How do i get a really good friend to become friends with benefits?

Me (guy) and my friend (girl) have been friends for a long time. We think of each other as brother and sister, but were not. How do i get a really good friend to become friends with benefits?How do i get a really good friend to become friends with benefits?
well i recently had the same experience. if she doesnt think of you guys as anything more than a friend, theln you shouldnt want to mess or make things out of order right now. it looks like your friend likes to take things slow...and needs a really good friend right now, more than anything. hey! you never know she just might want to be more real soon. never stop hopping! just remeber to be there for her right now. i hope this advice helps you!How do i get a really good friend to become friends with benefits?
Friends with benefits will just complicate things and one of you will end up getting hurt because one will fall too hard and the other won't. You should either be friends or be in a relationship that you both want.
That's a messy area..even asking her about it could freak her out and mess up your friendship. If you're really close, I wouldn't advise it.
Have a few drinks with her and try to seduce her..

Let it progress naturally..

I doubt that it will go the way of friends with benefits..

More likely it will become a relationship or perhaps just

a one time affair and you will remain friends, without benefits.

Why would you rather have her as a friend with benefits instead of a meaningful exclusive long term relationship ?

You are already friends and like each other and that is more

than half the battle in a long term love affair...
relationship or leave it the way it is. don't go in between..
if you mean medical or other financial benefits then you have no question. marry her!



my personal feelings are that by hooking up with this lady you're already reaping benefits.
I had a very good male friend for 10 years. We were best of friends. Everyone thought we were having an affair, but we weren't. Then, one night, it just happened. We had an over 10 year romantic relationship. But, I married someone else and so did he. We're still really good friends, but wouldn't compromise our marriages now. I guess, it was just something we both needed at the time. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. Patience is a virtue. Hopefully, if it does happen, you will remain friends. Good luck to you both.