How do i become friends with a girl?

There's this girl I like but she doesn't know me. Shes my sisters friend. I would like to ask her out but become friends with her first. How can I do this.



P.S- i am really shy when talking to girlsHow do i become friends with a girl?
Wow, gentlemen still exist. Good for you. Start a conversation. I know you said your shy, so try to have topics and stories that you can talk about when she comes over. Have them prepared. Sometime being prepared can help you overcome your shyness. If there is a party or whatever. Talk about it and invite her.



Learn to relax when you are around her. The more you are relax, the more comfortable she will feel around you. Become comfortable with yourself. Being shy can hinder your success, but being prepared can really help.



Remember, girls are just people. When you get to a point that you realize this, you will feel powerful. I used to be terribly shy. I had to work on it. I did and i conquered it. So I just want to let you know that it is possible. Confidence has to be earned, so do what it is your scared off. If you succeed then you gain that confidence.



Don't get caught up in your head. Don't overanylyze everything. When you talk with her, be in the moment. Don't think about what she may be thinking and focus on her. She'll give you cues to keep the conversation going, so just listen and be observant.



Learn to tell stories, but keep them under two minutes and be entertaining. Make sure you make eye contact. Make eye contact for no longer than five seconds at a time. Any longer will make you look creepy.



I hope this help. Once you overcome your shyness, the world will open up to you. I hope this was helpful.How do i become friends with a girl?
you dont just go up and ask '; hey want to be my friend'; just go up to her and start talking.. there is nothing to be scared of..its not like she is going to cuss you out bc you talked to her..more than likely she will be nice...



but try to talk about something she is doing and then just try to keep a conversation going.



i know your shy been there done that



but once you do it and u see there is nothing to be scared off you will lose your shyness





either girls will think its cute when your shy



or



they will think you are a wimp
well why don't you wait until she comes round your house for a sleepover ETC then when your sister has gone toilet or something, adn she's sat alone on the sofa. start taking to her by 'would you like something to drink?' and hopefully you'll both get into conversation.
pretend she's a guy till she's your friend

then BANG