls LOVE to be complimented. to be known and popular, make sure u look ur best. i know ppl say looks dont matter, but they're a big part of giving good 1st impressions. u also need to be tell funny, witty jokes and (when needed) give quick funny comebacks.
Don't EVER suck up to anyone No matter how Popular they might be at school because that's Not what Friendship's are based on, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls might seem really cool and make you feel like you belong, but if your sucking up to them and hanging out with them just because of their cool status then that sadly will make you as fake as them!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself, don't be something or somebody your not, if not into boys and makeup and wearing the latest designer shoes then your not going to fit in with this particular group of people.
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, don't hang out with people that you have nothing in common with.
I didn't hang out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with and I could be myself and didn't have to worry about the clothes that I wore and these people are still my friends to this very day.
to be honest, that's the worst thing to do. Become friends with the popular people.
I remember I was popular, and to be honest, when we all left school. I have not kept with one single person from there who didn't go to my school now. And I saw on Facebook they all hanging around with themselves (i even thought they were my best friends) and none of them ever invited me and it wasn't as if my number changed.
Tbh, I think you feel pretty lonely being popular, you never really have a friend you can confide in. But, I think what you want is a good bunch of friends, so if I was you that's what I'd head to look for.
Let me tell you something about 'popular girls'
They are stuck-up, bitchy and fake. All they will ever care about is themselves and boys.
I have so many in my school, they are just as described, don't try and fit in with them because you'll regret it.
Get real friends, not people that are 'known', they usually end up with no friends in the end.
Why would you want to be 'known' anyway? Everyone will know all of your business.
You don't need to be friends with them at all, you just want to. Trust me, don't get involved with girls like that.
Have seen the film 'Mean Girls'? watch it and see what they're like.
Please use this advice, they are not worth it, find decent friends! x
suck up to anyone No matter how un popular they might be at school, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls is really cool and makes you feel like you belong, but if your sucking thing,make sure its not their boyfriends!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself,or be something or somebody your not, get into boys and let them get into you!
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, try drugs and group sex
I hung out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with because they would lend me money and these people are still looking for me to this very day.anti virus loan
dont talk **** about anyone ever and wear a tube topTeens. How do i become friends with the popular girls at school?
this will happen by the time!! Take it easy! You cant plan the TOMORROW!
Just be your real;self and make lots of friends, Friend will lead you to another friend and the new friend to someone else...and then you will get a gf too!!!
You are just excited cuz your young age
The popular girls youre on about are the stuck up sluts who tbh, no one likes.
Okay, I will give you the advice I was given for this situation.
';They're all people just like you. You are not superior nor inferior, so just suck it up, you're beautiful, and just talk to them.';
Also; the more people you know, the more YOU'RE known. So keep talking to people. Wear colorful, different outfits that you think are cute. Don't give a damn about anyone else.
The rest is luck.
Have fun, I believe in ya (:
popular high school girls are always really slutty so find some guys to sleep with, wear a ton of makeup, buy jeans that cost you an arm and a leg because they're covered in holes and worn out and only buy clothes brands that start with an A or H (american eagle, hollister, ambercrombie, etc.) once you do make friends, make sure to always have something nasty to say about them so you can gossip about them to others as soon as they leave the room, don't forget to attend any parties that involve booze, and make sure you have a texting phone and use it all the time during school, regardless of school policy about phones.
If you're not friends with many of them, it's going to be a tough job, but it'll happen. Yes, you just have to be yourself. That's the number 1 key. But let me explain something to you: Popular girls have their own little cliques, and there are different types of popular out there; there are 'goths', preps, plain jane's, athletics, nerds, and the over achievers. What is your true self? Which category do you fit in with? What category would make you the most happy? What category would make you feel good about yourself and not weird and in the wrong place? You don't want to feel intimidated, do you? You want to be happy, don't you? Good luck.
to start a conversation: give them a compliment such as: ';i love your shoes! where did you get them?'; then start talking about something related to that, but make sure the topic is interesting. popular girls LOVE to be complimented. to be known and popular, make sure u look ur best. i know ppl say looks dont matter, but they're a big part of giving good 1st impressions. u also need to be tell funny, witty jokes and (when needed) give quick funny comebacks.
Don't EVER suck up to anyone No matter how Popular they might be at school because that's Not what Friendship's are based on, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls might seem really cool and make you feel like you belong, but if your sucking up to them and hanging out with them just because of their cool status then that sadly will make you as fake as them!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself, don't be something or somebody your not, if not into boys and makeup and wearing the latest designer shoes then your not going to fit in with this particular group of people.
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, don't hang out with people that you have nothing in common with.
I didn't hang out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with and I could be myself and didn't have to worry about the clothes that I wore and these people are still my friends to this very day.
to be honest, that's the worst thing to do. Become friends with the popular people.
I remember I was popular, and to be honest, when we all left school. I have not kept with one single person from there who didn't go to my school now. And I saw on Facebook they all hanging around with themselves (i even thought they were my best friends) and none of them ever invited me and it wasn't as if my number changed.
Tbh, I think you feel pretty lonely being popular, you never really have a friend you can confide in. But, I think what you want is a good bunch of friends, so if I was you that's what I'd head to look for.
Let me tell you something about 'popular girls'
They are stuck-up, bitchy and fake. All they will ever care about is themselves and boys.
I have so many in my school, they are just as described, don't try and fit in with them because you'll regret it.
Get real friends, not people that are 'known', they usually end up with no friends in the end.
Why would you want to be 'known' anyway? Everyone will know all of your business.
You don't need to be friends with them at all, you just want to. Trust me, don't get involved with girls like that.
Have seen the film 'Mean Girls'? watch it and see what they're like.
Please use this advice, they are not worth it, find decent friends! x
suck up to anyone No matter how un popular they might be at school, hanging out with the ';Popular'; girls is really cool and makes you feel like you belong, but if your sucking thing,make sure its not their boyfriends!
If you really want to make friends then be yourself,or be something or somebody your not, get into boys and let them get into you!
You need to find people who you have some common ground with, who like the same kind of things that you do, try drugs and group sex
I hung out with the popular kids at school simply because I couldn't stand them, i hung out with people who I could interact with because they would lend me money and these people are still looking for me to this very day.
How to become better friends with this girl?
I asked a girl out in one of my college classes and i dont know if they were dates, or if we were just getting to know each other better, because we met a month ago.
(we went ice skating and out to eat)
But anyways i was talking to her and i asked if she wanted to hang out, and she said yea as friends. So i said thats fine.
I like her, shes a nice person, and i would like to become better friends and hang out more, so how would i tell her that?
I also don't really have any close friends that are girls, so it would be nice to have one.How to become better friends with this girl?
just be with her.and leave space for her too.How to become better friends with this girl?
don't tell her you want to be better friends, she'll get the wrong idea and cut you out.
(we went ice skating and out to eat)
But anyways i was talking to her and i asked if she wanted to hang out, and she said yea as friends. So i said thats fine.
I like her, shes a nice person, and i would like to become better friends and hang out more, so how would i tell her that?
I also don't really have any close friends that are girls, so it would be nice to have one.How to become better friends with this girl?
just be with her.and leave space for her too.How to become better friends with this girl?
don't tell her you want to be better friends, she'll get the wrong idea and cut you out.
Hey girls im going to be in college soon what can i do to become friends with girls in college plz help?
so anyway im going to be finishing high school soon and when i go to college i wanna meet some new friends but i was quiet alot in high school ive talked alot more since my freshmen year but i wanna become friends with girls in college how can i do that do i need to join a club or something wat r the names of some and girls say i am actually cute and hot does that help wat can i do to make more friends that r girls give me all ur ideas plz helpHey girls im going to be in college soon what can i do to become friends with girls in college plz help?
Join a fraternity, you will meet lots of girlsHey girls im going to be in college soon what can i do to become friends with girls in college plz help?
if there is a sexy forigne girl then ask if she can teach you her language...gets in her house? haha
and watch out, if one girl drops a book hurry and pick it up and seceretly put a note in the book with your number and you want to go out
Join a fraternity, you will meet lots of girlsHey girls im going to be in college soon what can i do to become friends with girls in college plz help?
if there is a sexy forigne girl then ask if she can teach you her language...gets in her house? haha
and watch out, if one girl drops a book hurry and pick it up and seceretly put a note in the book with your number and you want to go out
How do I become friends with the popular girl?
So there is this popular girl at my school and I want to be friends with her. I try to talk to her my hardest without seeming like a werido. This thing happend with this guy, and she thought I was gonna ask him out and he was sort of popular but she got me mixed up with another girl whos name is really similar to mine. I talked to the guy and he said it wasnt me(its complicated) and I was soo embarressed but now she acts like she totally forgot. I try to ask if she needs help with assinments but sometimes when I do I feel like I am the kid that does all the work and people copy off of them. She has other friends so she is always talking to them so there is no time where she is alone and I can talk to her.
WHat are some ways I can be her friend, and please dont say stuff like dont be her friend.How do I become friends with the popular girl?
last year I was sooo shy!
I never talked to any of the popular girls.
even if they ask me a question
but this year i'm starting to open up a little
the trick is..
be nice, share, and talk to her more!!
open up to her
and before you know it you'll be friends
Treat her like you would want to be treatedHow do I become friends with the popular girl?
make yourself the center of attention.
Stay with your friends, there real
Just cause she is popular dosen't mean you hav to be friends with her
who cares if she popular
STAY TRUE to your friends now
WHat are some ways I can be her friend, and please dont say stuff like dont be her friend.How do I become friends with the popular girl?
last year I was sooo shy!
I never talked to any of the popular girls.
even if they ask me a question
but this year i'm starting to open up a little
the trick is..
be nice, share, and talk to her more!!
open up to her
and before you know it you'll be friends
Treat her like you would want to be treatedHow do I become friends with the popular girl?
make yourself the center of attention.
Stay with your friends, there real
Just cause she is popular dosen't mean you hav to be friends with her
who cares if she popular
STAY TRUE to your friends now
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