Friday, November 19, 2010

I have become friends with a girl and don't know whether she just wants to be friends or not, any advice?

we've known each other for a good few years, and we kissed years ago, but then she got a boyfriend, she split up with him about half a year ago, and since then she instigated that we should do stuff over summer, and we've been out for the day, gone bowling, to the cinema, and ive been round to her house, but i just dont know how to broach the subject of going on a proper date, and cant work out whether she wants anything more or not as we both keep going on about people who have been texting us recently, we have a really good laugh when we're out, i was thinking of just saying to her that i think we should try out a date because we both haven't been on one in a while and just see how it goes, i have begun to grow feelings for her, but i havent really had a solid girlfriend before so i always find it hard to open upI have become friends with a girl and don't know whether she just wants to be friends or not, any advice?
Hmm. To be honest i'd just kinda bite the bullet and ask her. Or text her if you're shy. I'm a girl and my guy friend liked me and i knew it, but i didn't like him in that way but i couldn't reject him. At one point he held my hand and i just let him! So she COULD be giving you mixed signals. He ended up texting me, asking me if i felt like that for him and i told him no, i think we both felt better not doing it face to face. Anyway, we're good friends now and have been for about 2 years. So either way, it should work out for you two. You never know, she might actually say yes =D

I know my situation is a little different, but it's kinda the same thing. Hope this helps a bitI have become friends with a girl and don't know whether she just wants to be friends or not, any advice?
There is no harm in trying out a date if you are interested in her %26amp; maybe she is into you too . From what you wrote , it sounds like ya'll have fun together . %26amp; even if a date doesn't work out ya'll can just continue to be friends .

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