How do I become friends with a girl?

I recently joined this theatre group and I want to meet some of the girls there. I'm kinda chubby, just to let you guys know. What should I say/do to become friends with them. They're kinda snobbish sometimes, you know, the actress type. PLEASE HELP! I'm DESPERATE!How do I become friends with a girl?
Try talking to them. Ask them simple things like ';how's your day going?'; Get some conversation going. Then just slip in some questions here and there about their interests and yours. See if you have some in common, things like that. Show an interest in things they like to do. Maybe have a little friendly get together and invite them all.

You say they are kind of snobbish, well if they say something snobby, make a joke of it and show them you're willing to get along with them. Ask to study with a couple of them at a time so that one doesn't think you are just trying to get a girlfriend but that you would like them to be friends. And eventually when they see that you can be a friend to them they will trust you individually also.

Don't worry about your weight though. Mature enough girls/guys/people know that a persons weight has nothing to do with how they are inside or how good of a friend they can be. Just be a friend and you will have friends that are real. If someone doesn't accept you because *';I'm kinda chubby';*, then they wouldn't have been a real friend anyway. Real friends don't judge someone by their size.

Because like you say they are the actress type? They could look like models and be totally immature, selfish, stuck up, etc. Or they could be 30 pounds over weight and be the best friends on earth or vice-versa. So if they have a problem with someone because of that persons size, then they aren't worth your time anyway.

Just show them that you have respect for them and would like to be on friendly terms. The ones that can be real friends will come out.

Hope this helps some way.How do I become friends with a girl?
if they are the snobbish actress types.



and your not buff etc.



to them you don't exist. and probably even if you do get to talk to them, they will never consider you their true friend.



unless you see a girl in there that is not like that and is kind hearted. then shes your girl for sure.



Peace..
why MUST you talk to these people? You are not living off of their love. you CAN surv ive without them. Why is it you think they will make your life complete???? dont be a foool
be friendly with the good girls :) ignore the snobs be sweet,funny etc.
dude when your young girls are hard to talk to especially when your bigger then most guys are.. i would suggest being funny like making jokes maybe you can find a way in threw their sence of humor but you shouldnt be depsperate your young for that



when i was young i was always the best dressed most popular skinny guy and every girl liked me but now that im older i got fatter and my self confidence went way done but i bet when you get older you'll be what every women wants



keep your head up try to look for girl that arent so0o0o smug
just start talking to them like when you meet your friends for the first time.
I have to agree with ';Aunt T'; on this one. Just show them respect and eventually they will respect you also. May take longer from them if they are the snobby type, but don't back down. Just get trying without being annoying and show them you can be a great friend.

If you're insecure about your weight, just show them that it has nothing to do with if you can be a friend or not. Don't focus on it and they won't either. Be confident, out-going and friendly.