Thursday, October 28, 2010

How do I become friends with girls?

Yeah... I'm a 14 year old guy. I have a lot of friends (guys) but basically no ';girl'; friends. There are a lot of girls that is friendly to me but not close enough to be friends. Is there any way to make new ';girl'; friends?How do I become friends with girls?
Talk to them.How do I become friends with girls?
you have to find something to talk to them about...homework is a good start...and then only if ur a good student!
actually, i'd suggest just becoming closer with the girls that are comfortable with. talk %26amp; hang out with them more. and to make a new girl friend, be yourself and talk.
questions like this make me laugh
talk to them about subjects that they are interested in, try school, or sports
Just be yourself. Unless your a huge butt then fake everything! lol jk jk haha but just be funny and talk to them and you will be fine
well sometimes making friends with girls is tough. The first thing you should know is that hanging w/ girls is wayyyy different that hanging w/ guys. girls like 2 do a lot of talking, while guys like to do activities. to become friends w/ girls just be kind to them and start a conversation. if u have a girl as a partner for a project take this as an opportunity to make a new friend. but if u randomly say ';hi'; to a girl you can be giving off the wrong vibes. she may think ';whats up w/ that weirdo, i dk who that even was'; she may think ';does he like me or something'; if u have any opportunity to start a conversation, take it and who knows where it could go. girls like to be around laid back guys w/ a good sense of humor. girls like dependable, smart (as in common sense type thing), funny, friendly guys. girls like guys who pay attention to detail, as in like if she was sad u would be able to tell and ask her whats wrong. start w/ the girls that are friendly, if i girl says hi 2 u in the hallway say hi back. ask her what she thought about that ';impossible test'; last period. be relaxed and don't force anything. start w/ short conversations for awhile, and over time u should make some girl friends. though getting girl friends comes at the price of added drama, and is a harder type of friendship 2 keep. girls may take things 2 seriously sometimes, and u need 2 think before u say stuff, ESPECIALLY in the beginning of a friendship. saying the wrong thing could turn her off, and a lot of girls can hold a grudge. When in doubt just dont say it, normally comparing something about her 2 some1 else ends badly, unless that person is a famous movie star or the most popular girl at school. best of luck, hope this helps!
I am 14 too! i am in the same situation as you maybe you could help me out too. except im a girl.



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ummm. Begin with conversation about something the two of you have in common. If you know she likes the theater or dancing, begin a conversation about that. Show interest in the subject yourself, or ask her for her reasons for enjoying the hobby or passion. Ask questions. When a girl becomes friends with someone she thinks is a good listener, it is usually because they ask questions and allow her to talk about herself. Be supportive. Even if you don't agree with her opinions or what she is saying to you, simply support her views and help to validate her opinion's worth. Figure out her character. Try to understand that girls may share collective traits, but that each girl is different. Stereotyping a girl as having to be an emotional mess or a shopaholic will blind you to realizing her specific traits. Confide in her. To become friends with a girl means sharing emotions and secrets with her. You must be open and honest, and be receptive to her honesty, as well. Laugh with her, not at her. When you become friends with a girl, you must understand when it is OK to laugh at her mistakes. This is usually when she is able to laugh at them, herself.



hope i helped!!!! :)

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