Thursday, October 28, 2010

GIRLS HELP ME PLEASE How can I become better friends with this girl?

This girl has been in my class since September. We would just talk for a minute or two in class or in the hall. But just recently, we saw each other at a party and we talked for an hour. She seemed really interested in me. But now she just talks to me for a minute or two at school again. How can I become a closer friend to her? like hang out outside of school? We have a lot of the same interests and I want to become her close friend. ThxGIRLS HELP ME PLEASE How can I become better friends with this girl?
Hey,



That's so sweet! Just ask her to hang out on a Friday night, just something casual like watching a movie at your house (possibly with a group of friends if that would be more comfortable). Honestly you'll just have to talk to her and put in the effort, you will get back whatever you put in! You seem really nice, I'm sure she'll be completely flattered. Good luck and I'm sure you'll be close in no time :)



P.S. Remember to just relax too... it seems obvious, but just be confident in yourself!

Also take things nice and slow, but steady enough to keep her interested.GIRLS HELP ME PLEASE How can I become better friends with this girl?
no no no.

what these people are saying is wrong.

don't simply ask her to go somewhere when you don't really talk that much in school except for that one time at a party.

being someone in school, i know that this will just freak her out

sit near her and talk to her a little, like asking her questions about things in class, or what she did for a project or something. then you can start talking about other things outside of school. whatever you do, ease into talking to her slowly, if you randomly want to talk to her a lot, it will be weird for her!
ask her what she is up2 for the weekend somtime and if she says nothing say aw wel me and my friends were thinking of goin to see a movie or whatever! or say you can come rounf to mine to watch a movie if u want...something along those lines! try to be friendly and kind and she will otice you being a nice friend to her!
Invite her somewhere, go to a party or movie or something together. That'll give you something to talk about.
Just ask he to do something at the weekend. Also you could meet up with hear and more of your friend so she becomes part of your circle of friends. This way she will feel more comfortable with you
try sitting beside her in class. be loud, it will get her attention. talk to her before class whole u guys are waiting for the teacher or whatever.
Try asking her to hang out, either in a group setting or not.

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