How do i become friends again with this girl?

Hi, I used to hang out with a group of girls. They were really good friends and i had a crush on one of em. She's pretty and talkative, but they arent very outgoing and VERY quiet sometimes. I'm pretty much friends with all the school, except the younger kids. When other people come up and sit at our table at lunch, her and all of her friends like shut up and never talk. I told her i liked her, and we continued to be friends, but over a month things started to just go downhill. I changed alot, but it wasn't a big deal, i just hung out with different people more at the mall to shop and stuff, and they didnt like that. I talked to my friend and he told me that the friendship got messed when i told her that i liked her and things just became awkward. I wasn't making it awkward, SHE was, all quiet and stuff and i didnt know what was wrong. On my facebook honesty box i get messages saying ';oh i miss you. you changed so much and your not you anymore i miss you so much.. :(';



But I think this is Bullspit, because she doesn't even attempt to talk to me.



What do i do?How do i become friends again with this girl?
Well, I actually know exactly what she's going through so I'll give you my little situation, and what I thought. Maybe it will offer you some insight on what she might be thinking.



I dated this guy and we broke up and didn't talk for awhile. Before, I could tell him everything, and he wouldn't judge me, and he was an upbeat type person. Then we started talking again, and he totally changed, i felt like i couldn't tell him anything without being judged, he was just boring and tired all the time. so I started avoiding him because i didn't want to be around him when he was like that.



you may not think you changed that much, but she obviously notices, and maybe she doesn't like the person you've turned into and that's why she's avoiding you. try talking to her and ask her what she liked about you that you aren't now. if you changed, maybe you can keep some changes, and change other things back. compromise :) hope i helped.How do i become friends again with this girl?
She's too shy to talk to you about it in person. You should pull her aside, JUST the two of you and talk everything over. She'll feel more comfortable if it's just you. Get some alone time.



Quiet girls are very thoughtful, and girls in general are all over-analytical. So explain to her the exact situation you are in.
A good ol nice talk would do the trick, I think being expressive doesn't just it beat all? Learn to approach a girl in different situations, try to get her attention, spend time with her if possible.
aww. well im a little confused. but I think you should show HER this story.
well if she felt the same about you great, all you have to do is find a quiet place and dont rush into things

go slow when you start and be calm if she dosent agree with something you said.

love is a precious thing at a young age.

i would know.
The girl is shy,



try making her more comfortable and she will talk just like how a newborn bird sings.



Peace
hunny you need to talk to her and her only its the only way to get the 100% true answer i know it could be hard but you want to know and if she don't talk then tell her she needs to Speak up kinda be aggressive but nice all at the same time im makes her think you care to know what she has to say and that you still like her. but if she wants to be friends is all good
If she is still sending you messages it sounds like she wants to talk to you. Maybe you should try and see if she would go out to lunch sometime so that you and her can talk about it. That way it is just the two of you. If she agrees to this explain to her why you told her that you like her and why you hang out with other people. It is a free world and you can hang out with whom ever you choose.
Hey ask her to go with u for a walk so you can talk and then ask: '' .what is the problem? You say that things are getting awkward and everything but you are the one who is making it awkward.You are always quiet and never talk much at all and then on face book u leave me those comments? look, i dont want to sound as if i dont want to be friends with you, or sound mean, but i just want u to talk to me ''

or its maybe because she misses the old u, and u might think that you havent changed a lot but she might feel that there is a big difference
well at school try and talk to her or ask one of her friends to talk to her. but if i were u i would try complimenting her. saying how that shirt really brings out her eyes today. girls always love that, trust me. then try going back to the way it use to be. hang out with only her and her friends and when ever u see her say hey whats up or hows it going. get her number and call her and just get talking bout things. i hope this helps you.
seems your nice and friendly , you never did anything wrong mainly her that she stopped talking to you, in this situation she should talk to you she should be after you even if it's just for being friends, but if you really like her well just try talking to her again if she acts the same quiet and separating from you just let it go ,theirs a lot more girls who will follow your lead, dont degrade yourself begging her .....
you like this girl and you distanced yourself with her by going out with other friends.



if you like her spend sometime with her.talk to her.be with her.yes she was silent but she didnt move away, you moved away.



theres still time go and get her.goodluck
ur friend was wrong about how ur friendship with this girl got messed up when u told her u liked her. ur friendship with her got messed up when u started hanging out with other people cause that tells her that u don't want to be around her any more so she separated herself from u . I don't think u 2 could ever be friends again to tell the truth