Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How do I become friends with a girl without seeming like a weirdo?

I like this girl in my school and the only time we really see each other is during passing period. In the morning, I know that she sometimes goes in a classroom and I know the teacher so I can possibly go in there. I want to get to know her and be friends but like I said, I only see her during passing period meaning we just happen to go on opposite directions going to our class. I can't really go up to her during passing period and say ';HI!';, that'd be too weird I think and even if it isn't i'm too shy to do something like that out of nowhere. =\



And no, I do not know where she hangs out during lunch.How do I become friends with a girl without seeming like a weirdo?
Do you have any interests you know that you two share? You could try talking about that as a first thing.



An even better idea is to ask her a question about something, then turn it into a conversation.



e.g. ';Do you know how to do this problem on this assignment?';How do I become friends with a girl without seeming like a weirdo?
well theres another way get one of your friends that know her and start making some new friends and just be yourself and thats it
When you see her and she's alone try approaching her %26amp; telling her you have a crush on her. Don't come on too strong though because then you'll just push her away. Tell her you've noticed her %26amp; you think she's pretty and you'd like to get to know her. And don't worry aout being shy, a lot of girls think it's cute.
';Accidently'; bump into her where she drops her stuff and help her pick her stuff up. Say your sorry (of course) and than start a conversation somehow, like looking at one of her books and comment on it. Or find her on fb or myspace (or whatever popular site you have) and add her (idk, alot of ppl add others they don't know on places like that). If she accepts your information nonchalantly talk to her asking something about classes and if she has the work because you forgot it. Sooner or later the nonchalant talk will turn otherwise not nonchalant and you will be friends and hopefully going out. Sorry, thats really all I know, I know how it is being shy and not talking to someone because well your too shy to so good luck!
I don't think it would be weird if you just said ';Hi!'; I understand that your shy but if you just pass by and say ';Hi'; everyday she will notice you.
Exactly, how do you? Try stalking her, and find where she lives. Then go up to her front door and ask her if she wants to donate money to help sick kids, then be like

You: hey I walk pass you sometimes don't I?

her: (awkward silence) ... ah yeah, what this?

you: i work for a charity that helps sick kids.

her: thats so sweet! do you want a *******

you: wouldn't mind one

(then she will give you one on her doorstep)



How's that for helpful advice?

Jokes man, I've got the exact same problem, with a chick I do like, I'm already screwing around with a couple of skanks, but it means nothing. When I actually find a girl I like --- it's like your just lost for words. Try becoming friends with one of her friends, or I don't know really. Don't try to impress her (my most common mistake), just act casual, be yourself; and don't give a **** about insecurities --- you're mind tries to trick you with that. And don't insult her. Just be nice.

****** **** advice I know/ and it's hipacritical. But man was made to communicate to wwomen; now do what you were destined to do!
haha dont make it wierd! but make it cute and flirty! when you know you are gonna walk by her in the hall way ';accidently'; bump into her and look at her and say ';oh im sorry, and i didnt quit catchh your name.'; this will lead into a convo and nw you guys have offically met. so now in the halls when you see her you can say ';hi (her name).'; without making it wierd.



good luck!

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