Its this new girl i just saw at my school. I was told to go to the office so i went. I wasnt in trouble but just to give in a form until i saw this girl sitting. She looked amazing. However, i just got the feeling to be friends with her. I didnt want her as my girlfriend so i dont break her heart. JUst want to be close friends. What should i say to her. What do i do when i see her again. Help me..plz?How do i become friends with this girl?
Just say ';hey, how are ya?'; If you sound friendly she'll be more likely to see you as such.
Then you might feel free to ask if she's new (even if it's obvious to you.. still an ice breaker), ask if she just changed school or moved to the area. If she moved, then you can proceed ask where she's from and how she likes her new town.
Then perhaps your parting comments could be to just mention that if she needs any answers or advice with school or just the area, being new, feel free to ask ya.How do i become friends with this girl?
Interesting....... just don't come off in a i have a crush on you kinda guy, be casual.
You'll probably gonna develop a crush on her later on, soo dont get too deep into the friend zone cus its impossible to get out of once your too deep.
Start a convo but don't be weird. Do basic stuff like ';Whats your name';, ';where are you from?';, ';how do you like school?';, ';play any sports?'; and start from there. And dont laugh unless something is seriously funny. And smile and don't say cool more then twice in your whole conversation. Use synonyms like ';aweseome';, ';sweet';, ';nice';, ';amazing';, ';beast'; things that dont kind of undermind someone like cool does. If your convo was like this:
You: Hey!
Her: Hi
You: I'm ______
Her: I'm ______
You: Cool
Her: *smile*
You: Where are you from?
Her. __________
You: Cool
Her: *smiles*
You: Play any sports?
Her: Yup
You: Cool. Which ones?
Her: basketball
You: Cool
Her: *straight face*
she'll get annoyed after you say cool too many times\
xoxo
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, tough my friend, real tough, my best advice is to try to find something that she likes that you also like, take observations from her shirt, backpack, whatever that can give you info, then you walk up and say, I see your a fan of so and so, and hopefully that starts a good conversation. But try just saying Hi when you pass her, and maybe a compliment, like Love the shoes, or shirt or whatever, and go from there. Just say, hey maybe you would like to hang out sometime, as friends? She may be a quiet person and may take a little time to warm up to. Hope it goes well.
Just be yourself and be friendly. Ask her where she moved from or how she likes it there. The best thing to do is make the effort.
ask her to be your friend.
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