How can i become friends with girls? Im 13 btw?

Im a 13 yr old guy. Im not totally ugly at least i dont think so nor really hot but im trying a different approach in my clothing. Anyway i have a few good girl friends (2 words) but ive never been great with them. I need someone to start a conversation but then im fine. I need to know how to approach girls i may or may not know and how to start a conversation and make them interested in me. What can i do to make myself stand out to girls? Im not necessarily looking for a gf but just 2 become friends. Mainly how can i approach them without being gay? Will they think im just another guy after them or what? ThxHow can i become friends with girls? Im 13 btw?
I think that you shouldn't be worried about starting a conversation, if you arent sure what to say, just ask them a question.

for example you could ask what they did at the weekend. and they might say ';oh i went to the movies to see.....';

and a conversation will deveop from there !!



So that you don't seem to be repeating yourself, ask questions about things and activites you have heard them talk about so that they know you have listend and will also ask you thinks in return.



I hope i helped, even if it is confusing to read. (:How can i become friends with girls? Im 13 btw?
dude trust me, you don't want female friends. Get them to be your girlfriend or nothing. guys and girls as friends doesn't work
go up to them of your age
im a 13 year old guy to...



compliment them as much as you can... dont get annoying... gradually move up from little conversations to big ones.



i have lots of girl friends...



BTW im straight to answer your question lol :D
i agree with Jon friends that are girls are called trouble im 14 guy too
just talk to them in the halls and stuff like say hey (name) whats up?
well you need to listen in on their conversations,

see what they are talking about,

try to understand there dislikes and likes.

then just go for it, comment on something or compliment a girl,

but dont be all flirty and stuff,



just be really down to earth with them, dont show off,



they wont think your wierd if you start talking to them about random stuff, they will like it,
Talking about school is always a good bet. Music, movies, stuff that you both have in common.
If you're in school, ask for help on a homework question, and present yourself then. be a little overconfident, but not a douchebag. go for it and you'll never look back
lol ur funny :) girls lik to hav guy friends tht thy cn tlk to, but don jus walk ovr to a bunch of girls and say hey and start flirting. In class sit nxt to thm and jus start tlking. but make sure u hav something important to tlk about.
just be yourself and some girl out there will be your friend you should be nice don't flirt too much tho kk trust me girls like guuys who r nice or at least i do lol and we want them to be funny. If ur gonna aproach a girl just say hey wats up and tell them something interesting u did or r going to do if u got nothing say i have nothing to do lets hang out
hey dude...



i've been with the same girl for a few years now, but.. i have to say that between anything from 1 date to any sort of a relationship, i've had well over 200, and .. to be honest i've slept with around 100 women...



i grew up eventually, and or, i found the right one who i can tolerate being with, so no longer have to search..



BUT.... when i was on the market i lived by a few principles. it's too hard to explain it all at once..



but.. i will say this. I asked a question on yahoo the other day to prove a point to one of my friends. the question was about what TYPE of guy that girls liked... if you can read between the lines of what they said, you will gain a LOT of useful insight and knowledge about what you need to do to fulfill the question you asked..



http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…



that is the link to the post..



just about all of them answered the same way..



if you have specific questions for me, i'd be happy to oblige you with some good places to do your research.



good luck bud
i always like it when the guy starts the conversation. i like when it is really vague though so that i can have some room to talk about what i want. start with a ';what's up'; or ';how's your day going so far';. get then talking then you can start talking.

good luck ;-)
This might sound stupid, but say hi and smile, talk about anything if you get the chance, and if she actually talks back to you, then you guys can take it from there.
for your girl friends (two words) just be casual...ya know not flirting just talk to them...good luck!
act funny :] talk about like movies and music and tv and not sports all the time lol cuz that can get annoying and in the halls just be like hey whoever and stuff like that, it all depends on how you act if girls think u wanna date or something
okay...

1) dont approach girls with a weird type of feeling, like your trying to force the relationship (friendship) 2) dont act like a douche bag. dont make yourself look like an *** thinking that your being funny. thats a no no. just do things you like... go to the school sports or any activity that your school might be hosting and it should be very easy to meet new friends.... trust me.
Just try to be funny in a way a girl can enjoy and want to be around u
Go up to them. Hope i helped.
wow. do not listen to. ???▼??▌ ? JON ? ?▄▄▲▄▄▌ . Guys and girls can be friends. My closest friends are guys (Im a girl). Just be confident. Don't try to relate to a girl though. unless they're a tomboy lol.
Mainly, just be yourself. Be open and friendly, without being overbearing. Trust me, they won't think you're gay unless you only have female friends or act very flamboyant.



Talk about classes you share, food, music, movies, favorite tv shows.
Well see here, I'm a 16 year old girl. The way I usually become friends with guys is by them saying ';hi my name is...'; and then I'll say ';nice to meet you. my name is..'; and then we'll talk about school and then we'll talk about someone walking by and stuff like that. Most of my friends are guys. I don't like to be friends with girls, they're too dramatic. I'm straight and that's how I met my boyfriend XD good luck XD (and girls and guys CAN be friends. don't listen to those other dorks XD) good luck!
Find something that strikes you about them and compliment them on it, ask them where they got it from, whatever, to keep the conversation going.

Ask whereabouts they live, any brothers or sisters, etc. Look them in the eyes, stand how they are standing, and smile often.
I'm a 13 year old girl. Make them laugh and they'll think about you after
dont compliment them all the time or they will get the wrong idea lol. but talk to them at skool ,like ask them wat class there going to and stuff like that. txt them wats up but dont anwser in 1 word txts cuz that bothers me and all my friends alot! play 21 questions to get to know them, but we tend to have drama so be prepared to listen ;) not all girls are easy to talk though, and it always helps to be funny :D

good luckk -jess
Im 13 and almost all my friends r guys!! so wetever other ppl r sayin about how it doesnt work.... it does! Just be ur self and if they r a true friend thats all it should take!!