Any ideas on how I can become friends with this girl again?

I talked to and almost dated a girl several months ago. Somewhere along the line I offended her as I think I came across too strong. Though we haven't talked for some time now, I don't think it's impossible to be friends again. But the situation is very delicate because if I apologize (again) it makes me sound desperate and redundant but if I just say hi it's like I'm pretending nothing ever happened. So I'm trying to think outside the box on this one.Any ideas on how I can become friends with this girl again?
Just talk to her. No plots or plans. Just talk.Any ideas on how I can become friends with this girl again?
buy her a duck and leave it on her doorstep with a bucket of oatmeal.
Just be like hey whats up.....you dont have to bring it up the first time you talk to her but make sure she knows your sorry and just dont bring it up anymore.

Good LucK!
ur a smart one you know what the females are thinkin

hmmmmmm ask her how everything in her life is goan then after talking for a bit just be like ';hey is everything between us ok now?';

thats way i did and it worked
Depends what you are looking for in this 'friendship'..if you are only looking to just be friends, then don't come off too strong and play it cool. Just start off casual convos and odn't mess up this time!
Ask her if your mad at me i'm sorry if i did something but can we get back together??



-How come you didn't think of that?
ok that's a tough one but tell he that u thought this through and u realized what u have done wrong and u just want to be her friend again because she means alot to u. tell her how u feel. girls like it when u tell them how u feel like just read ur heart like its a book tell her everything no secrets nothing be true to her
You might want to start out by just hanging out in a group. Having other friends around can help ease the awkwardness and make it much easier to talk. Maybe go out bowling or to an all-night diner and just chill with a few friends to break the ice a bit. Then all I can say is be you, be considerate, and treat her like any other of your friends.
apologizing is one of the most powerful things in life, if you can do it without hesitating well in other words, if you are sincere, then it doesnt mean that you're desperate, it means that you ';had the balls'; to do it, and if you do want to become friends with her again, i'm a hundred percent sure that you are sorry for whatever you did. so apologize and believe me, if it's sincere she'll forgive you.
well, if you REALLY offended her i think you would have absolutely no chance. I think that you should just ask her whether or no she wants to be friends again. I know that from personal experience that you have to truly have to talk your feelings out.
Kindness and a genuine apology isn't desperation. If you really want to be her friend and you think you came on too strong than think of it as trying to get out off the dog house. If it really means something to you than kill her with kindness every chance possible. Then she will most likely wonder what is going on and you just lay it on her that you feel bad and you understand that things can't be more than friends, but you would still like to be friends.
When you see her nest just give her a bright, sincere smile and say hi, like you're surprised or whatever. Surely she'll stop and say hi back. And then you can acknowledge you had a past with her, but do it subtly as you said, if it's delicate to you it may still be delicate to her. Just be like wow, it's been a while since we've last talked, how have you been. You'll be able to tell by her body language, expressions and tones if she's interested in being your friend and continuing this conversation. If she is talk for a bit, and then ak her if she'd like to HANGOUT sometime. If she says yes, then you know the two of you have a potential friendship on the horizon. If she says no then, well, you know. Anyways, as time goes on, it make take a while, it may not, you two will warm up to each other again and eventually your past relationship will come up in casual conversation. You should use that opportunity to say how sorry you are it didn't work out for you two because she's so great, but you're very happy the two of you can be friends now. You may also be able to slide in an apology for coming on too strong and possibly offending her. But remember to read her body language, tones, and expressions. They will guide through it all and let you know when it's the right time and when it is not.



Good luck!
find out what she likes and slowly get into more personal questions.Slowly.Slowly.find out what music she likes,that is a great one to talk about,and this makes it easy to go on a first date being (a concert) the people who like heavy metal and hard rock are easy to please because it all sounds the same(i love it though) Thinking of that for hard rockers AC/DC and slipknot are currently on tour with black ice and all hope is gone.Good ones, Although AC/DC is different then their past albums so that one is risky.slipknot however is a go.for country music look simply for bands and soloists she likes. And classical(ditch her that music sucks (: ) i'm kidding look for good soloists. playing a major instrument that she likes helps to.find out interesets and date according to what she likes.Take things SSSSSSSLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOWWWWWW

very important! make sure to show of how much you like her. smile dont act cool (;
welll, i had this EXACT same situation before withh my friend dominickkkkkkkkkkkkk!!



he pissed me off %26amp;%26amp; we didnt talk in forever



then he came up with this huge apology



like

maddie, im reallly sorry for what i've done to you. i've realized these past months that im miserable without you, and you're all i ever wanted.





something liek that.

use those words,. hahahah they work trust me.