Friday, November 19, 2010

How can I become friends with girls in high school? PLZ HELP?

I'm currently a Senior I have plenty of friends but close to none are girls. I consider myself a good looking person I just honestly for some reason have never been friends with girls. I'm really into sports so I always feel like there is nothing in common. I really just want to become friends with girls at this point they don't even need to be dating material. I'm in groups/ partners all the time with different girls. What can I say/do to become friends with these girls. I want to get to the talking just because were friends and texting/ hanging out level.How can I become friends with girls in high school? PLZ HELP?
well, when u see one walking down the hall that u would her to be ur friend, just go up to her and start making small talk while walking. at first it will feel weird and she may think it's a bit weird also, but as time goes on in the year, ppl will know that u do that, and they will not think it's weird anymore. also, it will become more like 2nd nature to u being friendly to girls in that way. they may even think it's kinda cute that u go up to them and try to make small talk.How can I become friends with girls in high school? PLZ HELP?
Check out the girls in your class, and if there's one that you like, ask her to have lunch with you. That's a beginning. See where it takes you!
you can start off by saying hi to some girls and and just starting a plan conversaion with them and then eventally get thier phone number so you can text them or call them.
just be out going and find a girl who likes what you do. someone that you can be you with.
You HAVE to be flirty. Compliment girls on their looks. Not ugly or fat ones because then they'll be all over you, and make you look bad.
Well first find someone you are somewhat interested in. I would start by getting to know them by sitting together at lunch, or making small talk in the hallway. Remember if you don't click, you don't click.
act normal and dont say silly jokes are try to beg people
Try to be funny, but don't push it. Girls love funny guys. And just be nice, pick things they'd like to talk about. Trust me, almost no girl really likes sports. Just notice the little things, like if they got a haircut, comment nicely on it. The little things that you say and do make a huuuge difference.
Talk. Its as sinple as that. Talk to them, ask to hang out, maybe ask for their number. You will see a result if you actively step up and start to talk to them, good luck :)
well you know alot of girls play sports to so you can maybe sit at the girls soccer teams table at lunch or something...and once you find a girl that you like or connect with then you will always be able to find things to talk about
Be funny. Girls that age love to laugh - the cool/friendly ones anyway. I know it's cliche but be friendly but not toooo dorky friendly i.e. being always available and too eager. Be yourself! Girls can always tell when a guy is being fake too, it's really uncool/unattractive. And most girls will be friends with you if they want to date you. So maybe you should work on becoming dating material then you'll have friends AND a girlfriend (unless you're homosexual in that case come out of the closet and girls will totally want to be your friend because of that).
ok i think you should try to find girls at your school who play sports so at least you have something to talk about. How was your game etc. The best thing to do is be yourself say things to make them laugh and smile. when your talking be sure to stay out the friend zone in your conversation but don't be pushy and aggravate her either.
If you're as good looking as you say, then i disagree with complimenting. That would lead to pointing love arrows. Stick with small talk and humor.
Ok here is some old school advice. Yes I agree that talk and conversation is great but pick (a or the) girl in school that no one talks to. She does not have to be the freak in all black but a girl who is shy and very quiet. Most of the time they are a freshman that is too scared to talk to any one or just is picked on for something really stupid. I don't know your reputation in school but you have to be ready to put it on the line. If you start talking to the one that no one knows about or picks on then that will probaly stop. Girls get jelious/curious over little things. Also talk to the girls that are heavy set and dont think guys will talk to them. By you not judging a book by its cover you might find some really great friendships there. By doing that you make friends with their other girl friends as well. I'm sure all of this sounds crazy but give it a shot if not all of it. Just remember to be a gentleman, and all around great guy and you should do well. Just take the first steps on faith and let your heart guide you the rest of the way. Good Luck

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