How can you become friends with a girl whom you have a crush on, without making your intentions obvious?

What should you do, when you want to become friends with a girl you are attracted to, but you don't want to make that fact obvious or create any awkwardness? In particular, when it's a girl who you really don't have any reason to talk to.



Thanks!How can you become friends with a girl whom you have a crush on, without making your intentions obvious?
Why wouldn't you want your intentions to be clear? It's best to be straightforward with a girl. Don't play games, pretending to only be her friend when you want more. It will get really complicated. If you like her, just tell her.How can you become friends with a girl whom you have a crush on, without making your intentions obvious?
Do what I did! If you know her first and last name, go onto facebook or myspace and add her as a friend... most people accept any friend request they get... then next time you are both on, start a chat with her and just be like ';hey';... (what I said was ';hey, ima gonna talk to you cuz I'm bored';) and then talk about something that you both can talk about or ask her how she's doing...



and yes this does work people... I added a guy on facebook, started talking to him out of the blue (he had no idea who I was) and by the end of the 15 minute convo, I knew he lived near me and that we had a few common interests... also we became friends after that 15 min. convo... so don't say it doesn't work...
Ok so I'm a girl. This is what girls think, you need to just talk to her , girls are typically to shy to. Come up to you first. Be funny girls love funny guys, try to leave sports out unless u. Know she likes sports. Ask her if she's wearing perfume. But if you want to be sibtile ask her about school stuff or ask her if she has seen ur homework or to borrow a pencile then start a conversation from there or just start a random conversation with her is the very best way to do it and be funny and get collogne from amercian egos but don't weat to much trust me we LOVE it! Do u think u could help me with my guy prob it's basically the same thing And I can help u more if u want. Just send music_is_musical@yahoo.com a message (ik a stupid email!)
You just do it youll only feel akward because you know you like her and she doesnt but yet your two laughing about something.



And not to make it obvious dont push the flirt button too quick just have some good conversation this will be good because then you can figure out if you really like her.





Hopes this helps

-iChaex
find out what she likes then pretend to like it to. know her favourite book? go buy it and 'read it' just near her enough for her to see it. know her favourite band? just turn your iPod up enough for her to hear it. know her favourite soft drink? just press the ';wrong'; button on the vending machine when she's near it, say ';it gave you the wrong drink'; and offer it to her.
Do some research about her. Her interest/preferences/etc. What she likes/dislikes.



Observe her environment. Watch out for her friends if they're dangerous.



Then be initiative in letting yourself known to her. Get her number email etc etc.



Don't be too nervous. Just feel relax. Don't call or email her too much to make her feel frustrated.



It takes time to let her trust you. So, just go on slowly.
you should probably find out what she likes to do and see if you can spark up a thing with her,maybe a random text to her would wrok too.you could also start to flirt with her a little and usually that turns into a friendship and eventually boyfriend/girlfriend realationship
Classmate? Talk about school.

School friend? Talk about coming vacations.

Acquaintance? Talk about a mutual friend.

Stranger? Ask for the time, and try to continue from there.

Help me with my question also please, and thank you.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgSa32mp0Mcx6ttHlVpt7oPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091116101057AAoiLJk
just start by asking a simple question like do you know what the homework is or can i use a pencil. then u can slowly develop into a conversation or something. if she wants to be friends back, she'll say something to kind of nudge you on.
have your friends introduce you. Get her number and just talk. If you dont run out of things to talk about then your prob gunna end up being together. just make her laugh alot. be sweet. DONT make fun of her and NEVER curse at her. Its a BIG turn off
im only 11 and u probably thnk tht im just a kid who knos nothing but rlly i hav been in a actual relatiopnship before! ok well my advise is to listen to your heart! it will tell u rite thng to do!

good luck!:)
Get to know her first. A girl really loves when they get to know a guy, too see if your really the one for her. You'll know if she likes you if she smiles, twirls her hair, or scratches her arm, or ankle.
Just have real conversations with her. If you are kind of a quirky guy or something do something odd and spontaneous with her for no reason. It'll attract her because you are being different.
that's a mistake if i ever saw one. WHen you like a girl u just have to tell her. Never try to sneak in as a friend. It's 100X harder to get her when shes a friend.
coming from a girls point of view i think you should just act natural

be calm and friendly

just treat her like if she was anyone that you knew and im pretty sure she

will want you

and if she doesnt then her loss
act like she's someone your friends with not for that reason.



when your around her get rid of any thoughts related to you being attracted to her or wanting her so your body language doesn't show it. many girls will still know though.
just give her hugs then kinda call her hun and honey and say thats wat i call all my frends that are girls....then ask her to the movies.....etc...then she'll get feelings from yu
Talk to her like you'd talk to anyone else, don't act shy/scared around her.
When you see her in passing speak then it will be easier to spark conversations