How to become closer friends with a girl?

i have a friend thats a girl that id want to have a closer relationship with but stay friends. id like to be someone she can come and talk to about anything and who she trusts to tell her deepest secrets. i love being around her, theres never a dull moment when imwith her. we can talk for hours and never get board. i feel most comftorable when im around her but i just dont know how to become closer than wat we r now. how would i go about this?How to become closer friends with a girl?
Simply start having more intimate kinds of talk. That is, if you open up to her, talk about your feelings about something, she麓ll probably feel comfortable and do the same. Are you sure you just wanna be friends with her?How to become closer friends with a girl?
Ask her to be your friend DOOOSH!!!!!!
'; Where there is a will , there is a way.';

Don't let this one get away.

I am sure she feels the same way!!
Just be yourself and pretend you're talking to one of your guy friends. Watch the subject though - she probably won't wanna hear about some girl you just scoped out in the hallway...
continue with exactly what you're doing. be her best friend and she will fall in love with you. you're building a foundation already.
Ask to hang out with her. And tell her something personal that way she knows it is ok to open up to you. And something truthful because eventually she will find out whether or not you are lying.

Who knows, you might like her more than a friend later on.
Don't forget to shower her with gifts and money. Seen many a men do that for nothing. LOL
call her up sometime and ask if she wants to go out sometime. if she says no, then you'll still remain friends (unless ur like really creepy and stalker-ish about it), and if she says yeah, yippy-skippy u got a girl. I know what ur goin thru man. the only way to become closer is to make an effort. Light a candle instead of cursing the darkness.
well, i had a similar situation, and as an example she was in a play, and it made her happy to know that i cared enough just to go. i didnt get ehr flowers, i just told her that she was great, and every once in a while ( it was true ) i would compliment on her hair, clothes, and the best thing is just to be there for her.



your not going to be a really special friend overnight, it takes time, commitment, and you actually caring.



-be there

-be nice

-compliments

-dont obsess!!!



good luck!
There is not much to worry about.

Based on what you tell me here, it seems like you two are already getting closer as friends.

Continue to be open and willing to listen to her about anything she has to say (Both good and bad)

And once she does the same when you are in need, that's when you two become real friends for life.
How about writing to her what you wrote here?
That's a tough one, because it sounds like there may be a love connection there. I have been dating my best friend of ten years for two years now. We did not even realize our love for each other until that time. But, if you just want to remain friends, I don't see how you can get any closer without actually being an item. Sometimes it is meant to be. And it will be scary because I remember thinking, Will this ruin our relationship as 'just friends'?

You could always just step up to the plate, palms sweating, and tell her exactly what you have just told us. Have an actual conversation about it and if she reacts indifferently than you gave it your best shot. Seems like you two are really close and maybe a little push on your part, (or asking around secretively perhaps) will do the trick. But as long as you can be there for her and a good friend, than i am sure she loves you for it. Even if just as a friend.
Well Bill, Im glad you asked. Some people have responed ';ask her to be friends...douche.'; Maybe they're idiots or maybe I'm just a drunk Marine but I don't think that's what you were asking. You are friends but you wanna be closer friends. Simple keep things original. I've gone through friends like roles of toilet paper since I joined the Marine Corps. The biggest things a time issue. People wanna feel like they're a priority which obveously someone like me can't provide right now. Another thing is originality. People are eventually going to get tired of the same thing over and over, so if you sit there at the same God damn coffee shop day after day drinking the same cup of java you better come up with something before someone gets bored. Or if I didn't read right and you just wanna get laid, put out or get out buddy. I heard that from 91210 and it's bloddy true. Well I've written way more than my drunk self intended. I gotta stop now.
well, if u have this kind of friendship with her, then you are very lucky. I have few guy friends like that %26amp; i treasure their friendship. The most important thing in such a relationship is that u come out with it %26amp; tell her that it's only a friendship you have in mind. (at least at present). Then she would not waste time wondering what u r getting at or causioning herself from being open wit u thinking she might give u the wrong idea.



Convey the Message to her that u r an open minded person who can have %26amp; maintain a relationship as a friendship with the opposite sex.



Always remember that when that special someone walks into her life/ur life, things will change with ur friendship. Both should understand that they have to make room for that person; which means, u will have lesser time for each other. But if ur friendship is sound %26amp; solid, it'll continue no matter how lesser contacts u'll have.



Also if u or she is married/engaged/commited let that other person also know that u two share only a deep friendship and introduce them to your friendship too. (this could save you from lots of trouble/misunderstandings)



By the way, my rule for a good relationship is; ';give 70% to the r'ship %26amp; expect 30% from her/him';. When both practise this; both work lot towards the r'ship and expects less. Hence always satisfied!!



PS

Foremost ask urself whether u only want a friendship with her `coz u sound as if you've met ur soulmate!! :) GOOD LUCK