I am having problems with this girl I really like, and she likes me. In the class, there is a lot of tension between us because we are both thinking the same thing, ABOUT EACHOTHER!
I need some help with conversation starters and were to go with them. I am I really shy person, so I have difficulties with these sort of things.
Please help me with conversation starters and were to go with them, this is driving me crazy, and how should I also ask her if she wants to sit at lunch with me? THANKS!!How should I get to become friends with this girl I have confirmed really likes me?
Just go up and ask her do you want lunch with her.How should I get to become friends with this girl I have confirmed really likes me?
maybe you should..
be yourself
try to talk to her or ask her out but if you get nervous and you don't know what to say write a script practice it then yea!!
The best thing to do is ';be yourself,'; even as cheesy as that advice has become. She likes you because of who you are so don't change anything.
But its also good to relax. Nerves are hard to control but just play it cool and you will be fine.
As for a conversation starter, try asking her what she is up to this weekend. Perhaps ask what she's doing for Thanksgiving. Is she traveling anywhere?
Then ask her if she would like to hang out. Maybe see a movie or come over to your place and watch a movie. If you are comfortable with her meeting your family, ask her over for dinner!
Just remember to relax and you'll be fine!
If you know she likes you, your 1/2 way there
... whatever you do DO NOT use corny lines and tricks, girls like the direct approach best, but If you are very shy, try asking her something about your class, like if you can look at her notes or something like that just to get your foot in the door, and then drift into lunch and what they are serving, whether she likes it or not, and then say something like hey if you want we could sit together at lunch and talk some more
While your at lunch you can ask about the weekend, what she's doing and ask if she might want to hang out or catch a movie together or something.
just go slow and you'll do just fine ...
Good Luck!!
hi there....believe me bro...i been to your position.. i know the girl likes me i also like her but got no words to tell her...
may be when u guyz have eye-contacts...please try to smile softly and gently...dont hold your eyes for long time....
try to compliment her... about her look,dressup,hair style, eyes, anything small thing but in a gentle way.......make her realize that you do notice small things about her everyday...
this will make her realize that you do give her importance..
about lunch.....man bring her to your comfort zone...it will be easier for you to make her sit with you in lunch.
take care
wish u guys luck.
cheers
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